@The-Big-G it was a lot of fun, maybe we should try for a monthly thing!
Posts made by Giant Gripper
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RE: Meetup this Sunday 5/19
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RE: Sizeplay ideas for couples
@littlest-lily Something my wife and I do occasionally:
We’ll go to a restaurant and we’ll bring 3 sets of high heels and clothes. Over the course of the night, she will go to the bathroom and swap to progressively bigger clothes and smaller heels, creating the illusion that she’s shrinking -
RE: Giants, how do you protect yourselves from tinies bitting your hand?
There was an old savage squirrel comic where the titular character loads a backpack with a hypodermic needle filled with cyanide as a self defense mechanism. A word of caution to my fellow giants: ALWAYS strip your tinies before you play with them. This has been a public service announcement.
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RE: Something to get off my chest
@Giant-Gripper Its a wonder why we can’t find tiny men to run events that would normally cater to them. I wonder why that is.
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RE: Something to get off my chest
@Nyx We need to take back our communities. Part of my personal mission at sizecon has always been leveling the playing field so no one is driven out for their fetishes, only their behavior. We need to push back against the rat dicks and let them know these spaces aren’t for THEM, they are for EVERYONE.
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RE: Something to get off my chest
It’s funny.
I’ve spent my entire post pubescent life grappling with the concept of Male and Female power dynamics. On one hand, I’m a Race and Gender Abolitionist. I’m a good feminist and soldier for Gaia, I believe that patriarchal power structures supported by the capitalistic power of Mammon will not just be the death of my country, but the world if not demolished and abolished. I’ve dedicated my life to fighting the monstrous society under which we all currently exist and long to build a better, more equitable world.
On the other hand, I’m a rapacious sexual sadist with a bottomless appetite for domination, subjugation and blood. I’ve felt a terrible guilt and rage my entire life, nurtured and shaped by my catholic upbringing. I used to beat myself up for liking sexual situations about shrinking and dominating powerless, tiny, helpless women. I truly bought into the fact that I was an evil monster, existing solely on this earth to torment and be tormented.
And then I found the size community.
When I was young, I envied tiny men. Here was a large group of men who found female empowerment sexy by every definition of the phrase. I asked why I was such a coward, someone who needed to dominate and bully his sexual partners to find release. I began overcompensating in the opposite direction. It is for that reason today that even though I’m a perverted weirdo, I still try to be a gentleman.
But as time went on, I started hearing the stories about how these “Sexually enlightened” individuals would bully and harass women for not partaking in their shitty little fantasies. My shame began to metamorphose into seething rage. This whole time, they preached empowerment and women’s lib as a cover to ride a powerful woman like a pack animal. The stories just kept pouring in year after year. My contempt grew like a weed. Not only are these little rat dicks eclipsing all other content, they give the rest of us tangentially related to them a bad name.
I don’t feel this way about tiny gay men, they are an entirely different phenomenon. There is a specific type of straight, mostly white, tiny, usually conservative leaning male. They make my skin crawl and my blood boil.
I began to see this prejudice in myself, and like a good little catholic boy I got out my cat-o-nine-tails and began to punish myself. I went out of my way to be nice to these people. Then one of them stabbed me in the back (Metaphorically).
Don’t envy those people. They are vile. They are beneath your contempt. They are not worthy of your time, attention, or even a moment’s thought. They certainly aren’t worth mine.
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RE: Rejection fuels Non con: Opinions?
@giant-me
If you want to get all freudian about it… maybe? I didn’t have the best home life growing up, but I’ve almost never had trouble finding relationships. Almost every breakup I’ve ever experienced has been me breaking it off with my partner. I never hold ill-will or animosity towards my exes (Even though I’m pretty sure some of them hold it against me for breaking their hearts). Interpersonal relationships are very important to me on a spiritual level and an interpersonal relationship that involves sex is sacrosanct.
Non-con fantasies are almost NEVER about revenge or bitterness (extreme fringe cases, and even then I don’t usually know the people I’m fantasizing about personally). Noncon fantasies are about CONTROL. Life has not been kind to me on a consistent basis. Feelings of anxiety and misery due to the dog-shit nature of the world we live in manifest themselves as a need to control my partner during sex. If I was a cultural conservative, I would probably express this by becoming John Wayne Gacy. Fortunately, the kink community found me first. This is why sexual and kink education as well as sex positivity are issues so close to my heart. I’m grimly aware of what happens to disaffected young men who aren’t taught concepts like “Consent” or “Boundaries”. Do I think sexual and kink education will stop every Elliot Rodger wannabe before they pop off? Of course not. But if I could stop half of them, hell if I could stop ONE then the world would be an objectively better place.
Empathy drives my non-con fantasies. I’ve got my kink drivers license, so I know how to express myself sexually in a way that’s gratifying to me AND my partner. There is no bitterness, only joy. -
RE: Am I The Bad Guy Here?
@mrgoblinging7 said in Am I The Bad Guy Here?:
Should I have just cut them off the moment they started being to much and not finished the story for them?
I’ve had to deal with several people throughout my time in the size community that refuse to respect boundaries. In my experience, the best way to deal with them is identify them quickly and cut them out of your life like the blood sucking tumors they are.
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RE: Something In The Water
@olo For all I know, they could just be a bunch of shrunken women standing on each other’s shoulders in a trench coat, lol
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RE: Something In The Water
I can identify this, this is an anonymous artist on the 4chan SW thread. Some people call him Drawanon or Drawbro.