Warning: I know I have complained a lot about the inequalities in the size community especially between the F/m and M/f community. Incase you are tired of hearing my complaints about this please don’t read the rest of my post. This is just something I had to get off my chest, if it upsets anyone too much I will delete this post. I am not attacking any groups, I will be talking about the F/m community quite a bit but I will not be attacking them or going against them in anyway. These are just purely my feelings.

Ok on with what I am about to say. I hope this doesn’t violate any guildlines or ruin the forum experience.

I know this site was created for fans of gigantic men and tiny women. And there is also gigantic men content that exists on the internet. But for some reason, I cannot help but to feel this way sometimes. I feel really jealous of tiny men, especially of F/m fans. I feel really jealous of them because their community is so prosperous and rich with content. There are many games, art, stories, and videos made for F/m fans. Because there is just so much content, I just can’t help to get jealous at times. I also feel jealous at them because they represent macrophilia outside of the size community. Macrophilia is known as the giantess fetish because of them. This has bothered me so much that I sometimes have wished I were a man so I can have this abundance of content to cater towards me. I know that I can never be a man because it would mean changing my entire brain and dna structure. I have tried to cope with this jealousy many times but it keeps coming back. I do like the M/f community being small, I honestly like how this forum has an underground feeling to it because it is not super popular currently. (To be honest, this website is surprisingly very well designed for a forum site.) But it can be really tough trying to cope with being jealous of a community that is far more abundant than yours. I have tried avoiding giantess content and only looking at M/f or M/m to give myself the illusion there is as much male giant content as there is giantess content. But it is really hard to avoid giantess content because it is everywhere.
I really hope posting this will help me better cope with the jealousy I feel towards the F/m community. This has been a very emotional post for me. It was very long. If this somehow offends anyone, I will delete this post.
If you have managed to read this whole thing, I applaud you and thank you for listening to my feelings.

Anyways, that is all I have to say and have a good day

I wanted to make this post not just because it makes my blood boil when people say M/f G/t is misogynistic. But also to bring anybody who feels ashamed of their fetish acceptance of their self. I am honestly guilty of feeling ashamed in the past of being a woman with macrophilia because I thought it was wrong. And I thought it was wrong because it was related to misogyny.

Let me tell you why your fetishes are not wrong

First of all, for all the giantess fans who think women should only be the dominant ones because they are powerless in real life. Women are not powerless in real life because they can perform the same cognitive functions as men and have amazing physical advantages just like men. Yes they may be oppressed but it doesn’t make them any less powerful. It also worsens the oppression and is actually misogynistic by telling them they are not allowed be submissive and only men are allowed to do that.

Second of all, it is not feminist to like dominant women. No there is nothing wrong with liking dominant women. But if you want to be a true feminist then talk to real women and research civil rights issues, then spread awareness about it to help. Looking at content of dominant women will not teach people to fight for equality and so it is not feminist. It is also not empowering to women because as I said, not all women like to be dominant. Empowerment comes in many different forms other than overpowering something. To be honest, you shouldn’t chose for someone what is empowering to them or not. Especially if you are a man and you say something is empowering to women.

Third of all, M/f is not abusive to women because there is lots of content of giantesses getting bloody with tiny people. And so you are a hypocrite for saying it is a giant men can’t have their fun and make their blood art too. Remember people, you can’t hit a girl. Unless she attacks you or you are a giant man and she is your tiny pet, then go for it ;).

And so, M/f is not misogynistic but people who say it is misogynistic are the real misogynists

I hoped this helped. I didn’t want to turn this into another rant because I was worried it may worsen the browsing experience. I am aware there is a kink resources page but I wanted to post this to help people feel further validated and to give back for people helping me feel validated here.

Thank you for reading this.

I know a lot of people who identify as a tiny tend to love feeling helpless and submissive. But I think us tinies can be tough and not helpless.

I think SW content can bring out a lot of feminism and girl power because the tiny lady is seen as weak because of her size, but she manages to utilize her large surroundings and make use of her “weak” size to prove that she is strong no matter what size she is.

I have been thinking about scenarios where the tiny lady gets kidnapped, then she finds a way to escape, or beats up her captor as revenge. When ever I imagine scenarios where I am kidnapped by a giant or look at M/f content where the a tiny lady gets abducted, I like to put myself in the shoes of the tiny and devise ways to escape.

I also like scenarios where the tiny lady beats up a huge guy buy using her tiny size to climb his body and reach his weak points to stun him and go for the attack.

If you are wondering how I got on, I used tape to climb on. Be careful with tape, your whole body can get stuck to it.

This red mushroom is very beautiful, but the white specks were a bit uncomfortable
6/10

I rested on one of these, I like how they are flat on the top, perfect to lay on.
9/10

This mushroom’s uneven surface hurt my back and it was difficult to climb on.
1/10

Let me know if you have any recommendations of mushrooms great for laying on. I could always use a good sunbathe on a mushroom.

@tiny-ivy said in Something to get off my chest:

Is it really feminist to worship giant women as oversized and dommy sex objects? Some male F/m fans still fail to see women as human beings first, sexual objects second.

These F/m fans don’t seem know what feminism actually is. Feminism is about respecting women and letting them be themselves, not forcing them into a domineering position. Which is why it pisses me off when people label M/f as misogynistic. If you don’t struggle with misogyny or have grasped an understanding of what it is, then you have no right to label what is misogynistic or not.

I am bi, and so I swing towards guys and gals. But I have always had this hunger of feeling tiny. I love the fantasy of being shrunk by a man who then starts to tower over me. But there are times where I want to be tiny but feel gay.

I am not super into giantesses because I have a very complicated relationship with them partially due to them being oversexualized.

So I have recently been having fantasies where I shrink and I am with a girl who shrinks with me and we both become equally tiny. I had created an imaginary place sort of like a lesbian bar that is just for women to shrink to and be with each other. I had recently drew a picture of me being tiny and playing with a pixie’s hair who is also tiny with me. I am not sure I want to share the picture because it feels personal.

I feel as if this fantasy brings peace me because I feel as if me and the girl I am with being shrunken together has brought us far away from homophobia and lesbian fetishization. I found out I don’t always want to be shrunk just to be with someone way bigger than me.

I wanted to share this to see if there are other gay woman who feel the same or just people’s thoughts on this.

@Olo I really hope they find someone new to run the site and keep it good. I really hope that it doesn’t shut down for good.

It will be really sad it shuts down. Gay men need their sizy sites too

I felt like making an Alice and wonderland themed size picture. Alice and wonderland is one of my favorite books and influences on my size fetish. I also tried to give this a fairy tale vibe because size scenarios are perfect for a fairy tale atmosphere. And so I made this look as if it were on old paper.

This is not only an Alice and Wonderland themed picture, but it’s also Genshin Impact fan art. I wanted to see childe as a mad hatter but I also like seeing him as a macro, same story with lumine but with her micro and as Alice. And so this is what my brain churned out in the end.

(Childe and Lumine are from the video game Genshin Impact and is owned by MiHoyo. All rights belong to their respective owners)

Hello everyone, the last post went really well. So I hope this post goes well too and helps other people.This topic has been itching me for quite a bit. This is the topic of the thought of going outside your preferred scale.

This post is mainly asking people who prefer to be only minuscule or only enormous, but people who like both are more than welcome to answer.

If you like being gigantic, how does the thought of being small make you feel and vise versa.

For me, the thought of it makes me feel really uncomfortable and I can’t stand to think about it. It is the reason why I don’t enjoy F/m very often. Seeing that most of the size community was mostly F/m was very unbearable. It lead me to develop an unhealthy relationship with giantesses. To clarify, despite giantesses being everywhere in the community, they have made me feel really uncomfortable. I try to avoid looking at any giantess content now. There are a few that don’t make me uncomfortable.

Although I heard that many women who like being tiny also get very uncomfortable at the thought of being huge. I wanted to post this to delve deeper into the subject.

I am glad people like my posts, this site has been very therapeutic for me. Everyone on here is has been very supportive of me.

I may also consider posting art since I like to draw and I have a few I am currently hiding. They will only be SFW though since I am not super into sexual scenarios.

I have quite a few size fantasies. Some of them have quite a bit of world building, some of them have no world building and are just a huge guy and a tiny women. I have this size fantasy where I woke up in a white void with a door, walked through the door and found my self in a mansion for a giant with a maid outfit on suddenly, I was forced to serve a huge master and I now have to find a way out the mansion. Sometimes they are told through first person and sometimes third. Do your size fantasies often have lots of world building or detailed stories, or do they have no stories and just involve a people at abnormal sizes?

I recently had been diagnosed with body dysmorphia disorder after having to got to the mental hospital(I am still not sure if it’s an official diagnosis, it said on my discharge forms I have BDD). I mainly have body dysmorphia with my height, I honestly feel a bit embarrassed about having BD with my height because usually people have it with their weight and face.

Before I got diagnosed I had been using g/t unconsciously to cope. I used both M/f works from other people and I would draw myself as a tiny person.

I used to get very jealous of men because I felt they had more size media to go to if they ever felt too large. I also felt as if the culture around F/m being the dominant fantasy in the community also made me feel jealous and upset because it feels as if the culture was forcing me to be something I feel very very uncomfortable with. But ever since I found out I had BD and that I had been using size media as a cope for it, the jealousy had died down a bit because I am now more aware of the origins of my emotions.

I really really hate feeling large. But I am also body dysmorphic about my height, I always feel as if I am too tall or large. So drawing myself as a less than one inch person makes me feel the way I want to feel.

Unfortunately people shorter than me(5’4”, no hate to anyone who is shorter than me) trigger my body dysmorphia and make me feel self conscious. I always feel this anxiety in the back of my head, people shorter than me might comment on how much taller I am than them.
I feel like the drawings I made of me being tiny, even if they are low effort, help me feel more comfortable in public and around people shorter than me.
M/f media other people made also achieve this but I feel as if the drawings of me being tiny helped the most because they shrink me. And also media where there are a race of people much larger than humans achieved the same effect of drawings of me tiny.
It’s also why I personally feel very uncomfortable at size media with people much smaller than humans. I still think that media has a right to exist, even though I personally don’t like it. People worked very hard to animate The Secret World of Arrietty, it must have thousands of drawings.

M/f G/t and overall G/t used to be a fetish for me. And then it became a romantic interest to me(maybe still a fetish but with no sexual undertones). And now it’s so much more. To me, it’s an aesthetic, an interest, a romantic interest, and a mental illness cope.

Which is why I personally hate it when people think of the size community, they just think of “the giantess fetish”.

Does anyone else feel the same way about G/t and size? Does anybody else use size media as a mental illness cope?

@i-am-insane said in Asexual Thoughts:

Ah, another for the ‘Ace but weirdly and deeply into a really kinky fetish you probably can’t ever explain to anyone normal camp’. Welcome!

I am very proud to be a member of the camp. We are a very humble community.

@Calypsa I feel the exact same way as you do. I am asexual and never liked size media with sexual undertones a lot even though I can tolerate them. I have always been into non sexual size media.

But I honestly don’t just like gentle, I like it when the giant teases the tiny. I also like a yandere giants and giants that are dominant or evil in a fun cartoony way(like the evil dr from Phineas and Ferb) that is not sexual too.

@OptimisticSizes I very glad I am not kink shaming because I am sex positive even though I am ace.

@Olo that shading is beautiful

@i-am-insane said in Does anyone feel this way about F/m:

@TakoAlice8

More seriously, I get the overly empathetic bit- whenever I try to come with ideas I like from stories I like, a lot of general story concepts I like have the big be… well. Kind of a dick? All of the bullying and threatening and killing and stuff.

And I like that, except I don’t want to do that to someone. Or, honestly, even watch that done to someone… even though I do? I only really want it in the fictional concept, but the second I try to picture me writing something like that there’s too much of me in the giant to do it.

Inside me there’s two giants fighting over how to deal with fetish material and the conflict is leaving my ability to make a story in shambles.

I like M/f scenarios where the larger person makes fun of or teases the smaller person, not to bully but to provoke the tiny person. It just has that annoying older sibling dynamic. The larger person is being mean but they aren’t being abusive mean. It’s a lighter version of the bullying.

I also like it when the larger person tires to scare the smaller person by showing his teeth at her. It’s a lighter version of the killing to me.

@Olo Oh now that I see it, I wasn’t upset with people in F/m being “Objectified”. I was upset with how hegemonic F/m is again. I suppose because I am ace I feel uncomfortable with “Objectification” in fetish media and so I have a hard time understanding how it could not make someone uncomfortable. I also tend to be overly empathetic towards fictional people so that was also probably why I got uncomfortable.

I am still trying to figure out what kind of size media I like. It turns out I am my brain is not as tolerant size media with sexual undertones as I thought.

Alright keep being kinky.

@miss-lillipants Where did you find such gold?

@Olo I am personally not attracted to beards and facial hair in general

@The-Big-G This is a very good take. I appreciate it a lot.