Unwilling stuff

[foreverlurk]

@Afreakingbby I’m not even close to being a cruel giant, but I really enjoy non-consensual (or semi-consensual) shrinking in my fantasies. I’ve met people who made me feel bad about that, but luckily I’ve also found plenty of tiny women who gladly play along with my scenarios and enjoy them just as much as I do.

That being said, it depends on the context. If you’re in a RP, like Big G said, I think the important part is making sure both partners know each other’s limits. For example, I’m a fan of micro, but I know that some find it overwhelming, or don’t like it at all. I can either dial it down if they want, or completely avoid it if it’s a no-no.

But yes, consent is key : if you consent to an unwilling scenario, and both party agrees, knock yourself out! Have fun! And screw the puritans or self-righteous gatekeepers of what should be allowed (or not) in size play.

(Aussi je ne sais pas si tu es francophone, ou si ton nom est vraiment Abigaëlle mais si oui, salut!)

[Olo]

@Afreakingbby There’s nothing wrong with enjoying non-consensual encounters in RPs, stories, and fantasies. There’s even a tag for it: CNC (“consensual non-consent”). As everyone else has said, the key is clear communication beforehand.

[tiny-ivy]

@Afreakingbby

Hey there, not to repeat what others have said, but as a fellow fan of scenarios where I imagine cruel things happening to me as a woman-ish person, and also a writer of stories that often end in terrible ways for the tiny woman, I’m sorry if you’re feeling pressured into feeling bad about this type of fantasy!

The attitude towards this seems to differ a lot from communities in one platform to another, and tied to different tags. I’ve noticed that people tagging their work “G/t” on sites like Deviantart and Tumblr are only interested in the gentle side, for example.

Your desires and tastes are valid. In time, you will find RP partners and community members who don’t shame you for it. Good luck out there.

[Afreakingbby]

@foreverlurk @Olo @tiny-ivy @The-Big-G

I would thank you individually but I don’t want to write 15 times the same messages lol-

Thank you for making me feel more valid towards my fantasies, I appreciate the time y’all took to answer and the points you made!!

Much love to all of you ♡

[Technomage]

@Afreakingbby Unwilling is my favorite, and I don’t even think I have to justify myself, from where I’m from we can tell apart real life from fiction.

[The Big G]

@Afreakingbby I try not to yuck other peoples yums

[Afreakingbby]

@The-Big-G
This outta be my new favorite saying ahah.

[i am insane]

I mean, that’s absolutely a fetish in a general sense. I might even say it’s common, even, considering what I know about female erotic stories and the like. I’ve found an almost certainly female author making stories about women cheerfully getting mind fucked into someone just as powerless to resist their owners as a shrunken women is, and a sort of shared universe literally called ‘Human Domestication Guide’, where the main characters are made into obedient pets by invading, well meaning aliens, so… yeah.

If you’re into it, willing, and consenting, then it’s not ‘unwilling’ in the meaningful, rape-y sense, which is rather the point where that gets awkward, morally. Hell if it’s just a story or a fantasy, then there’s no one real at all to be concerned about, and RPs aren’t real (unless you’re actually shrinking? ) so even if a ‘giant’ ‘steps on you’ you’re not actually getting stepped on by a giant foot, so… what’s the harm?

Honestly, I’ve always found it more concerning the other way around, since then you’re actually doing the wrong thing. The same logic applies there, of course, but I’ve always had problems emotionally accepting the logic about my own desires, so it’s not like I don’t get what you’re talking about.