Underfoot
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On that front I’m actually happier with all fetishes being a bit underground, I like this separate and I don’t want it mainstream.
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@SmolChlo Don’t answer this if you’re not comfortable with it, but I’m curious how much of a role foot odor plays in your fetish. Apparently, the apocrine sweat glands in the soles evoke the same neurochemical reaction that is generated by smelling more conventional erogenous zones.
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@Deedee There’s a long way to go in helping straight men develop better physical self-images, but a necessary step is embracing the (straight) female gaze in every element of society, including fetish porn.
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I don’t know how much I have to contribute, but my feelings around feet are complicated so I figured I’d just share them lol
I definitely don’t think I have an “IRL” foot fetish. I don’t generally mind them, and I find some more appealing to look at than others, but that’s about as far as it goes. Then again, like Chloe said, I think I’m far more adverse to the idea of admitting to a foot fetish than a size one, so maybe I’m subconsciously suppressing something for all I know.
In any case, it’s a very different story when it comes to sizey scenarios. Then I’m totally down for foot play! Part of it is the fact that I’m into almost any body part as long as it’s gigantic, but there is something extra about being down on the floor at his feet where I’m most vulnerable, or about being pinned under a single toe - there’s an extra layer of domination/humiliation/playfulness there that I enjoy a whole lot. I still vastly prefer handhelds, but I think I might actually like foot play over mouth play (not by much, but still).
But I do have mixed feelings about a lot of foot content. For one, I personally have zero interest in them being smelly/sweaty, I’m not into the gross factor in general, and that can be really hard to separate. I’ve even seen some foot fetishists say that it comes with the territory and you can’t have one without the other (I disagree, but a lot of the content still seems to revolve around that aspect).
And then the other downside I’ve found is that I haven’t always had the best experience with the people who are into it. I used to include a bit more foot content in stories, and I stopped doing that as much, in part because I felt like I was getting negative attention - those who commented on that part tended to just demand more and ONLY really cared about that (and I just assumed everyone else wasn’t really into it). I now suspect that my vision of things is skewed, because I’ve run into multiple people who like all kinds of things and yet it was only later on that I realized they liked the foot stuff as well, because they didn’t really talk about it at all (heck, I might put myself in that category). It’s enough of a taboo, even in these subcommunities, that maybe people either are all about it and go ALL in, or they opt not to mention it at all, even if they do like it. Maybe I’m totally off here, just speaking from my own experience!
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@Olo I feel that’s like that’s like solving food inequality by starving everyone. No one, regardless of gender, should have porn play a role in developing a self image. It’s not healthy.
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@Deedee There’s porn and there’s porn. I’d like to know what images arouse women.
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@Olo One of the best things I have learned in life is that nothing arouses women and nothing arouses men. But many things will arouse the woman or man you’re with. Watch how she reacts to things, talk to her, and experiment. No woman worth being with will begrudge you for trying something for her enjoyment that didn’t work.
What I have learned is that no one likes the excuse “Other man[or woman] liked it so I thought you would” oooh was that an awkward night that I’d rather not have had.
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@Deedee I 100% agree with this when it comes to individuals in relationships. It’s a joy in and of itself to discover what makes your partner tick 🥰
But I do think that on a broader level there is some value in differentiating the types of preferred content between various groups of people and exploring what makes people tick on a greater scale (ie the conversations about male vs female gaze). It doesn’t cover any one individual’s preferences universally of course, but there are some trends that I think are worth discussing. Maybe particularly if you’re a content creator or something and you’re trying to cater to a group. It’s fun to talk about in any case!
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@Olo shape is what’s most important to me (high arches, long toes) but odor plays a big part as well. I haven’t come across any super stinky feet but the scent they give off when I’m giving a massage has definitely caused sudden arousal
It’s rare bc of how shy men can be about their feet but the few times I’ve given a foot massage, I usually pretend I’m tiny and really get into my role as a little foot slave lol… I think my foot fetish compliments my macrophilia fetish pretty well
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@Deedee I completely agree! Hopefully men will one day realize that their feet are desirable and deserving of worship
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@SmolChlo Little trick I learned, when you get to that state in a relationship, tell them you have a thing and get him some cheap lotion for his feet. He won’t think his feet are naturally attractive, but if he’s thinking “Hey I can do this for my girlfriend and that will make them attractive” he feels like he’s achieving that status and will accept it.
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@Deedee so don’t aggressively grab his ankle while shouting show me them toes boy!!
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@SmolChlo Hey that’ll totally work on some.
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@littlest-lily said in Underfoot:
Part of it is the fact that I’m into almost any body part as long as it’s gigantic, but there is something extra about being down on the floor at his feet where I’m most vulnerable, or about being pinned under a single toe - there’s an extra layer of domination/humiliation/playfulness there that I enjoy a whole lot.
That’s exactly how I feel about feet. Like I looked at the subreddit and my thoughts were just like “Yeah, some of these are really nice looking.” but it’s not content I’m going to be looking for in the future. On the other hand, the first story in the article about her having to lick the guy’s feet sounds very appealing to me. It’s definitely more the domination aspect of it than the actual feet to me.
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@Olo
Idk what I’m ever going to do with this information but that’s very nice to know~
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