Have you ever had a "size interaction" in real life?
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It’s possible that in my single days, I once hooked up with a very tall guy largely because of his size. We met at a music festival so we also had that and art-making in common. But the physical attraction seemed to be more long-lasting on my side than on his, I can tell when I’m not genuinely wanted. So, I didn’t try to force it to last too long.
I mentioned loving his size to him the first night, and he responded coldly. I guess he wasn’t happy with his own body for some reason, I don’t know why.
He was more than a foot taller than I, he dwarfed me in the bedroom. His frame was like hairy steelwork.
His was the face and body I imagined on skyscraper-tall giants in my fantasies for years. Still is sometimes.
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@tiny-ivy I definitely feel like I have a “giant of the week” and sometimes that is influenced by someone IRL who just has the perfect look or charisma.
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Yes, I have had size interactions in real life, but I was the one who initiated them, so I’m not sure if that still “counts.”
I’ve romantically/flirtatiously roleplayed size stuff with more than one girl I was potentially interested in. I did it in a normie-friendly, playful way, not in a kinky-sounding way or in a way that would set off a normal person’s creep-o-meter. I never told them it was a kink or a special interest of mine or anything like that, because:
- A) Why make it weird or awkward when it doesn’t need to be?
(Also, I wouldn’t want someone to feel pressured to play along, or to like something just because I like it.) - B) It’s an impossible fantasy anyway, with no chance of ever happening in real life, so why would they need to know?
When I did this roleplaying, there were a couple girls who got really, REALLY into it. They embraced being tiny and loved every second of it (and embraced the idea of staying tiny indefinitely). No, I don’t think they had a size kink, and I don’t think they were sexually turned on by the sizey stuff itself…I think they just really enjoyed the emotions (and the flirtation) that came with the fantasy. I think it’s a fantasy that speaks to something pretty universal in the female psyche, which is the same reason why Twilight and 50 Shades of Grey became so mega-popular. I never got a negative response from any of the girls I tried it on. Maybe a couple neutral responses, but most of the time, the responses were either positive or VERY positive.
- A) Why make it weird or awkward when it doesn’t need to be?