I am sorry if I come across as shaming F/m. F/m is not inherently bad. These are just my feelings about the genre.
I don’t often look at F/m because it makes me feel uncomfortable so this may just be my feelings. I feel this feeling, like I am being objectified when I look at a lot of F/m. I am not sure if a lot of F/m does objectify women, maybe I just don’t like it because the woman is big and I don’t like feeling big.
It feels as if a lot of women in F/m are dehumanized. I feel this because I see that a lot of giantesses commit mass genocide without remorse. Don’t get me wrong I like evil characters. But the evil to me feel as if it has no deph.
I know this all fantasy but I can’t help but to feel these icky feelings. Size art feels extremely real to me because it feeling real to me makes up for it being impossible for me to be shrunk.
There’s the trope in F/m that makes me feel extremely uncomfortable. It’s the trope where all men shrink. It makes me feel uncomfortable not just because my demographic is not being shrunk and I want to feel like I am being shrunk. But also because I feel like a lot of men would use that trope to objectify women, I feel as if it also could objectify men because it assumes all men want to be shrunk.
I know it’s wrong to kink shame people and that this trope being kept just as fantasy is not wrong. I honestly find the idea of a society where all the women are tiny and all the men are gigantic to be arousing because it works for me being bi. So I understand bi men who like the opposite trope. Unfotunatly I can’t help but to feel icky due to the lack of gender equality this trope has. I have made up a fictional species of human where sexual dimorphism makes the men gigantic and the women and intersex are normal sized to avoid objectifying men, they are all cis because I want it to just be M/f.
I honestly wrote the “anomoly that reduced out of hand” out of spite and jealousy for F/m fans. I was a bit apprehensive about writing it because I thought it might give a man the same icky feelings I am trying to explain in this post. I wrote it anyways because if men wrote this trope with F/m, then I can write it with M/f. I apologize for the poor characterization, I am bad at writing and I don’t mean to objectify men.
Maybe my feelings about F/m are invalid and a lot of F/m doesn’t objectify women. I wrote this in the hopes of resolving my feelings. Please tell me why you think my thoughts are invalid if you think so.