Posts made by Deedee

@The-Big-G said in Couple collector:

I think you know where they about to go

Nope, you should say it in extreme detail

@foreverlurk said in Is role playing a form of cheating?:

Hmm I believe there are genuine reasons for wanting to keep things on the hush. I also know that some people are just built differently, they don’t feel that shame at all. Some also lack the empathy to think beyond their ableist views.

A little empathy for the victim of cheating would be nice to. You don’t HAVE to be in a relationship, if you can’t keep clear boundaries you shouldn’t be in one. A fetish isn’t a disability. A fetish isn’t an excuse. No one in my life knows I like this and I intend to keep it this way. I’ve never told anyone I dated about it. My family thinks I have an unreasonable hatred for Rick Moranis because he was annoying in spaceballs.

Nothing you have said here excuses anyone going behind a person’s back. A reasonable person would talk to their partner about viewing porn. They said it’s okay? Great you can look at size porn without it being cheating.

If one NEEDS roleplay, that’s weird. But sure, ask your partner if you can engage in sexually charged RP with people online. No need to mention any particular kink. I’ve been on enough discords to know any tiny you find is probably a guy anyway.

There’s nothing wrong with feeling shame, but a person should feel much more shame in engaging in anything like this behind their partner’s back than they should in a kink. Enjoying this is fine. Everything beyond that is a choice that’s made.

@foreverlurk said in Is role playing a form of cheating?:

I don’t disagree. I simply wasn’t able to tell her about the kink, yet I couldn’t give up SW. It’s not that I never tried, either. It’s just not quite the same for me as, say, asking your partner for a threesome, other more normie-ish things of that nature.

Everyone has a thousand reasons for not telling their partner when they’re doing something close to the line. In a situation like that you would have three options. Tell her. Give it up. Or give her up. This isn’t the kind of secret you get to keep in a relationship.

@The-Big-G said in Is role playing a form of cheating?:

Following a side rail of this conversation the amount people I’ve run into or chatted with that are uncomfortable with even broaching the subject of this kink or any other with there partners. Or hell anyone outside of the community and sometimes even then as they fear the rejection that it may incite or others that only let there kink flag fly once or twice a year the rest of the time wallowing in fear/guilt. Don’t get me wrong some peoples beliefs or lifestyles or jobs would be impacted and so I don’t blame or hold any resentment to these people. Like myself I’ve been very open about my desires to friends and family like as a cis white middle aged male that if Henry Cavill or Chris Hemsworth decided I needed to be breed who am I to argue. If I was in relationship I wouldn’t see that as cheating because it’s fucken Thor and superman there would be no romantic attraction and I think that is the point I’m trying to make I feel cheating is the point when you romanticly desire someone else more than your partner at that point your decided that your current bond isn’t what you want.

I’m sort of the opposite, I don’t tell anyone about my kinks. Any of them. Even the ones that aren’t really kinks. I’d find it just as weird to go around tell people “oh yeah I like sex best when I’m on the bottom” than I would any kink.

The size stuff is in weird place, because you can have non-kinky size stuff that doesn’t even approach lewdness. Looks over to the D&D book on giants. N-not that I would own a book like that or use giants in my campaign

Also I won’t judge your kink, but I will judge you for putting Cavill and Hemsworth on the same level. There’s a clear winner there.

My general rule is that if you aren’t comfortable telling your partner exactly what happened you shouldn’t be doing it

@Olo said in School Supplies:

@Deedee Some people desperately need to be bullied.

as long as they have a shrink ray and a case to drop me in, I’ll oblige

@HHunter1 said in School Supplies:

Mocking the nerd with the toy ray gun turned out to be a bad idea.

HH1

this is how you encourage bullying. At least for me

room for one more?

@Reduce Right? Being used by a big couple is probably my biggest fantasy

@The-Big-G just part of the shopping experience

@The-Big-G doesn’t count until I’m being boxed up for you

Oooh being sold is one of my favorites! Anyone buying?

This is what got me into size! I love it so much

@Olo Just wrap that tag around me and leave me on the plate

@Olo I mean if no one else wants it…

Mmmm that scenario is amazing