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    • Afreakingbby
      Afreakingbby last edited by

      Hello!

      I’m going to be honest, I like the idea of being unwilling and getting poorly treated, Or as we say, “Cruel stuff” in my fantasies.

      I know I’m far from being alone but everytime I talk about it, I feel like the “gentle stuff” people always make me feel guilty about it in a way…

      I know that it’s questionnable when it comes to the consentement of fictionnal character, But is it that bad if, Per exemple, I consent to being unwilling in say, A Roleplay?
      I’m genuinely asking, I feel like it’s not really okay in the eyes of some people in the size community… But a good friend of mine says it’s just that they’re uncomfortable with it and it’s… unwilling fiction, therefore they assimilate it as “big bad thing” but I’m a bit confused about it… I fantasies about being unwilling but I like… consent to it?

      What do you guys think?

      (I’m super duper sorry for my sh*t explanation, It’s really hard to explain both the feeling, and my fantasies about being willing to be unwilling… you get what i mean)

      The Big G foreverlurk Olo tiny-ivy Afreakingbby 6 Replies Last reply Reply Quote 6
      • The Big G
        The Big G @Afreakingbby last edited by

        @Afreakingbby at the end of the day as long as it’s consenting and both parties agree then play ball as far as I’m concerned. The only real issue I see is that you have to have the boundaries set from the start and have a way to say that your uncomfortable so basically as long as you can communicate how you want to be mistreated then hell yeah. But I can also understand the hesitation as someone who has personally taken the role playing element past what my role playing partner was comfortable with I can fully understand the pause.

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        • foreverlurk
          foreverlurk GIANT @Afreakingbby last edited by foreverlurk

          @Afreakingbby I’m not even close to being a cruel giant, but I really enjoy non-consensual (or semi-consensual) shrinking in my fantasies. I’ve met people who made me feel bad about that, but luckily I’ve also found plenty of tiny women who gladly play along with my scenarios and enjoy them just as much as I do.

          That being said, it depends on the context. If you’re in a RP, like Big G said, I think the important part is making sure both partners know each other’s limits. For example, I’m a fan of micro, but I know that some find it overwhelming, or don’t like it at all. I can either dial it down if they want, or completely avoid it if it’s a no-no.

          But yes, consent is key : if you consent to an unwilling scenario, and both party agrees, knock yourself out! Have fun! And screw the puritans or self-righteous gatekeepers of what should be allowed (or not) in size play.

          (Aussi je ne sais pas si tu es francophone, ou si ton nom est vraiment Abigaëlle mais si oui, salut!)

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          • Olo
            Olo GIANT @Afreakingbby last edited by

            @Afreakingbby There’s nothing wrong with enjoying non-consensual encounters in RPs, stories, and fantasies. There’s even a tag for it: CNC (“consensual non-consent”). As everyone else has said, the key is clear communication beforehand.

            All my M/f stories and discussions can be found here.

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            • tiny-ivy
              tiny-ivy @Afreakingbby last edited by

              @Afreakingbby

              Hey there, not to repeat what others have said, but as a fellow fan of scenarios where I imagine cruel things happening to me as a woman-ish person, and also a writer of stories that often end in terrible ways for the tiny woman, I’m sorry if you’re feeling pressured into feeling bad about this type of fantasy!

              The attitude towards this seems to differ a lot from communities in one platform to another, and tied to different tags. I’ve noticed that people tagging their work “G/t” on sites like Deviantart and Tumblr are only interested in the gentle side, for example.

              Your desires and tastes are valid. In time, you will find RP partners and community members who don’t shame you for it. Good luck out there. :nonbinaryfairy: ✨

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              • Afreakingbby
                Afreakingbby @Afreakingbby last edited by

                @foreverlurk @Olo @tiny-ivy @The-Big-G

                I would thank you individually but I don’t want to write 15 times the same messages lol-

                Thank you for making me feel more valid towards my fantasies, I appreciate the time y’all took to answer and the points you made!!

                Much love to all of you ♡

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                  Technomage GIANT @Afreakingbby last edited by

                  @Afreakingbby Unwilling is my favorite, and I don’t even think I have to justify myself, from where I’m from we can tell apart real life from fiction.

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                  • The Big G
                    The Big G @Afreakingbby last edited by

                    @Afreakingbby I try not to yuck other peoples yums

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                    • Afreakingbby
                      Afreakingbby @The Big G last edited by

                      @The-Big-G
                      This outta be my new favorite saying ahah.

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                      • i am insane
                        i am insane GIANT last edited by

                        I mean, that’s absolutely a fetish in a general sense. I might even say it’s common, even, considering what I know about female erotic stories and the like. I’ve found an almost certainly female author making stories about women cheerfully getting mind fucked into someone just as powerless to resist their owners as a shrunken women is, and a sort of shared universe literally called ‘Human Domestication Guide’, where the main characters are made into obedient pets by invading, well meaning aliens, so… yeah.

                        If you’re into it, willing, and consenting, then it’s not ‘unwilling’ in the meaningful, rape-y sense, which is rather the point where that gets awkward, morally. Hell if it’s just a story or a fantasy, then there’s no one real at all to be concerned about, and RPs aren’t real (unless you’re actually shrinking? 😏 ) so even if a ‘giant’ ‘steps on you’ you’re not actually getting stepped on by a giant foot, so… what’s the harm?

                        Honestly, I’ve always found it more concerning the other way around, since then you’re actually doing the wrong thing. The same logic applies there, of course, but I’ve always had problems emotionally accepting the logic about my own desires, so it’s not like I don’t get what you’re talking about.

                        Power is choice.

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