Does anyone feel this way about F/m
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I am sorry if I come across as shaming F/m. F/m is not inherently bad. These are just my feelings about the genre.
I don’t often look at F/m because it makes me feel uncomfortable so this may just be my feelings. I feel this feeling, like I am being objectified when I look at a lot of F/m. I am not sure if a lot of F/m does objectify women, maybe I just don’t like it because the woman is big and I don’t like feeling big.
It feels as if a lot of women in F/m are dehumanized. I feel this because I see that a lot of giantesses commit mass genocide without remorse. Don’t get me wrong I like evil characters. But the evil to me feel as if it has no deph.
I know this all fantasy but I can’t help but to feel these icky feelings. Size art feels extremely real to me because it feeling real to me makes up for it being impossible for me to be shrunk.
There’s the trope in F/m that makes me feel extremely uncomfortable. It’s the trope where all men shrink. It makes me feel uncomfortable not just because my demographic is not being shrunk and I want to feel like I am being shrunk. But also because I feel like a lot of men would use that trope to objectify women, I feel as if it also could objectify men because it assumes all men want to be shrunk.
I know it’s wrong to kink shame people and that this trope being kept just as fantasy is not wrong. I honestly find the idea of a society where all the women are tiny and all the men are gigantic to be arousing because it works for me being bi. So I understand bi men who like the opposite trope. Unfotunatly I can’t help but to feel icky due to the lack of gender equality this trope has. I have made up a fictional species of human where sexual dimorphism makes the men gigantic and the women and intersex are normal sized to avoid objectifying men, they are all cis because I want it to just be M/f.
I honestly wrote the “anomoly that reduced out of hand” out of spite and jealousy for F/m fans. I was a bit apprehensive about writing it because I thought it might give a man the same icky feelings I am trying to explain in this post. I wrote it anyways because if men wrote this trope with F/m, then I can write it with M/f. I apologize for the poor characterization, I am bad at writing and I don’t mean to objectify men.
Maybe my feelings about F/m are invalid and a lot of F/m doesn’t objectify women. I wrote this in the hopes of resolving my feelings. Please tell me why you think my thoughts are invalid if you think so.
I may have a size that is small, but my will is bigger than you all.
I have a blue sky now btw. Also only feel comfortable with being tiny.
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@TakoAlice8 speaking as a single straight man I’m happy to be objectified but honestly I’ve always seen giant and giantess less as people and more of forces of nature. Hence the shallowness of the evil after all a tidal wave can kill you and us bad but real evil requires intent to target the individual or group like the difference between stepping on a ant without notice vs stomping it. I feel all the time that treating a tiny woman like a toy or a snack is objectifying them even if there into it plus mental health is funny so the way I see things is different to how you perceive it hope I’m understanding what your saying while offering my take not trying to trivialise your feelings just trying to offer my post work day stream of consciousness
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@The-Big-G This is a very good take. I appreciate it a lot.
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Broadly, I’m really tired of F/m being the dominant size concept. Really tired. There has to be more of us but by god does no one want to admit it, I guess.
More specifically, every time I try to dip my toes into F/m, it always seem to objectify the man, especially if it’s a broad shrinking thing. The women, meanwhile, are just casually living their lives.
Full honesty here, I know it’s a personal thing on my part because I love it when these things are applied to women, but well. I don’t want it to apply to me. Beyond that, probably because of how my brain is wired, small, powerless, objectified, whatever- that’s hot. Vulnerability is hot. But men aren’t hot, not to me, so every time I see it part of my brain just disengages from the attraction of the concept, even if the big woman herself is hot, because it’s trying to apply a sexy concept to something unsexy, like trying to be attracted to a rock.
shrug
I know my kinks. I’m not terribly proud of them, but I know them. And beyond in a broad ‘the woman in this picture is really sexy’ kind of way, F/m is never going to be one of them.
