Hello!
I’m going to be honest, I like the idea of being unwilling and getting poorly treated, Or as we say, “Cruel stuff” in my fantasies.
I know I’m far from being alone but everytime I talk about it, I feel like the “gentle stuff” people always make me feel guilty about it in a way…
I know that it’s questionnable when it comes to the consentement of fictionnal character, But is it that bad if, Per exemple, I consent to being unwilling in say, A Roleplay?
I’m genuinely asking, I feel like it’s not really okay in the eyes of some people in the size community… But a good friend of mine says it’s just that they’re uncomfortable with it and it’s… unwilling fiction, therefore they assimilate it as “big bad thing” but I’m a bit confused about it… I fantasies about being unwilling but I like… consent to it?
What do you guys think?
(I’m super duper sorry for my sh*t explanation, It’s really hard to explain both the feeling, and my fantasies about being willing to be unwilling… you get what i mean)