@tinyborrower said in Sex Objects:
It is weird trying to attribute positive traits to ‘masculinity’ that don’t feel heavily steeped in gender roles. But I think the same could be said of ‘femininity’.
Exactly. Responsible adults are responsible adults, and it has nothing to do with sex or gender.
I’m sure this sentiment comes from a place of cis privilege, but I have never heard of a positive trait attributed to “masculinity” that couldn’t be more honestly attributed to “adulthood.”
There should definitely be distinct physical aesthetics for male bodies; several, in fact. Appreciating male bodies for their forms and functions should not, however, determine anything meaningful about the people living in those bodies. To claim otherwise is to be a gender essentialist, to restrict a person’s potential based on their (singular) sex.
“Toxic masculinity” is really just “limited humanity.”
@tinyborrower I’d definitely want to read a story about someone who is made complete by getting to know a tiny woman.
@kisupure One of the challenges of size art is getting everyone’s faces in frame and in focus. As much as I love that cutie’s smile, I also want to see his expression. 
The incel movement feeds hetmale body self-loathing. “Women can’t be attracted to me! The only reason they would want to be with me is if I had money or power*!”
@kisupure said in Sex Objects:
That’s exactly how I used to feel about being a hot chick with crushing dysphoria.
Face it, you were no Jeep Cherokee.
@kisupure Nobody has a lower opinion of men than so-called “Men’s Rights Advocates.” So narrow and desolate.
@tiny-ivy said in Yard Sale Shrink:
What the Christians are really missing out on is Beltaine. Maypoles are fun, and that holiday is all about the screwing.
@kisupure said in Sex Objects:
It frustrates me to no end to see faceless dude-shaped thing after faceless dude-shaped thing in porn. Men, stop doing this to yourselves. Fucking enjoy yourself for once!
