@TakoAlice8, if I may, I honestly am on both sides of the spectrum; I like to be both small and large. While I do understand this is about objectification, it is entirely a fictional stance.
For example, when I am shrunken I like to somewhat like this pet, with some little objectifications, but nothing too demeaning, like it the dirty talk sense, the giant or giantess, or both use me as well as care for me… like in the sense of they know I’m fragile. However, they still want to tease me in this mock-bully way.
As for being a giant, I see the tinies as pets, I also tease them, mess with them. When I do get rough with them during intimate acts, but not so much that it causes them severe pain. Their still shrunken people that are very fragile, I’m careful with them because I kinds don’t like being the cruel giant.
Howevet, I like other stuff that is not so related to shrinking and more of growing, but more of in the “giant in the city” sense, like I’m bigger than a city and I have my fun, but the thing is that’s just fiction, think of it as those break rooms, you just break shit without any repercussions, and when your giant and a major city is small, it’s like an addictive urge to just have fun. But they can’t happen in real life because yes you destroyed a city as well as pleased yourself, but you have to think about your morals, the fact that you blew off some steam but did a lot of bad things.
But yes, I see your point, and it’s not really kink-shaming, it’s just your taste. And it’s fiction, you think how you want to.