What do you enjoy about size stuff?

Olo

I know the whole noncon shrinking is borderline and contradicts what I just said lol

Get to know a woman well enough and she won’t have to tell you she wants you to take her home in your pocket; you’ll just know.

ricenoodle

@wildxpixie I hadn’t really thought about trust! Just goes to show the extra layers of complexity that mixed-size relationships have The idea of earning the tiny’s trust is so fun, and it actually helps with something that I think tends to be a narrative obstacle, which is the fact that the giant ends up being the one in control. Going back to RP, I’ve had times where I felt like I was the only one moving the plot forward, being the big one. It’s really a beautiful compromise!

ricenoodle

@foreverlurk The process of shrinking isn’t usually the highlight for me, though it’s a very nice part of the fantasy, of course. To be honest, one of the things I enjoy the most about it is how everyone seems to relate to it in a different way! It isn’t something that gets stale, that’s for sure.

For RP… it’s a mixed bag. My experience on Reddit hasn’t been really good. I’ve found a few good partners, but there’s definitely a lot of ghosting (I’ve had people stop replying suddenly, after several weeks of activity…) and I think there’s a lot of one-liners and really short form RPs, which isn’t really what I’m interested in. Same for Discord, but it tends to be a little better, at least the servers I’ve visited.

I imagine it also helps that I rarely posted plots of my own, I’m much more comfortable replying to someone else’s so I can have an idea of what it’s going to be like.

foreverlurk

@ricenoodle I enjoy learning what everyone likes too, It’s been such an eye opener. Crazy how much variety the size fetish has spawned! Made me discover so many things about myself, even if outside of my comfort zone.

I have to say that, even more than the shrinking itself, it’s the anticipation of the shrinking that gets me really going. I like a slow buildup leading to that moment. Even better are the rare times I truly wasn’t expecting any size change, only to get hit out of nowhere with my kink lol

I’m ashamed to say I sound like the bad Redditors RPers you describe. Sometimes I just get too tired, English isn’t my mother’s tongue and requires a mental overhead to translate and express myself properly. Or it’s a compatibility issue, I get self-conscious, etc. I just suck sometimes.

blehb

For me personally I always get a little bored when size content focuses completely on one thing. I definitely like variety in stories I read, as long as it stays within my limits.

ricenoodle

@foreverlurk I’m not a native English speaker either! I don’t think you sound like a bad RPer, though. Just from the detail of your replies I can see there’s thought and interest in a discussion, which is… more than I can say about a few people, haha

Besides that and the ghosting part, I think everything else is mostly a preference and a matter of compatibility from my side. I prefer writing a fair bit and being hit with a quick one-liner after sending two or three detailed paragraphs is tiresome (or conversely, receiving too much text, though I’ve only had that happen once). But I know there’s people who enjoy the shorter RPs, and definitely a lot of people who just enjoy chatting about different scenarios and size thoughts but don’t want to RP, and that’s perfectly okay, even if it’s usually not my thing!

The struggle to translate myself is real, I can totally relate to that. Though if it’s any consolation coming from another non-native, I wouldn’t have thought English wasn’t your first language

Mrgoblinging7

Power, control, domination of the weak. A lot of my fetishes revolve around that, actually, not just size stuff.

tiny-ivy

@ricenoodle size makes everything else bette, to me. But I definitely have my own strong preferences within that.

When talking about just any story about anything, any genre, yeah, size makes it all way more fascinating to me. No matter what the original author has a preference for.

When talking about a story that I’m reading because I’m horny, that’s when the specific kinks come into play.

BigCuddlyGiant

I like girls who are so clingy and needy for affection and care that they want to be surrounded, smothered, and swallowed up by it. Someone who is such a bone deep natural submissive that she literally wants to be a dress up doll or an obedient pet. Sizeplay is just the ultimate expression of that level of trust and literal outsized need.

foreverlurk

@ricenoodle Thanks for understanding the struggle of realtime translation during RP. But now I’m curious, what is your native language? Mine is French, btw.

I’ve been guilty of ghosting, but to be fair I’ve been ghosted FAR more often than not. I’m more into an RP session if I’m in control, and the best ones I’ve had was when I was stealing someone else’s OC from a story I liked hehe. It’s kinda like taking a pre-made character in Dungeons and Dragons and playing his part. Works very well if you align with said character.

Oh and welcome to DD!

Olo

@foreverlurk said:

Mine is French

giantmaneddie

To me, both sides of the sword are the domination and the caretaking aspect.

foreverlurk

@giantmaneddie

Giganto82

@giantmaneddie I like both sides.

Olo

@ricenoodle I have favorite kinks or specific activities, and when I first discovered other size fantasists online that’s all I focused on. Size remains a primarily sexual area of imagination for me, but in recent years I have expanded my interests to mixed-size relationships, different takes on world-building, and “slice of life” scenarios. Exploring a wider variety of perspectives just makes it more real for me.