Does anyone else have an urge to lift / carry attractive people?
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I’ve had this urge since my sex drive came around in puberty to just lift or carry people whom I find attractive.
It’s this subconscious urge that doesn’t come around as a result of careful thoughts, it’s just instinctual.
I’ve never been an asshole about touching people, so I only actually do this after asking. I’m not very strong, with a female body type & few muscles, and this is a pretty weird ask, so I’ve only actually been able to do it to a couple of close women friends.
The last two dudes I’ve been with since I’ve started exploring my kinky side were both too heavy for me to carry them, which is frustrating. I was hanging out with a skinnier, shorter man the other day in a friend group, and this urge returned, but our friendship isn’t like that so I’d sooner die than ask him.
I’m asking about this on here because I wonder if other “giants” or switches have this urge, too - if you think it’s part of the domination thing, or part of your size kink.
And of course I love to be lifted, and I’ve asked for that several times from obliging male dates. But I also have this weird urge to lift.
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@tiny-ivy Lift how? Like the Heimlich maneuver? Or Superman cradling Lois Lane? Behind your head with one leg over each of your shoulders?
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@Olo it doesn’t matter, the point is removing them from the ground. The simplest and least weird method for this is just a yoink during a hug, with chests together, heads next to each other.
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@tiny-ivy Ah, thanks. I’m afraid IRL it’s not in my repertoire, either lifting or being lifted.
Anyone I lift is going in my pocket.
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@tiny-ivy Oh 100% I get this desire. I identify more as a ‘tiny’ than ‘giant’ but have those occasional switch urges and love when I can pick up friends. It does make me feel strong more than anything, but I wouldn’t really say it makes me feel dominant or ‘giant’. But it could be, because I’ve always liked the idea of being able to pick up exes that were women, so hmmm.
On the other hand. I also love being picked up by friends. IRL I am pretty small so I have friends who love to pick me up. I think its such a fun feeling, just being so easily picked up and moved around (most of the time anyways). And I think that is more related to enjoying feeling small.
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I mean, beyond the usual, ‘hold this SW in/on my hand’ thing?
…Personally, I have this urge to engulf people. Like, if I was hugging someone of a more normal size, or laying in bed with them, I’d want to wrap around them, and if they’re smaller? I just want to… hold them to my chest. The smaller they are, the more I basiclly want to tuck them in myself, or under my clothes or something. I just want maximum amounts of their surface area covered by my own body.
It’s like being the big spoon on steroids, basiclly.
So… kinda, but more as a side effect than as the stated goal.
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I’ve definitely had that kinda urge since I was a kid. I’d always contrive of excuses to drape girls over my shoulder or princess carry them when we were playing, hahaha.
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Oh I am a huge lifter, be it on my arms, over my shoulder, in a hug or on my back. I only do it if I’m openly flirting with someone, sharing intimacy or if I’m asked to, so no problem with consent. Some girls freak out but others enjoy it a lot. There was this girl who was almost as tall as me with a strong body type who got really turned on when I did (she never had been lifted since childhood).
I specially enjoy when they squeak sensually and move their legs as if they were kicking, it reminds me a lot of Land of the Giants. For me it’s extremely sensual to pick a woman from the floor taking any control of her movements, I enjoy a lot when she has a submissive side and likes it as much as me, because I totally think it has to do with domination/submissiveness but also with being some kind of caretaker to someone.
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@SmolChlo I need to watch more wrestling.
