Posts made by Deedee

@protect-tinies the worst part is I don’t mind that as a kink, I can get a bit assertive and if they played their cards better I’d have been happy to give them that kind of response and then some. I can give degrading as good as I love getting it.

@protect-tinies I did some reading on that, apparently it’s the reaction they want. Positive or negative. But really I don’t know.

I’ve had women send me topless pics unsolicited. I’ve had guys send me dick picks unsolicited. One poor guy did it, and was shocked that I didn’t respond positively. He just misread the signs. I didn’t mind the miscommunication but he felt so bad he eventually stopped talking to me.

@SmolChlo Hey that’ll totally work on some.

@SmolChlo Little trick I learned, when you get to that state in a relationship, tell them you have a thing and get him some cheap lotion for his feet. He won’t think his feet are naturally attractive, but if he’s thinking “Hey I can do this for my girlfriend and that will make them attractive” he feels like he’s achieving that status and will accept it.

@Olo One of the best things I have learned in life is that nothing arouses women and nothing arouses men. But many things will arouse the woman or man you’re with. Watch how she reacts to things, talk to her, and experiment. No woman worth being with will begrudge you for trying something for her enjoyment that didn’t work.

What I have learned is that no one likes the excuse “Other man[or woman] liked it so I thought you would” oooh was that an awkward night that I’d rather not have had.

@Olo I feel that’s like that’s like solving food inequality by starving everyone. No one, regardless of gender, should have porn play a role in developing a self image. It’s not healthy.

On that front I’m actually happier with all fetishes being a bit underground, I like this separate and I don’t want it mainstream.

@SmolChlo I actually talked to an ex about this, apparently many guys have trouble seeing any part of themselves (except that one) as inherently desirable. So when you focus on it they get very self conscious

As someone who plays a fairy in a lot of things, I need to figure out how to get myself on this findr app

@foreverlurk that one gets me every time

@Olo sweet, maybe I can get kept as a toy!

So is he still taking volunteers?

@protect-tinies Like I’ve never topped a giant before

@The-Big-G toppers. 100%

@Olo Makes notes