@foreverlurk I’m not a native English speaker either! I don’t think you sound like a bad RPer, though. Just from the detail of your replies I can see there’s thought and interest in a discussion, which is… more than I can say about a few people, haha
Besides that and the ghosting part, I think everything else is mostly a preference and a matter of compatibility from my side. I prefer writing a fair bit and being hit with a quick one-liner after sending two or three detailed paragraphs is tiresome (or conversely, receiving too much text, though I’ve only had that happen once). But I know there’s people who enjoy the shorter RPs, and definitely a lot of people who just enjoy chatting about different scenarios and size thoughts but don’t want to RP, and that’s perfectly okay, even if it’s usually not my thing!
The struggle to translate myself is real, I can totally relate to that. Though if it’s any consolation coming from another non-native, I wouldn’t have thought English wasn’t your first language