The space between SFW and NSFW

blehb

I feel silly for my initial post, as I’m just now realizing there are already tags for SFW/NSFW. So I don’t think adding additional ones will do us much good.

Maybe our best solution is to simply make more of the content we want to see? I plan on creating my own stuff eventually (though I do like a good mix of SFW/NSFW), but even just starting discussions about pure fluff sounds kind of nice in my opinion! I have a bunch of size-related craft videos I’ve watched that I think a lot of people here would enjoy.

Kisupure

Going back to the OP, I agree - kink is not always about getting off, and in fact it rarely ever is, psychologically speaking. Kinks are fundamental needs being met in superfluous trappings.

I have a GF now who’s just as size kinky as I am (and a lucky bastard am I!) but more importantly, I’m actually getting to flex my dominant muscles in an actual relationship. It’s her first time getting involved in anything related to BDSM, and while it’s not my first rodeo by a long shot, what I’ve discovered is that the basis of dominance, control, is actually just a fundamental part of who I am as a person.

Like, I can dirty talk her for an hour over text, tell her what to do and what to think and what to say while she’s masturbating, and I may not even get that sexually turned on - I can do this while I make dinner and watch TV - but turns out it satisfies me on a level I didn’t really know existed and even if I didn’t so much as touch my dick, I still wouldn’t trade this kind of power for the world.

I’m not really playing with macrophilia right now because I’m getting deeper into the IRL BDSM scene and power exchange, but for me it’s where my size kinks come from, and it’s a VERY powerful way to scratch the itch.

Telling her what to eat, installing tracking software on her phone so I can see where she is at all times (and listen in with her phone without needing permission), having her put stuff in a calendar so I know what she’s doing - these are all non-sexual things that our dynamic is settling into because they satisfy a very deep need for both of us. “Being” a giant is just another way of signaling that I’m in control, I have the final say, and that I can withstand things that my sub/victim/pet/plaything can’t (the burden of authority.) But there’s a more direct route for me, and that’s through living D/s.

Olo

@Kisupure