I like… the push pull, where both sides have some levers on the other, even if it’s just on emotional manipulation or something, making both ends of the equation active, if unequal, actors. If it’s just the basic ‘bigger person grabs smaller one, sex’, it’s… bland, almost? The situation, the relationship, that dynamic, flavors it.

In the same way, I’m interested in levels of dehumanization, but it can go too far, because it’s the fact that they are people that make it so interesting. If you reduce the woman to just an object, so much of what makes everything special is gone; it’s like you’ve replaced a gem with a Christmas light.

Personally, I’ve always liked scenarios where there is interaction between giant and tiny; with at least one of them being aware of the size discrepancies between them. There doesn’t have to be intentional intimate or romantic relationship between them (though still very welcome), because that interaction is inherently intimate (not sexual) to me and gives me those wonderful fluttery little butterflies in my stomach. These days, I’m less repulsed by sexual scenarios and have dabbled in creating stories and drawings myself - frankly, they’re like an MA or R-rated extension to the fluffy stuff I like anyway.

Yeah, I’m not quite the exact same as you, I like all the girly bits, and dicks are… ugh. Not interested, but good/tolerable in limited quantities? How they’re used to present the women?

I’ve never really had any interest in sex, but I feel like, in some way, I grew out of even my fetish-y interest in sex? The power dynamics and relationships and so on interest me, and the sex is general just kind of folded in there (not even getting into the 'are women even into this??? that gets in my head at times).

Regardless, these days I’m more interested in cuddling and actually sleeping together, though I figure at least part of that is the all consuming exhaustion thing.