Hi I realized as a man, one way I seem to differ from a lot of the M/f community is that I just enjoy when a woman shrinks and keeps her clothes on and just cute stuff happens. I love romantic interactions, I love the trust that’s built, the voice becoming higher pitched, and the emotions and struggles that a woman goes through when she’s shrunk. But I never imagine being cruel or anything like that, I’m a gentle giant. Stuff like Violet Goes to the Beach, or stuff like the art below, I just really enjoy that kind of connection and a woman wanting to look pretty while the man is comforting, keeps her safe, and takes care of her. I know some people are like, half into the cuddles and half into the sexual stuff, but for me it’s like full-on cuteness and fluff and sexually I’m satisfied by that and grossed out by nudity. Anyone else relate?

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@TakoAlice8 Hi this makes sense to me, as a man who is “into” tiny ladies, I think my experience is more along the lines of making a size dysphoric woman feel more comfortable by constantly calling her tiny, small, short, any words that let her know I see her in that kind of light. I am a pretty monogamous and romantic person by nature, and for me it makes sense to constantly comfort a person in this way because genuinely I “LOVE” making them feel so small, over and over again, like a tourettes tick.

I think worrying about body image is also relatively normal. I started working out a couple years ago, and as I developed muscles, I started to connect it with my identity. I started to “see myself” more in my fantasies with tiny women, rather than just seeing them in a 3rd person kind of way because I used to be so skinny. It’s like “wanting” my body to look a certain way, though I don’t think for me it’s dysphoric because, well I’m a man into tiny women. But it’s kind of cool to see the slow (like years-long slow) but progressive transformation.

The other way I relate to you is through my addiction. I have an addiction to screens, and the thing is as I “fight” my addiction more, the more shame I feel about it. I’ve had to learn how to be kind to myself when I’m having a relapse and how to manage my addiction through a combination of self-compassion and genuine hard work. The working out stuff is related as it helps me with the addiction stuff. But basically I wonder if you feel like this, kind of way, and the difficulty of dealing with it like this. Maybe so maybe not.

Really appreciate you being vulnerable about this, it’s a neat topic I hope that I didn’t invalidate any of your experience through my perspective.

Always been a fan of a woman shrinking and I am normal sized There’s something really cute an intimate when a woman shrinks, and wants to look cute at the same time, the array of emotions she experiences while becoming smaller is amazing to me.

First moments of a date…I like to imagine both wanting her to become smaller, so as they build a connection, she continues to shrink

@coolguy69

@skysayl there will be, but it’s going to be a bit… different from what you will expect. I’ll post when it’s ready

@DFP
How do you feel about videos with no sexual interaction?
Me personally, I feel great about it, as I’m only into the small-ness of the person and how they dress up I think for the community in general, everyone appreciates romantic G/t scenarios or fluffy stuff, so this kind of thing would be appreciated.

What would you like to see in a video?
Shrinking women, slow shrinking with interactions as they shrink, being shrunk and picked up, emotions as all this happens, and a slow build of trust with the Giant once fully shrunk.

What do you think would be a fair price for a 15-minute video with SFX?
$69.69 obviously or $420.69. tbh idk

Do you prefer a variety of tiny women, or is there a specific type preferred?
As long as they’re shrinking, 1:1 to 1:16

When it comes to sexual activity do you prefer to see a tiny woman being pleasured, or a tiny woman pleasuring a giant man?
Neither (personally). The latter is not bad, but only if there’s a LOT of trust, I save enjoyment of that for relationships.

Do you enjoy videos with two women of differing sizes?
Somewhat, especially if they take turns shrinking (such as the minimizer’s thing where two NFL teams play each other, and as each team scores, one person shrank - it created some cuteness)

Do you enjoy videos of two tiny women?
Somewhat, prefer 1

What visual cues do you like to see in a video to imply a character is tiny?
Comparison to objects (trying to open a door), comparison to body parts (hand compared to finger), height comparison (both standing on the floor, seeing how high each one is), craning of the neck, emotional energy (the face of “oh my GOD, I’m SHRINKING!!” without saying anything)

Is there anything you would prefer not to see in a size video?
Nudity (I might be kinda alone in this lol)

Is there a particular setting you’d like to see?
Any and all

Is there anything you’d like to add?
Hope this helps, and feel free to ask more questions

@RogerRoger Indeed there’s all kinds of scenarios that bring out feelings of fear, humiliation, and feeling very tiny!

For me as a man who enjoys tiny ladies, one of the things that made me “feel” what it might be like was imagining myself as the woman in the scenario. What if I “was” a woman, would I dress up, would I want to become smaller, and what size would I become? When I was walking around, I looked up at a giant building, and imagined at that size, a person being that tall, and it actually made my heart race and I got very overwhelmed. So there’s a kind of empathic connection from that. I’ve heard from a tiny woman too that when she imagined being a man, she could imagine what height she might be, and what it might be like to see a tiny woman, and what size she would want her to be.

I think this kind of gender swapping mental exercise gave me insight into the fear and anxiety yet the excitement of what it might be like to become a small woman

Your boy is planning to do a little bit of the Giant Man / tiny woman stuff such as running the social, and I also want to present some video game stuff while I’m there. I spent some time at the last IRL sizecon and it was nice connecting to all the sizey people. The online connections are nice, but there’s something a bit more rizz about the IRL connections to people. I’m working on being more open about it myself, and that’s part of why I’m excited to go

Wondering if others are planning on going Looks like it will be Feb 28th to March 2nd in Portland!

To be a doll’s height would be scary, if that could be real.

Some people fantasize about it and think what that would be like. How would it pan out? Would someone be around to help? How would daily chores get done? Would they ever be found?

And the initial moment of contact with a normal sized person. Is this really happening? Heart is pounding. Emotions are overwhelming. Someone’s hand…literally is overwhelming the entire self. The fear of what’s to come…

Some people fantasize about this often. You could say, they fanta-SIZE. For some reason, the situation pulls them in, grips them, and make-believe that it’s really happening. Close your eyes, and you may see…

The feeling. The rush from shrinking down to such a small size. Like gravity, the thought keeps coming into reality. What’s going on? Why does everything look so huge? Is this actually happening to me? And the presence of someone looming overhead…

What happens next is not up to you. It is up to the one who has found you. Will they pick you up and give you comfort? Will they force their way into a kiss? What’s going to happen? There’s a certain thrill, of not knowing, of understanding that life has changed forever.

The power, the control, it’s gone, no matter what you do. And yet, there’s a comfort to that. Being small literally feels small. There’s nothing to worry about except for the moment. Thoughts of what used to be worries now become silly. You can’t do that at your new size anymore, so what’s the bother? You have a hand holding you right now, and its fingers are overpowering anything you can do. So it’s time to succumb to that feeling, to learn that this is it, this is your destiny now.

Do you want to feel small?

@foreverlurk Oh man I’m sorry. My aunt has that, and it looks terrifying. I wonder how you can ensure that it’s not your fate… lol. I know for me about 4 years ago after a 3673905489th binge of youtube and video games until 9 am in the morning, while COVID was going on, I went to bed and was uncontrollably shaking. It was my “rock bottom”. I never want to lose control of my body like that again. In my 20s it was like “oh it’s fine I’m fine” but that was my wake up call. I’m 34 now and I do a lot to keep up my physical health (It’s an on-and-off thing of course, motivation comes and goes)… I guess it taught me to not take my physical health for granted.

@foreverlurk Really sorry to hear that about your physical self worth. How is aging affecting you?