Posts made by Calypsa

@miss-lillipants Emotional or psychological intimacy definitely takes priority for me too. It’s fascinating how something non-sexual can still give you such a rush.

@i-am-insane I agree, the idea that it’s two people of equal dignity rubbing up against each other in this fundamentally unfair way is what heightens all the emotions for me: the sense of wonder, the degradation, etc. Learning how to navigate that new sort of dynamic presents so many opportunities to explore growing closer to the other than would normally be possible.

@i-am-insane Same! That’s crazy, I feel like you spoke my mind on every point. It definitely can get weird and confusing to make sense of all the sub-fantasies within this one, but at a certain point, I think it’s best to just let yourself enjoy whatever comes naturally. And despite the occasional wandering thought, at the end of the day, I really just want a gentle giant to cuddle into and be sweet with. I can at least appreciate the symbolism of size difference sex though- the power imbalance, the vulnerability, the inevitability of what’s coming. The shock factor alone is pretty intriguing to explore, even if it’s not really my interest.

@The-Big-G I’m glad! And yeah, I get that it’s probably an outlier take, but it’s cool to hear other people’s opinions on it.

While I’ve had this fantasy for as long as I can remember, I’ve never really been much into the more sexual end of it. Gentle interactions and fear/comfort dynamics always fascinated me more. Imagining a moment of pure tenderness is usually the ‘peak’ of what I look to get out of my daydreams on an emotional level. There can be some less gentle scenarios that turn me on - but if it involves genitals, I instantly nope out. Not for any puritanical reason, it just wasn’t my thing. Even in reality, I don’t have an interest in sex, which admittedly is probably why. I understand intimacy in this fantasy is a big part of the appeal of it for many people and I understand why. I don’t think there’s a wrong way to enjoy this fantasy, but I was just curious if anyone else here happened to feel the same way. Anyone else like this? And likewise, what does it feel like to be into the more physically intimate side of things?

@i-am-insane The herbivore comparison made me laugh. And yeah, the cuddly, wholesome stuff probably holds the greatest appeal to me too, whether in fantasy or reality.

@foreverlurk I get what you’re saying. It’s funny, I partially associate this fantasy with my own social struggles from childhood too, I wanted to imagine that someone who could hurt me so easily would somehow choose not to. I think it’s kind of beautiful how it’s like a shared desire for safety that manifests in opposite ways.

@Olo May Olo have a modicum of the confidence that Tolo has

@HHunter1 Is there a certain type of ‘villain’ you gravitate to?

@HHunter1 I really like that dichotomy though! I think it’s strangely sort of sweet when giants who are normally kind and reserved eventually give in to their urges with the SW because they just can’t help themselves.

@The-Big-G That’s fair. It’s interesting how the fantasy feels liberating whether it’s through vulnerability or a boost of confidence.

I find it funny how, in size fantasies, I tend to behave very timidly and docilely, especially when it comes to fearplay and first encounter scenarios. Whereas in reality, I tend to be more self-assured - but throw a giant into the mix, and suddenly I’m a flustered mess. I imagine the dissonance must be even more interesting from the giant’s perspective; you might be a totally respectful person IRL, but then find yourself feeling unusually forward, teasing, or even cruel when imagining tiny women. Does anybody else experience this?