I just responded to another post of yours about personality, but I thought I’d drop an additional note here.
There’s a ton of G/t M/f stuff on DeviantArt obviously done by younger women who don’t seem to intersect much with the properly naughty size scene.
Personally I think that’s great. It doesn’t all have to be genitalia flying all over the room. What matters is whether the play is fun and rewarding.
Even in straight up size smut there are scenes where characters have breakfast or go shopping or even fantastic things like repair spaceships together as a G/t team.
If that’s the part of the story that matters to you, then enjoy.
Makes me wonder if I should try my hand at some PG stuff just to see who might still find that emotionally satisfying even if they don’t… well… you know.