@Deedee I 100% agree with this when it comes to individuals in relationships. It’s a joy in and of itself to discover what makes your partner tick 🥰
But I do think that on a broader level there is some value in differentiating the types of preferred content between various groups of people and exploring what makes people tick on a greater scale (ie the conversations about male vs female gaze). It doesn’t cover any one individual’s preferences universally of course, but there are some trends that I think are worth discussing. Maybe particularly if you’re a content creator or something and you’re trying to cater to a group. It’s fun to talk about in any case!
As much as I love the physical sides of this fantasy, the stuff that I particularly love writing is what the characters are thinking/feeling and how they communicate. It’s so much fun to play with that stuff.

Evie certainly has some… issues, but she’s definitely a survivor!
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