When I went to sizecon, there were a sizeable amount of asexual identifying people. I’m also somewhere on that spectrum. As a man, I do find a lot of sexual and romantic feelings around tiny women and the shrinking process. I never enjoyed genitals sexually. My fantasies always involve women “shrinking with her clothes” and I enjoy things in that fluffy way and never go further. My stories usually end on a “cliffhanger” because for me it’s enough that the woman is small. At that point it’s about building a relationship with her, not torturing her - I really like making the woman feel like “she’s at home” when she’s tiny - trying to let her live as normal a life as possible while being that size.