Posts made by tiny-ivy

@Olo wonders if I could learn enough about web hosting to take over…

@Olo well damn, now I have a reason to make an account on Bluesky…

@maladaptivetiny ooh! This is a real treat! I love this scenario.

@Olo I don’t like reality TV. But I would love this show!

@Olo Doubly perfect if you have a crush on the lead singer of that band.

I don’t think that ethically, it’s cheating.

In a practical sense though, I feel like it could be corrosive to the relationship, if you’re not careful about it. This is one of the many reasons I don’t roleplay. If there is time I could be spending with my monogamous husband, I’d rather be spending it with him than in a RP session with someone. RP can be a huge time suck compared to other ways of engaging like forums, browsing SizeTwitter, stories, and even Discord.

If there was something keeping my husband and I apart, like if we worked opposite hours or lived far away from each other. The practical problems of the time suck would go away, and RP might cause way fewer problems for a monogamous relationship.

It’s possible that in my single days, I once hooked up with a very tall guy largely because of his size. We met at a music festival so we also had that and art-making in common. But the physical attraction seemed to be more long-lasting on my side than on his, I can tell when I’m not genuinely wanted. So, I didn’t try to force it to last too long.

I mentioned loving his size to him the first night, and he responded coldly. I guess he wasn’t happy with his own body for some reason, I don’t know why.

He was more than a foot taller than I, he dwarfed me in the bedroom. His frame was like hairy steelwork.

His was the face and body I imagined on skyscraper-tall giants in my fantasies for years. Still is sometimes.

@BigCuddlyGiant

this is so sweet!

Fiction idea:
What if the myths of the little people in Ireland comes from a local cursed cave spring, that shrinks anyone who drinks it for a year and a day? I picture him being a local who knows the well stories, while she was a curious tourist out spelunking. Luckily, they seem to be hitting it off.

@skysayl absolutely right there with you.

@foreverlurk I’ve luckily only had sleep paralysis a handful of times, when I was small. I had new age parents who taught me the basics of lucid dreaming as a reaction, and I’ve been pretty good at escaping intense nightmares ever since, including those very intense sleep paralysis ones.
I wish dreams really were magical - because I would completely kick ass in a “Nightmare on Elm Street - Dream Warriors” scenario.

@foreverlurk Huh, yeah I have this too. always have. Because of it, I have learned to avoid very violent images. I don’t need that sticking around. Here I thought it was just inattentive ADHD. LOL.

It’s most intense for me with physical touch. I can literally feel the sensations in stuff that I read or watch. The sensory confusion of feeling what you see happen to another character is also, according to some synaesthesia nerds, a type of synaesthesia. (Apparently NOT for violent things, that’s a decently common threat response, this is more for neutral and pleasurable things. ) I don’t know. It’s just what nerds on some synaesthesia site claim.

@ricenoodle size makes everything else bette, to me. But I definitely have my own strong preferences within that.

When talking about just any story about anything, any genre, yeah, size makes it all way more fascinating to me. No matter what the original author has a preference for.

When talking about a story that I’m reading because I’m horny, that’s when the specific kinks come into play.

@foreverlurk
I’m sorry to hear about your depression, and this longing feeling. I occasionally have that sort of longing, especially when I’m just waking up from a good dream.

I’m very glad to hear that you’re getting therapy. So many people don’t even try that, and it can really help with depression a lot. I hope it helps you.

Speaking from experience, when I’ve mentioned this kink to therapists, They were totally nonplussed. The counselors I were seeing were not Freudian. They didn’t really want to dig into it more than I wanted to bring it up. They didn’t attribute meaning to it that I didn’t bring with me.

I forget where you live. I’ve heard that therapy in Europe can still be pretty Freudian, but that’s not so common in the USA, where counselors and therapists are more likely to use cognitive behavioral therapy than Freudian analysis to treat depression.

I’m bringing up Freud because I think that framework would have a field day with this kink. I disagree with him on pretty much everything. The fact that therapy has been moving away from him for the past 50 years is a good thing, for those of us with powerful imaginations, and unusual sexual tastes. He attributed meaning to every little detail, especially sex. He had no science to back up his frameworks, and they don’t really hold up to modern research.

Also.

If you’re finding that this kink is too troubling, you can put it down and walk away for as long as you want. It will still be here for you if you ever want to pick it up again, after a period of time of you focusing on your mental health.

Good luck on your journey!

@Olo heck yes. I can’t wait!

This just came up on coiled fist. This site needs to see it, too. It’s more cute than sexy since it’s a family scene. In my ideal version of this ad, the “wife” visits Texaco alone. Or heaven forbid for the 1950’s, a single gal visits Texaco alone!

https://youtu.be/dmTmKfJOyMA?si=TqGqUl1pPfXM8vo9