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@littlest-lily said in What small details really elevate size content for you?:

Casualness. There’s something so lovely about a couple reaching a level of comfort with each other so that their interactions become incredibly casual. She’s climbing all over him as he goes about his business, he idly picks her up without really needing to look, and likewise she hardly bats an eye when she’s plucked up into his hand or dumped into his pocket.

YES. This is so much fun. And when they do encounter a new size-related obstacle it makes it so much more refreshing and interesting.

I also like dialogue-heavy stories. Makes the characters seem more human.

@Nyx said in What small details really elevate size content for you?:

Giant eyes peering through a window, the pupils constricting at the sight of the smaller person.

Oh wow. Any predator-like description really triggers the animal part of my brain.

This goes for growling, drooling, having to pause to gain control of themselves… I’m so depraved.

@foreverlurk Visual, written, etc. Whatever you want to discuss! My mind tends to go to writing because that’s my favorite medium for size, but I’m fascinated with what other people find attractive about this content.

I agree with all of this but the reverse lol. Imagining the heartbeat, tiny twitches, or breathing patterns of a giant. Burying yourself in clothes with their scent. Annoying the shit out of them…

My favorite concept to explore in M/f as far as mental states goes is anxiety, maybe because I’ve always had issues with it myself. Typically shrinking could be seen as a negative representation of feeling anxious, or being placed in an intimidating situation. But I love the idea of reversing that trope and the tiny finding a way to overcome not only that situation, but also their typical irrational fears.

Having a giant to protect and comfort you also helps with those feelings as well.

I’m not talking about the popular tags or subject matters that we’re all familiar with, but the really minor details that bring this kink to the next level for you.

For me it’s:

• Facial expressions. I wanna know what the giant and even the tiny is feeling without being told what they’re feeling. Glaring down at you when they’re mad, an unhinged smile, letting that dominant mask slip when they get turned on…

• Playfulness. I wanna be a toy and toys are meant to be played with.

• Clothing descriptions. I like when people have fun with this. Of course we have the shirt pockets which are a SW staple, but I feel like we are really neglecting other options! Like the little pockets inside of a suit or jacket??? Imagine poking your head out and getting a face full of chest. Plus it probably smells so nice in there. Criminally underrated content if you ask me!

I’m imagining a tiny mermaid sleeping in a shell. Like a shrimp mermaid.

@littlest-lily Oh my goodness. I totally forgot this scene existed, but just watching it triggered my memory. Must have made an impression on me for such a minor line.

@Olo You better watch that turnover rate…

I feel like the whole office setting is underutilized with M/f. There’s so much potential!

@Olo said in Looking for source of this GIF:

I suppose I have to put in a #NotAllGiantessFans disclaimer, because I know several F/m fans who are into destruction/crush/fatal scenarios but who are also respectful people who don’t try to force others into performing according to their demands. There’s nothing inherently toxic about the destructive Giantess rampage scenario, it’s just got a vocal and embarrassing contingent of fans.

100%. A lot of this discussion relies on generalizations, but it’s important to keep in mind the entire community isn’t like this. And as @Nyx pointed out, there’s a lot of female-dominated fandoms online as well, and as someone who has been very casually involved with some, they can get EXTREMELY toxic as well.

@Olo Hmmm, no particular preference tbh. I think uncut plays better into size stuff though.

@littlest-lily Is liking a pretty ween an option? I mean, I wouldnt want to hang a picture of it on my wall, but an aesthetically pleasing one is always appreciated. As for size, average is totally fine with me as well. Quality over quantity I suppose.

@foreverlurk said in Looking for source of this GIF:

Absolutely! I never mentionned it beause I don’t want to sound like I’m wallowing up in self-pity, but it’s likely the main reason I’ve never told any women I cared about. I’d fear of being forever labeled as a weirdo, whereas I feel women can “come out” without facing the same stigma (again, might be societal bias at work here).

Not self-pitying at all. I think discussing these pressures everyone feels is very healthy, and some weird assholes shouldn’t stop the rest of us from having fun!

Anything kink-related is going to be such a mixed bag of bullshit lol. Within the community, I feel like it’s so male-dominated, so it can be difficult creating female-oriented content. We’ve seen a lot of creators on here get questioned about their tastes or pressured into making giantess stuff, to the point where women practically don’t exist in the kink.

On the other hand, it’s probably a lot more uncomfortable for men to come forward about this stuff in real life (at least in cases like you, where you seem to be very considerate about how your partner will feel about it/react).

In the end, none of us win.

And of course, this is overlooking any size-fans who aren’t straight or cisgender. I can’t speak from experience, but I’m sure that comes with its own unique issues.

@giantmaneddie That’s fair! The giantess community definitely makes themselves more well-known than ours does, and having a larger and niche fanbase would naturally attract less “sociable” people, to say the least.

My previous post was definitely a focus on how this plays out in intimate situations as opposed to general entertainment. Which kind of gives me another thread idea.

@protect-tinies As frustrating as the lack of M/f content can be, I am thankful for the fact that it seems to be more accepted by the general population than giantess stuff. Of course, neither of these are prevalent enough to get an accurate understanding of how people feel about it, but from my personal experience people seem much more okay with M/f than F/m.

I’ve told two guys about my interest in this, and while they did think it was unusual they also said they found it to be adorable. Maybe I’m just lucky with my sample size, but it seems to be a much more accepting reaction than the endless articles talking about “how weird giantess fetish is!”

Maybe it has to do with the fact that I like shrinking, which people might see as harmless since it is more intimate and less destructive than growth. Or maybe because I’m a woman, and I feel like women with strange kinks are seen as less creepy than men are. (Not that that’s fair, just seems to be the bias people have.) I do think you have a good point about it connecting to the more typical preferences people have- men are more likely prefer the dominant role and women the submissive one.

I do feel for giantess-fans though. There is a lot of pressure for men to fit this mold of masculinity, and trying to seek safety and comfort from a woman is typically frowned upon. Which connects to size kink obviously.

@littlest-lily said in Lesser Known Inconveniences of Being Giant/Tiny:

(sorry @blehb for getting so off topic haha)

Don’t apologize, I love this stuff!