Personality in Fantasy vs IRL
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I find it funny how, in size fantasies, I tend to behave very timidly and docilely, especially when it comes to fearplay and first encounter scenarios. Whereas in reality, I tend to be more self-assured - but throw a giant into the mix, and suddenly I’m a flustered mess. I imagine the dissonance must be even more interesting from the giant’s perspective; you might be a totally respectful person IRL, but then find yourself feeling unusually forward, teasing, or even cruel when imagining tiny women. Does anybody else experience this?
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@Calypsa said in Personality in Fantasy vs IRL:
you might be a totally respectful person IRL, but then find yourself feeling unusually forward, teasing, or even cruel when imagining tiny women
That’s me
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Reality I’m a wreck of a person fantasy I’m self assured and confident I feel the difference between the two mes is that fantasy me is just me without the baggage
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@The-Big-G That’s fair. It’s interesting how the fantasy feels liberating whether it’s through vulnerability or a boost of confidence.
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Yeah, I’m fairly shy and down on myself in person. So are a lot of my male characters in stories I write. I think my biggest different is I usually write giants (Full Sized men) as villains. Selfish and usually a touch cruel. Even the “Nice guys” bigs in my stories I usually view them as villains. I guess in real life I’m not as perverse and kinder then they are.
At least that’s what I make my pets tell me.
HH1
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@HHunter1 I really like that dichotomy though! I think it’s strangely sort of sweet when giants who are normally kind and reserved eventually give in to their urges with the SW because they just can’t help themselves.
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@Calypsa
Well, I have all kinds of that. Glad I can entertain, even if its just the concept people like.HH1
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@HHunter1 Is there a certain type of ‘villain’ you gravitate to?
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@Calypsa
No, not really. Though many main male character from my stories do tend to lean in the Incel with a shrink ray. Some claim to just be looking for company, others outright feel the deserve to own a woman, and others blame the shrunken for the situation. I think I chose that concept because its easiest to see them excusing kidnapping and assaulting a girl.But I also had openly greedy and cruel. Whole organizations that gave themselves the right to own people. Even reluctant giants that allow themselves to slip up and indulge only to like it too much to give up.
For me it just makes it easier for them to be villains since they tend to do such villainous things. (Kidnapping, SA, and occasionally vore.)
HH1
