@littlest-lily He grows to be 3 storeys tall! Thus the title. What I saw was that he meets his love when he’s only 7ft, then keeps growing over the course of his adulthood.

@Olo said:

As for handling F/m content, you’ll grow into it.

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@i-am-insane said:

The other way is… well, don’t have the interaction at all. The guy is a little statue, or something: can’t move, can’t talk, but he can perceive the world around him, to some extent.

I’ve thought of this is a scenario too, and it tends to centre around themes of loneliness, feelings of inadequacy and trying to rebuild (physically, emotionally, etc.) after a major event. Giving him some sort of consciousness still makes me feel some obligation to expand on his perspective, especially if it also adds depth to their eventual relationship (call me a romantic). But I agree - it is a slightly better alternative to engaging with a tiny man character.

I’m not inherently against F/m and SM content. For me, it just comes with a lot of baggage. But if it makes sense to include or adds to the story (even better), then I can put a lot of that baggage aside. I think with this trope, I can then do away with it entirely once the first part ends 🙂

@Olo Now since I think about it, I agree with what you said, that your not waiting for size to be mainstream. I guess it would be a bad thing since you also said it would be exploited by capitalism. I thought this may be an interesting topic to dwelve in because I feel as if the size community has become so much over the past years. I also wanted to try and predict where this community is headed. You are right about how there is no single size community.

@TakoAlice8 You are so so kind, thank you for those lovely words ❤

I’m also not sure if this helps… But another thing that I’m realizing has helped me is that I have a friend who is on the SM side - he thinks SW are cute but would much rather be tiny himself. And he is JUST as bothered by judgy GTS fans as we are and also thinks there should be more variety in content. It helps me to hear that kind of thing from him and know that the toxicity comes from a very loud minority.

Would you let me lay on your hairy chest? Please? 😇

@Nyx me too. I love gigantic boys with an ascot and vest.

I didn’t realize that there was another topic related to this when I posted this and I apologize.
Here is the link to the topic this post is related to.
https://forum.daddysdollhouse.org/topic/139/clothing/8

@Kisupure Thank you very much. That’s one of the best of these pages that I’ve seen.

Yes, the yandere trope is somehow overused, but you add some G/t and it becomes ten times better. There’s this scenario stuck within my head (probably very soft for most connoisseurs), in which a giant is so impulsive he grabs the lil lady without care whenever he wants, and he’s always there as he is always stalking her. The giant brings her to his home without her consent and makes some arrangements, so she can live with him, ignoring any of her opinions and of course being possessive and delusional. It’s so sweet… The cherry on top is the tiny woman actually liking being treated like this, even if the giant is scary at times.

I’m not super familiar with Genshin Impact but now I love that line 😁 This is so well done!

I’m a switch, but I still get pretty pissed off when people want me to be big for them while I’m feeling small (and vice versa).

@i-am-insane I hope you know that if you think your on the ace spectrum, you don’t have to have a label for your asexuality or your sexuality in general. Sexuality is complicated.

I do also crave the more wholesome end of size scenarios. I also really like it in M/f scenarios where the bigger person is intimidating but not cruel. I also really like when the bigger person teases in M/f.

I am very glad the SW community has been welcoming towards you. What I have heard from other people’s experiences, the GTS community can be a bit toxic at times but not all the time.

@miss-lillipants said:

At the risk of sounding dismissive, it is a fantasy after all.

At the risk of sounding snobby, I’m hoping to meet a higher standard.

Yeah, nice try convincing us that any of that bothers you at all 😛

It bothers me quite a bit, actually. I’ll work on expressing myself more convincingly.

@tiny-ivy said:

I’ll probably never actually write it, since it wouldn’t be a kink story at all. It would just be a tragedy with sci-fi elements.

I’d still want to read it.

@Nyx said:

This is my experience as well, and why a lot of giantess and shrunken woman content doesn’t appeal to me. In terms of giantess content, there isn’t a lot of content that focuses on how desirable the tiny man is; the focus is usually on the woman because the creator can’t imagine himself as being the object of desire. I see the same thing with a lot of shrunken woman content, where the man isn’t supposed to be desirable and is often just depicted as a hand or other faceless non-entity.

I see this as an artistic failure on the part of the author. As a writer it’s my duty to make my story accessible to everyone, not just the people who share my specific kink.

@i-am-insane said:

outside of like, fan girls, I’m not really sure I’ve seen examples of people saying, ‘this man is hot!’ beyond poorly written porn/power fantasies, and even then it’s rare. Meanwhile, women being viewed as attractive is all over the damn place.

This is exactly what is meant by “the (straight) male gaze.” You can also see it in the cultural assumption that men who work on their body, their clothing, or their grooming must be gay.

as a man I’m not sure how I’d write a man as being attractive. Part of it is I don’t get it, true, but it just feels weird at some level to even think that way.

As far as I can tell, the best way to learn how to describe an attractive man is to read writing by people who find men attractive.

@NobodyOfKnowhere there is a totally sfw story along those lines on tumblr. Sadly.

@Kisupure Considering that you’re one of my favorite writers, I’m extremely happy that you’ve been enjoying it 😄

Yes, huge men need more appreciation! I honestly don’t care If m/f has growing or shrinking in it, since it’s so hard to find I can’t really be too picky about. But I do really like ginormous boys and I am sometimes in the mood for non SW m/f. If you are a gigantic boy, you are loved and valid no matter what 🙂