How Open Are You All About Your Fetish?
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@sirensinner Not open at all. Even as a child I knew something wasn’t quite ‘right’ with me, so I kept this under lock and key, even more so after puberty.
I did try to tell the women who shared my life, but I never could. Awkward, introverted & shy, so communication has never been my forte, let alone discussion about my secret fetish. I have lots of respect to people coming out to their partners.
I think as an older (in my 40s) dom male, it’s simply hard mode. Subby, tiny men offer this “power reversal” trope. Women wanting to be big or shrinking men is “empowering”. But someone like me? I’m “perpetuating harmful gender stereotypes”
Only half-joking, because that’s what a lot of normies (and even people in this community) think of classic BDSM, so imagine their reactions to me wanting to shrink women down and use them for sexual gratification?!I tried to tell my sister with whom I’m otherwise very close, but even then it was a disaster. She was clearly uncomfortable and changed the topic, after acting like this discussion never happened
I’m most certainly taking this to my grave.
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Like the new new blue people movie I’ve lost count of all the simps for the fire and ash woman and how everyone one wants a giant blue mussel mommy. Don’t get me wrong they are sexy but I’m looking at her going awesome but what if tiny and still angry and defiant. Besides that the main questions I get asked when I make statements like “I would love to make tinker bell my cock ring” is “how dose that work ?”. The second most asked question is “so your into midget porn then ?” The way I generally explain it to others is think of it like power play in bdsm where you have a Dom and a Sub only difference is that when I play Dom to a sub there is a substantial height difference. I generally find people less weird out when you can put it terms that they understand but again if your not comfortable sharing it don’t there are no laws saying you have to just understand this isn’t something to be ashamed of it’s a healthy release. If you have people around you that are making you feel like a freak or your bad for having these desires then ether they have there own issues or they secretly want to be your tiny.
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I only discuss this with people online, and only with those who know me as “Olo” (I have normie accounts for normie business). SizeCon is the glaring exception.
My longtime partner knows of my F/m enthusiasms, but she’s not interested in any Sizey stuff. Once I decided to go to SizeCon last year I haven’t had to dance around the subject, but it’s still not something I go on at length about.
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I tried to explain it to me ex-wife (pre ex) and failed miserably. No one else. I don’t think my friends would understand. I mean our friend slipped they were a Furry and they found it a point a slight mockery. (Frankly I’m not sure how they didn’t know he was a Furry from the art he drew and always wanting to play a wolf based character in RPGs.)
This however I’m certain they wouldn’t understand. Especially, like others, my interest tends to lean male dom/Female sub style. As well as a way to vent darker thoughts I don’t like having. Yeah I think its going to be a big surprise for someone what I am into after I die.
But you all understand, right?
HH1
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@HHunter1 said in How Open Are You All About Your Fetish?:
I tried to explain it to me ex-wife (pre ex) and failed miserably. No one else. I don’t think my friends would understand. I mean our friend slipped they were a Furry and they found it a point a slight mockery. (Frankly I’m not sure how they didn’t know he was a Furry from the art he drew and always wanting to play a wolf based character in RPGs.)
This however I’m certain they wouldn’t understand. Especially, like others, my interest tends to lean male dom/Female sub style. As well as a way to vent darker thoughts I don’t like having. Yeah I think its going to be a big surprise for someone what I am into after I die.
But you all understand, right?
HH1
Just warn us in advance and we can swing by and delete your browser history
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@The-Big-G
Oh it might be a touch more then browser history.
HH1
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@HHunter1 flame throwers it is then
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