It depends, of course, on the specific scenario. 
For most one-on-one situations, I prefer 2-4 inches. The ability to completely enclose her in my hand or mouth is an indispensable experience.
In a harem situation, however, I could definitely see a role for a “headmistress” who is up to 8 inches. Too big to swallow and bigger than the other girls, but still small enough to hold in one hand while tasting her. 
@foreverlurk said:
I guess tall dudes aren’t as used to being rejected based on their height
No doubt. “What is this woke nonsense?”
I’ve never used a dating app, but I suspect that growing up with porn that is not only easily accessible but also highly customizable encourages people to form inflexible preferences early, much earlier than they would had they experienced a wider range of possible partners in their formative years. Then dating apps come along and they feel obliged to specify a preference for each and every choice menu offered.
I’m waiting for the dating app that lets me specify on my profile: “I’m 5’9”, but I can make you feel 4"-tall when you want it."
@smolchlo Daddy’s Dollhouse is a tiny, precious oasis. We don’t see much traffic or content here, but what there is is damn good. Venture out into YouTube or #sizetwitter and your eyes will glaze over, and not in a good way.
I never truly appreciated this expression until I held a tiny lady in my hand. 
Episode 007 just dropped. This ep is just Aborigen narrating a story from the variously-themed flash-fiction contest he used to run, Size Riot. I participated in Size Riot for most of its installments, and the story that Aborigen chose to narrate, “Even an Ox” by @Taedis, was, IMO, the best of the entire contest. And guess what? It’s an M/f story.
@smolchlo Sturgeon’s law: “90% of everything is crap.”
No size kinkster likes everything that falls under “size fantasy,” and because most of it is anonymous smut, there’s no attempt at quality control or holding people to aesthetic standards. The prevailing attitude is: “Thanks for your contribution! We’re just glad you’re here.”
You’re gonna see a lot of stuff that does nothing for you, and some stuff that actively repels you. More heart-breakingly, you will see stuff that is right up your alley but is so poorly done that you will hate yourself for the pity-upvote you give it.
My only advice is patience.
@littlemejeanine I love when tinies get taunted.
You know the old adage: you never really get to know a person until they’ve been shrunken small enough to hold in your hand. I am therefore more interested in seeing a variety of different women dwindle out of their clothes and come to grips with having to navigate a world of giants. Young or old, skinny or fat, timid or tough; it’s a new discovery each time.
As to specific sizes, I answered this before.
Nevertheless, if you paraded a wide cross-section of women in front of me and said, “Pick one and we’ll shrink her for you,” I’d probably lean toward a MILF type, old enough to have acquired some confidence and dignity, only to lose it as she became my pet. I would also be strongly tempted by a thick ass and thighs that I could gnaw on.
@Aborigen Impish question: Are you gonna do a M/m version over on Coiled Fist?
