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I have been in therapy off and on for the last seven years. I should have started much earlier. I have never talked about my size kink with a therapist, because by the time I started therapy I had determined that it was neither a cause nor a symptom of more fundamental issues. It was (and remains) a distraction, which can be problematic, but I’m not going to be happier if I could somehow jettison it.

In fact, I talked with my last therapist about finding self-worth in “creative writing.” I admitted that it was “smut-based” writing, and we worked on overcoming shame associated with that. I didn’t specify “the kink” as I was confident that for me Size is just an internal role-playing world that doesn’t need to be externalized.

Longtime readers will remember that I do have a history of self-loathing with regard to the M/f side of Size Fantasy. It’s no great mystery that the origin of this is my disgust and dismay with how every man in my life treats women, starting with my father. Disentangling my expectations from my father’s has been my primary challenge for most of my life, but it got a lot easier when I had a professional to talk to about it.

A real society would provide for everyone to have a therapist or the functional equivalent, and men suffer the most from this lack. To customize the meme, “Men will literally shrink themselves to the size of a mouse and beg women to step on them rather than go to therapy.”

REQUEST 21 by Lord Xarnor

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Leia in the Snackquarium by @AnnDViant

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Tiny Plaything 4 by Mikester65

@i-am-insane I am completely in favor of breaking the stereotype of ugly giants always being mean. An ugly giant who only seems mean because everyone’s afraid of him but who will be gentle when given a chance is basically Beauty and the Beast (or King Kong).

There’s a lot to be said, however, for giants who are ugly or at least unrefined and don’t care that they’re perceived that way. To me, one of the perks of being giant is not having to please anyone. Yeah, that’s my big hairy gut; you got a problem with it, tiny?

Living with a giant can result in something of a Stockholm Syndrome, where you get used to the big ugly guy and accommodating his needs becomes a responsibility you make your own. You might even come to rely on him.

Finally, this concept is not unique to M/f. The unattractive giantess is very much a thing.

@protect-tinies said:

A lot of the traditional ways for men to act macho and superior have fallen out of favor over time and have been widely labeled “toxic,” so the traditional ways are slowly being replaced by new ways.

A Strange Couple and A Strange Couple (Remastered) by Lord Xarnor

From SFW fluffy G/t Tumblr:

Just for closure, the shrinking scene is only a few seconds longer than what we see in the trailer. The two main characters are on their first “date,” going to a trendy restaurant called “Little Italy.” Before the guy outside shrinks them with a “boop,” the male character hunches down and peers through the tiny window, looking at two shrunken women enjoying their dinner (they don’t notice the giant face looking at them). The female character is “booped” first, and after she’s tiny she tells the guy to “boop” her date too.

The gag continues as the two diners eat giant Italian food inside, but there’s no more interaction with giant characters. Later we see them walking home normal-sized, and we never see them return to normal size.

If I had to guess, we’ll probably never see Signor Boop again.

The New Girl by Mikester65

You’re in his DMs. I’m in his mouth, riding his tongue. We are not the same.

ugh balls by SpicyFryd

I saw the GIF first, in 2005. I later found the original illustration, ostensibly dated to 1999, but I cannot make out the signature. Any assistance with sourcing either image would be greatly appreciated (almost as appreciated as a visit from a team of Lilliputian ladies).