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One way to think of it is as another iteration of the same gatekeeping behavior guys (online and off) engage in regarding their fandoms. I’ve seen it in comic books, video games, sci-fi, sports, and of course politics. As @Nyx said, GTSbros are extremely vocal, and since they think they invented size fantasy any deviation from their specific scenario is “wrong.”

@i-am-insane:

It’s very… I don’t know, it makes me think of a death cult, sometimes.

I think at least part of this goes back to the poor self-image some of these guys seem to cultivate. They are attracted to women but they have convinced themselves that they have nothing to offer women, so the only satisfactory resolution is to have women destroy them. Reading their stories, these acts of destruction are invariably provoked by some selfish and entitled male behavior that needs to be punished. They feel that they are programmed to be selfish jerks, so they expect women to naturally agree to destroy them.

The key element here is that is an entirely self-absorbed fantasy that violently resists any input from others, least of all from any woman that is exposed to it. This isn’t roleplaying or fantasy-sharing, it’s narcissistic projection. When someone challenges or deviates from this “standard” fantasy, it’s a threat to their self-image so they feeled justified in harrassing the person who has different preferences. They can’t just let different folks get different strokes; we have to be silenced because we’re “ruining Giantess.”

@protect-tinies said:

One of the major differences between men and women is that women can’t feel sexually attracted to a man who they don’t respect.

I’m gonna have to disagree with this. Some straight women absolutely can be sexually attracted to men who they feel are beneath them (some of them insist upon it). Some of them need a man to look up to (heh). Some want an equal partner. All these preferences are valid and none of them say anything about such women’s character, intelligence, maturity, politics, or anything else.

@SmolChlo said:

The only time you’ll see the Giantess in me come out is on DA. Let me catch you being rude to a fellow M/f fan

As fearsome as tiny Emma on Gen V. She straight-up killed a guard by jumping into his ear and tunneling through to the other ear. Badass SW, she was.

I suppose I have to put in a #NotAllGiantessFans disclaimer, because I know several F/m fans who are into destruction/crush/fatal scenarios but who are also respectful people who don’t try to force others into performing according to their demands. There’s nothing inherently toxic about the destructive Giantess rampage scenario, it’s just got a vocal and embarrassing contingent of fans.

Olo

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@The-Big-G I don’t recruit among my irl acquaintances because I couldn’t trust myself not to say something creepy. I don’t do it in a F/m context, and I sure as hell wouldn’t do it in a M/f context.

Olo

@tinyborrower said in Sex Objects:

It is weird trying to attribute positive traits to ‘masculinity’ that don’t feel heavily steeped in gender roles. But I think the same could be said of ‘femininity’.

Exactly. Responsible adults are responsible adults, and it has nothing to do with sex or gender.

Olo

@tiny-ivy Knowing 50s marriages, the wife needs the service more than the single gal does.

Olo

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