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@SmolChlo Please do! A podcast that doesn’t shame M/f enjoyers would be so welcome.

@blehb said in Disaster and confrontation:

Typically “malegaze” stories will focus on the attributes of the tiny woman, and “femgaze” of the giant man.

I’m so guilty of this it isn’t even funny.

@foreverlurk said in Disaster and confrontation:

I’m curious about that part - do you mean “triggering” in a therapeutically good way? Like during CBT’s exposure part?

Exactly as in exposure therapy.

The giant in this context isn’t the one who inflicted the initial trauma, but they do represent it by virtue of being, well, giant.

@blehb said in Disaster and confrontation:

The majority of this site is dedicated to the kink aspect of size content, so some readers might approach your story from that POV. Not trying to scare you away from sharing, but it’s good to be mindful of that.

Oh, that makes perfect sense. It’s another one of the reasons I hesitate, actually. There are definitely kinks involved every time I write, but sometimes they’re hidden behind a wall of buildup. I guess I enjoy it as a payoff, rather than instant gratification. I think I fall almost purely in femgaze for that reason alone lol

I actually have something on my docs along these lines, but it’s been very hard to write because it started as a therapeutic piece for myself. Sort of a hurt and comfort dynamic except I take the ugly, raw parts and have turned them up to mirror my own experiences with trauma therapy. I’m talking full on breaks in the presence of a professional, verbal abuse, avoidance, SI, the nine yards. Except the therapist is a giant, and therefore the source for a lot of triggering moments.

I can’t imagine anyone wants to read that, so it’s a private doc. I thought that maybe if I were to trim out a lot of the intenseness and zero in on a more optimistic narrative it could be palatable. But if I did that I felt the context would be neutered and it just wouldn’t… work.

Seriously though, what is the appetite for trauma-genre? The discourse here is making me wonder if it would be worth putting it out there someday.

I will never not be fascinated by the fact that there are people who exist that would happily fill the giant slot in my funny little fantasies.

That’s just so cool.

For them to not only enjoy it as much as myself, but to be so completely into it that I have become the object of their doting fascination? Unreal. Too good to be true. Can no longer type, body has melted into pure bliss.

@blehb the solution seems clear enough to me! He just needs to “intervene” a little.