@littlest-lily said:
It was difficult during early internet to find sizey material without running into very sexual and very violent content, despite me not looking for it
I quite sympathize.  Size galleries and forums were unthoughtful and chaotic back then, and it has only improved a little in recent years.  I myself resisted violent/lethal content for a great while, and I still think a lot of violent stuff out there is mindless and glib.
When I was on Tumblr, where the SFW and NFSW wings of the Size community often clashed, I was moved to write a manifesto:  Free to Be Huge and Wee
I know I’m not alone, as someone who is not into the violence, in thinking that there’s nothing wrong with you if you ARE into the violence. For whatever that’s worth!
It’s worth more than you can know, Lily.  Thank you.