@olo It’s so true! It’s not even an issue specifically to kinky people, it’s everyone. It’s probably why the divorce rate is so high…lots of folks don’t take the time to hear each other out, and invest back in their partner. They think love should be easy, but really it’s very messy!
As much as I’d wish it so, Disney movie romances are not reality lol. There is no “true love at first sight”. No matter who you end up with, it will always, ALWAYS take work. It’s hard to find romantic and sexual happiness without confronting and accepting your own sexuality first though, so I hope this guide gives them the affirmation needed to engage and introspectively explore their fantasies.