Warning: I know I have complained a lot about the inequalities in the size community especially between the F/m and M/f community. Incase you are tired of hearing my complaints about this please don’t read the rest of my post. This is just something I had to get off my chest, if it upsets anyone too much I will delete this post. I am not attacking any groups, I will be talking about the F/m community quite a bit but I will not be attacking them or going against them in anyway. These are just purely my feelings.

Ok on with what I am about to say. I hope this doesn’t violate any guildlines or ruin the forum experience.

I know this site was created for fans of gigantic men and tiny women. And there is also gigantic men content that exists on the internet. But for some reason, I cannot help but to feel this way sometimes. I feel really jealous of tiny men, especially of F/m fans. I feel really jealous of them because their community is so prosperous and rich with content. There are many games, art, stories, and videos made for F/m fans. Because there is just so much content, I just can’t help to get jealous at times. I also feel jealous at them because they represent macrophilia outside of the size community. Macrophilia is known as the giantess fetish because of them. This has bothered me so much that I sometimes have wished I were a man so I can have this abundance of content to cater towards me. I know that I can never be a man because it would mean changing my entire brain and dna structure. I have tried to cope with this jealousy many times but it keeps coming back. I do like the M/f community being small, I honestly like how this forum has an underground feeling to it because it is not super popular currently. (To be honest, this website is surprisingly very well designed for a forum site.) But it can be really tough trying to cope with being jealous of a community that is far more abundant than yours. I have tried avoiding GTS content and only looking at GT to give myself the illusion there is as much male giant content as there is giantess content. But it is really hard to avoid giantess content because it is everywhere.
I really hope posting this will help me better cope with the jealousy I feel towards the F/m community. This has been a very emotional post for me. It was very long. If this somehow offends anyone, I will delete this post.
If you have managed to read this whole thing, I applaud you and thank you for listening to my feelings.

Anyways, that is all I have to say and have a good day

I wanted to make this post not just because it makes my blood boil when people say M/f G/t is misogynistic. But also to bring anybody who feels ashamed of their fetish acceptance of their self. I am honestly guilty of feeling ashamed in the past of being a woman with macrophilia because I thought it was wrong. And I thought it was wrong because it was related to misogyny.

Let me tell you why your fetishes are not wrong

First of all, for all the giantess fans who think women should only be the dominant ones because they are powerless in real life. Women are not powerless in real life because they can perform the same cognitive functions as men and have amazing physical advantages just like men. Yes they may be oppressed but it doesn’t make them any less powerful. It also worsens the oppression and is actually misogynistic by telling them they are not allowed be submissive and only men are allowed to do that.

Second of all, it is not feminist to like dominant women. No there is nothing wrong with liking dominant women. But if you want to be a true feminist then talk to real women and research civil rights issues, then spread awareness about it to help. Looking at content of dominant women will not teach people to fight for equality and so it is not feminist. It is also not empowering to women because as I said, not all women like to be dominant. Empowerment comes in many different forms other than overpowering something. To be honest, you shouldn’t chose for someone what is empowering to them or not. Especially if you are a man and you say something is empowering to women.

Third of all, M/f is not abusive to women because there is lots of content of giantesses getting bloody with tiny people. And so you are a hypocrite for saying it is a giant men can’t have their fun and make their blood art too. Remember people, you can’t hit a girl. Unless she attacks you or you are a giant man and she is your tiny pet, then go for it ;).

And so, M/f is not misogynistic but people who say it is misogynistic are the real misogynists

I hoped this helped. I didn’t want to turn this into another rant because I was worried it may worsen the browsing experience. I am aware there is a kink resources page but I wanted to post this to help people feel further validated and to give back for people helping me feel validated here.

Thank you for reading this.

I know a lot of people who identify as a tiny tend to love feeling helpless and submissive. But I think us tinies can be tough and not helpless.

I think SW content can bring out a lot of feminism and girl power because the tiny lady is seen as weak because of her size, but she manages to utilize her large surroundings and make use of her “weak” size to prove that she is strong no matter what size she is.

I have been thinking about scenarios where the tiny lady gets kidnapped, then she finds a way to escape, or beats up her captor as revenge. When ever I imagine scenarios where I am kidnapped by a giant or look at M/f content where the a tiny lady gets abducted, I like to put myself in the shoes of the tiny and devise ways to escape.

I also like scenarios where the tiny lady beats up a huge guy buy using her tiny size to climb his body and reach his weak points to stun him and go for the attack.

@tiny-ivy said in Something to get off my chest:

Is it really feminist to worship giant women as oversized and dommy sex objects? Some male F/m fans still fail to see women as human beings first, sexual objects second.

These F/m fans don’t seem know what feminism actually is. Feminism is about respecting women and letting them be themselves, not forcing them into a domineering position. Which is why it pisses me off when people label M/f as misogynistic. If you don’t struggle with misogyny or have grasped an understanding of what it is, then you have no right to label what is misogynistic or not.

@Olo I really hope they find someone new to run the site and keep it good. I really hope that it doesn’t shut down for good.

It will be really sad it shuts down. Gay men need their sizy sites too

I have quite a few size fantasies. Some of them have quite a bit of world building, some of them have no world building and are just a huge guy and a tiny women. I have this size fantasy where I woke up in a white void with a door, walked through the door and found my self in a mansion for a giant with a maid outfit on suddenly, I was forced to serve a huge master and I now have to find a way out the mansion. Sometimes they are told through first person and sometimes third. Do your size fantasies often have lots of world building or detailed stories, or do they have no stories and just involve a people at abnormal sizes?

Hello everyone, the last post went really well. So I hope this post goes well too and helps other people.This topic has been itching me for quite a bit. This is the topic of the thought of going outside your preferred scale.

This post is mainly asking people who prefer to be only minuscule or only enormous, but people who like both are more than welcome to answer.

If you like being gigantic, how does the thought of being small make you feel and vise versa.

For me, the thought of it makes me feel really uncomfortable and I can’t stand to think about it. It is the reason why I don’t enjoy F/m very often. Seeing that most of the size community was mostly F/m was very unbearable. It lead me to develop an unhealthy relationship with giantesses. To clarify, despite giantesses being everywhere in the community, they have made me feel really uncomfortable. I try to avoid looking at any giantess content now. There are a few that don’t make me uncomfortable.

Although I heard that many women who like being tiny also get very uncomfortable at the thought of being huge. I wanted to post this to delve deeper into the subject.

I am glad people like my posts, this site has been very therapeutic for me. Everyone on here is has been very supportive of me.

I may also consider posting art since I like to draw and I have a few I am currently hiding. They will only be SFW though since I am not super into sexual scenarios.

I know a lot of girls simp over yanderes. I have been consuming quite a bit of yandere content recently. And as macrophile I thought, “Yandere scenarios are interesting, but wouldn’t it be even more interesting if it was g/t?”
Do any tiny ladies like the idea of being invited by a mysterious guy over to his house, getting roofied with a shrinking chemical, then waking up to find that you are tied up and everything is huge?
If you are on the opposite end of the spectrum and you are a huge guy, do you like the idea of being the Yandere?
I would love to hear about any Yandere scenarios or fantasies everyone in the replys have.

@FairyFanatic
I didn’t know people outside of the community thought it was some sort of age play.

Although, I did watch a video of a sexologist breaking down microphilia, and they compared it to pedophilia. I was honestly horrified when they made that comparison because it kind of criminalized the fetish. I wish they could of done more research between pedophilia and microphilia before comparing the two. Pedophilia is a serious topic that should be throughly researched before compared to other things.

As a person who has been in the size community for a while, I can confirm microphilia has absolutely nothing to due with pedophila. All micro enjoyers I have encountered post content with the micro being of age and having absolutely no resemblance to a child whatsoever.
I hope talking about pedophilia didn’t violate the guild lines.
But for all you microphiles…

Please know your that your fetish is not a crime in anyway and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Keep being you and love yourself

@Nyx said in I Claim Chaotic Evil For Us:

As long as it’s kept to fantasy, I try not to judge preferences like “all-men-shrink-because-reasons.” I’ve explored the opposite concept myself (which turned out to be some of my darkest stories).

I understand why this certain trope is loved by size writers. It works really well if you are only attracted to macros of a certain gender. I heavily agree that this trope should only be kept in a fantasy setting in it’s own universe and shouldn’t be used to try to sexualize real people. Other than that I have nothing against people who like this trope.

My personal thoughts on this type of trope is that it is a little difficult to tackle where trans people are put in this trope, but I am very glad the post that started this thread included trans people. Then again, I don’t write, I just read, so I could be wrong about how hard it is to implement trans people in this trope. Then again, I did read a fic with a similar trope and I questioned about where do trans people come in, I just made head cannons to fill in the plot hole.

The “thing only shrinks one gender” trope can be a bit exclusive to some readers which is why I don’t always like this trope. It can be hard for a reader who Identifies as a female tiny to insert themselves into a world where thing only shrinks men and the opposite is also true. But there is nothing wrong with directing your stories at only one demographic. It’s much appreciated however when a story includes all types of audiences. I get it can be a bit of a stretch to include all people but it is impressive when a story is able to do all of that.

I haven’t read all of it, but I enjoyed your story, “Dreams of Distant Spheres.” which has a beautiful sounding title. What’s I really love is that the shrunken people consist of not just women, but I also like how there are nulls. It’s great for people who identify as male and want to insert themselves as nulls. It’s a win win scenario.

Since there are a lot of “all men shrink because reasons” stories. It would really be great if we had those stories but for women and other gender identities to even out things. Other genders should have stories about some thing only shrinking them if men have plenty of these types of stories.

So those are my thoughts overall. I really just wanted to comment on this trope since other people were commenting on it.

@Nyx Dreams of a Distant Sphere has such great world building for a story in general. It feels as if this wasn’t a kinky story it would be a great dystopian story. I know I praised this story before, but I had time to finish it and it is priceless. I just have to praise it again. There is so much angst and overall raw emotion reading it felt like a journey. If this was a full on novel I would definitely get it. Thank you so much for writing that story.

@tiny-ivy Oh you didn’t invalidate me, that could be a possibility

@coolguy69 I am asexual so I am not into nudity but I don’t mind cruelty as long as it’s not sexual, has no scat, vomit, or urine, the tiny is not put down drains or toilets, and the tiny doesn’t interact with mild.

@DFP Are these questions just for people into shrunken women? I am a tiny lady who likes M/f scenarios in general.

@Jötunn last time I checked, about 5’4” or 3” ish. Approximately 161.3 so I am average height for women in my country.

@foreverlurk

I’d rather not think of how I would look like from her vantage point - every defect magnified - my physical self-worth is low enough already. I honestly can’t fathom how scary I’d be to a 3" tall woman.

I am curious, how does this not stop you from loving to shrink women?

This is why I personally don’t ever want to be with a shrunken person or a person much tinier me and I prefer to be the shrunken one.

@protect-tinies Hey are you that massive wall?
(That made my day)

@tiny-ivy That’s weird, I’ve seen a lot of tall guys irl and I became a macrophile.
Well I’m not a monster fucker either. So I don’t have said experience. I do think that there is a big overlap between macrophilia and monster fuckers in general. I have seen people who have made macro micro content also make monster people content. I guess giants could fall under the monster people category.
I guess I like giants better because I like tall guys and they are basically tall guys but on a whole another level.

the overwhelming arrogance and confidence seems to make it better.

This may seem strange but I dig a giant with arrogance, confidence and smugness

@i-am-insane There are so many reasons I want to be shrunk but here are a few.
I think plants and furniture look extremely fascinating when you are shrunk and they look really big from your perspective. It makes you feel as if you are in a magical forest. I also like it because there is more objects to hide under, and having spaces where nobody can find you creates a sense of peace for me. I am really self conscious so being small makes smaller details of you and smells really hard to make out, which makes me feel a sense of comfort.

I guess when it comes to danger when being shrunk, I would much rather feel fear as a shrunken person faced with danger than to become gigantic and feel the pain of embarrassment and awkwardness of having my body stand out for everyone to see. I also just really don’t like the thought of people being intimidated of me for my size and would rather be tiny to appear less intimidating. Emotional pain is too much for me and I have a major limit, dying from extreme physical pain seems better to me because at least the pain would be over. And I heard large wounds hurt less than minor wounds because of the loss of neurons.
I am sorry giantess fans, but you made the thought of growing even worse for me with all the art sexualizing them and you being horny towards them.

I guess we are just completely different people overall, I don’t understand why some people want to be enormous and you don’t understand why some people want to be shrunk.