@i-am-insane I think it’s because society places unrealistic expectations on women… especially when it comes to our looks and age. What might come off as suffocating and unwanted is our desperation to be acknowledged as attractive while we are still in our “attractive years”. Men have made it abundantly clear you don’t desire us after a certain age. You don’t think it eats me up when I see the “oh you’d be thrown out by your owner once you’re over 25” comments…
I’m also aware of the unfair struggles that men face and I’m not saying you guys don’t have your fair share but the point I’m making is please try and excuse the women who are seeking shallow validation. We only get a few years to where we can positively receive it