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@skysayl Yeah certain worlds are built huge, so that if you shrink at all past standard size you already look micro to someone that’s scaled up to match the size of the room!

@SmolChlo It’s very disorienting being carried around in VR, but you know… in the best way I will also mention that it’s very fun even without the headset. And VRChat is free on Steam.

…Have I concerted everyone to VRC yet? haha sorry I’ll shut up

This has been on my mind for a while, in the off chance that there are others interested in exploring this topic. A while back I read Jitensha’s kink resource and loved it! It helped me better understand myself and begin to internally explore some of the possibilities of incorporating sizeplay into my relationship.

But when I got to some of the parts about roleplaying in the bedroom I was like “oof… There’s just no way.” And not because I don’t have a partner who’s willing to experiment with the size kink, but because I would feel way too self conscious. Even something as simple as closing my eyes and pretending that the palm of his hand is actually a giant fingertip, I just feel way too embarrassed, no matter how much we might discuss it ahead of time or commit to a judgement-free zone in the bedroom. And maybe that’s okay, it’s probably not for everyone! But it did get me to think about it - could I maybe find some baby steps to try out first, ones that didn’t feel so daunting? Or find other ideas that would work better for me personally in engaging with this fantasy with my partner?

I would love any thoughts you guys might have for this brainstorm. But I thought I’d also offer some ideas of my own to start with - some of these I’ve actually tried and some of them are just thoughts.

The first list are the more innocent/wholesome ideas, meant for outside of the bedroom but could also work as foreplay.

• Indulge in collecting miniatures, or the opposite (I call them maxiatures). You don’t even need a partner for this one! But they can certainly participate.
• Whatever creatively fulfills you, one partner can make it for the other. Draw art, write stories, etc
• Play sizey games together. Things like Grounded or It Takes Two for video games, or incorporate it into a TTRPG like D&D.
• Play a sizey VR game. This does come with a heavy price tag for the hardware (the Quest 2 is currently about $200, and if you want to do it together you’ll need 2 systems). I recommend trying the desktop version of VRChat (it’s free on Steam) before investing in a VR headset. But there’s nothing quite like VR to simulate the size difference.
• Watch sizey movies or shows together and have dedicated discussions about them to see what the other liked.
• Make silly pictures to text to each other. For example, my partner sometimes takes pictures from afar where he’s pretending to hold me with forced perspective. Or I use photo editing or a figurine as my stand in.
• Text size art the other person might like to each other
• Roleplay via text. Can just be more subtle implications like “argh I’m tired, can I have a pocket nap?” or actual roleplay “Tugs on your finger Cuddles please!”, down to full paragraphs and stories and whatever else might be fun.
• Leave little gifts for each other. Like making them a very very tiny sandwich as a snack 🤭
• There might be some little gestures that get the sizey feels going. It’s harder for me to brainstorm for anyone who wants to feel big, but things that make me feel small include wearing a jacket of his, laying my head in his lap, or instead of him holding my hand have him hold just one finger (to real feel more of that all-encompassing nature of the grasp).

And then these ideas are a bit less innocent and more steamy~

• Simply change positions, no roleplay necessary. The “Small” kneels while the “Big” stands, Big sits on the bed while Small sits on the floor, Small lays on the ground while Big stands over them (maybe gently pinning them with a foot), Small lays down in bed while Big straddles and looms overhead, etc. None of these are meant to fully trick the brain into believing there’s a major size difference, but it can still help in connecting with the sizey feels.
• Roleplay on easy mode. Maybe start with something that’s not too out of the norm. Perhaps one pretends to not be feeling well and the other pampers them. Or one offers the other a massage and the only “pretending” involved is that you’re at a professional massage place. Then maybe eventually build up to something like pet play but without size being a factor, and so on. I would really love more individual ideas on this if anyone has them! (Right now even the idea of classic roleplay scenarios make me cringe, much less shrinky ones…)
• Perhaps some very light BDSM elements (or not so light if that’s your thing.) So not necessarily anything too intense if you’re like me and need those baby steps, but perhaps the Big requests the Small to wear a certain outfit and then rewards them for their obedience, or maybe play around with containment methods. This isn’t necessarily sizey, but the D/s dynamics could overlap with the sizeplay, so it might be worth exploring.
• Discussing scenarios. Instead of actually acting something out, you can say “What if this thing happened?” “Well then I would do this”
• Get a small figurine or something as the stand in for the Small. The Big doesn’t necessarily need to act out a whole scene with it, but maybe just having a prop to play around with could help.
• Shadow puppets. Projecting a giant hand on the ceiling or something - again, no RP necessary, can just be silly about it.
• Looking at art/videos together. Sometimes I actually like showing my partner things I’m NOT really into (but are still sizey), so that we can have a little giggle about it and it doesn’t feel quite as much like I’m baring my soul. And then sometimes I get the courage to show him stuff I really like.

That’s all I’ve got for now! I can share more if I think of them and appreciate any of your thoughts~

@blehb If you really wanted to be vague you could indeed write anything - just completely make up gibberish or even describe the sounds without writing any words. I’d imagine the process of problem solving with body language, miming, drawing, one leading the other somewhere, etc etc would be the bulk of it anyway so there might not be that much to keep track of in what is said.

I love the idea by the way! This feels like it could be so fun even outside of G/t. It’s like a mystery where no one knows all the answers.

S+P 34 - In a Pinch

@Olo YES. I’m biased because I’m very nostalgic for it and had a huge crush on Jeremy Sumpter who played Peter (we’re almost the exact same age lol). But I do think it’s worth a watch, and the way he cradles Tink in a scene towards the end still makes me melt~

@protect-tinies Gosh, I never know how to answer these kinds of hypotheticals. Because at the end of the day, if it were for real… no. I wouldn’t shrink. It would destroy my life I wouldn’t even do it once unless I was extremely confident that it was safe, reversible, etc. But if we’re talking in the world of fantasy, then yes, absolutely, I’ll take what I can get lol.

@foreverlurk Ohhh, yeah I would believe that. Deviantart is certainly not a perfect website

@foreverlurk I promise I won’t go hate on him or anything haha, I do try to give folks the benefit of the doubt. But when I went to the link I hadn’t seen any indication that this was AI? Let me know if I’m missing something, maybe DA moved where that stuff is called out.

S+P 33 Very Important Debate

I appreciate the responses! If anyone still likes reading it here then that’s enough motivation for me to keep posting them, at least for now~

@frollo Yeah I’m particularly bothered when people aren’t transparent about it (and pretend it’s their work, try to sell it, etc)

@foreverlurk Well, I think I do prefer that to the term “AI art”

@Olo There are enough differences/subtle tells that I do think it’s AI. Hate that it’s getting hard to tell though

@giantmaneddie UGH, been there