Have you ever had a "size interaction" in real life?
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@blehb I think I’ll tell him soon especially with the recent security system shenanigans we’ve been getting into lol And I certainly wouldn’t mind being turned into a Tomagotchi keychain for him to play with just don’t forget to feed me
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@SmolChlo Eeee best of luck telling him, from the sound of things I think he’ll find it cute! The security system story filled me with so much joy you have no idea
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@SmolChlo I think a lot of us would love hearing how it goes if you decide to do it and are comfortable with sharing. I am always in awe of people that can open up about this. It’s a line I want to cross but I can’t bring myself to do it.
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@blehb said
It’s a line I want to cross but I can’t bring myself to do it.
Same. I suck at this so much. I don’t want to wallow up in self-pity again, but me being a dom cishet male in my 40s brings a whole lot of bonus difficulty to opening up (perceived or real), that some in the “it’s-no-big-deal” crowd might not have to account for.
Or maybe that’s just my excuse ¯_ (ツ)_/¯
I mean, folks don’t tend to post their L’s online, but I’ve had some private conversations with people who “came out” to their partners about their size kink and things went horribly wrong. You don’t really hear about those, but it’s always a possibility.
(Chlo I’m sure you’ll be fine, please don’t mind me)
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@foreverlurk almost 44 year old and I as most people know work at a bar and we have recently had a run of 5 foot 5 and under barmaids only issue are most are in there early 20’s and I feel if I flirted I’d be the creepy old guy
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@The-Big-G Yeah I’m not looking to date under 30, but what I meant in my comment was the general mindset on kinks of my (our) generation.
From what I’ve seen, 40+ people aren’t as open-minded on topics such as kinks and sexual diversity compared to the younger generation.
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@foreverlurk just have to find your/our people
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It’s possible that in my single days, I once hooked up with a very tall guy largely because of his size. We met at a music festival so we also had that and art-making in common. But the physical attraction seemed to be more long-lasting on my side than on his, I can tell when I’m not genuinely wanted. So, I didn’t try to force it to last too long.
I mentioned loving his size to him the first night, and he responded coldly. I guess he wasn’t happy with his own body for some reason, I don’t know why.
He was more than a foot taller than I, he dwarfed me in the bedroom. His frame was like hairy steelwork.
His was the face and body I imagined on skyscraper-tall giants in my fantasies for years. Still is sometimes.
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@tiny-ivy I definitely feel like I have a “giant of the week” and sometimes that is influenced by someone IRL who just has the perfect look or charisma.
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Yes, I have had size interactions in real life, but I was the one who initiated them, so I’m not sure if that still “counts.”
I’ve romantically/flirtatiously roleplayed size stuff with more than one girl I was potentially interested in. I did it in a normie-friendly, playful way, not in a kinky-sounding way or in a way that would set off a normal person’s creep-o-meter. I never told them it was a kink or a special interest of mine or anything like that, because:
- A) Why make it weird or awkward when it doesn’t need to be?
(Also, I wouldn’t want someone to feel pressured to play along, or to like something just because I like it.) - B) It’s an impossible fantasy anyway, with no chance of ever happening in real life, so why would they need to know?
When I did this roleplaying, there were a couple girls who got really, REALLY into it. They embraced being tiny and loved every second of it (and embraced the idea of staying tiny indefinitely). No, I don’t think they had a size kink, and I don’t think they were sexually turned on by the sizey stuff itself…I think they just really enjoyed the emotions (and the flirtation) that came with the fantasy. I think it’s a fantasy that speaks to something pretty universal in the female psyche, which is the same reason why Twilight and 50 Shades of Grey became so mega-popular. I never got a negative response from any of the girls I tried it on. Maybe a couple neutral responses, but most of the time, the responses were either positive or VERY positive.
- A) Why make it weird or awkward when it doesn’t need to be?
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