The space between SFW and NSFW

[littlest-lily]

Oh wow, I was anticipating crickets! Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts ahhh I definitely feel that much less alone

I’m not sure I would want to take on the creation/moderation of a new group (however small) at this stage, but it’s so great to know there might be some interest if I try to tackle it one day. And if anyone else wanted to spearhead it, please feel free and I’d be happy to help! I agree that perhaps something like a Discord group could be fun, and perhaps it would be easy(ish?) to set up and free(ish?).

I definitely wouldn’t suggest changing Daddy’s Dollhouse in any way. It’s not like sfw content isn’t welcome here, and I think it’s a great kink space as is. I’m honestly not sure if I would keep it strictly SW focused either… While I don’t really have any interest in giantess myself, I’m less worried about the more obnoxious gts fans in a sfw-ish group. I’m not sure what all this would look like since I hadn’t actually considered creating anything myself!

But goodness gracious do I appreciate the words of support guys ️

[foreverlurk]

@miss-lillipants said in The space between SFW and NSFW:

I don’t want to infantalise young people who are coming to terms with being more sexually active and they should be free to safely explore that

Reading back what I wrote, I didn’t want to sound like I’m against that - I’m not naive either, and smart teens will always find ways around roadblocks. I mean, the Internet is a much different place than when I was a teen in the mid to late 90s, and I believe it’s now much easier to find out you’re not alone with this fetish in the world and exchange with like-minded people (and that’s a VERY good thing!).

I also didn’t want to sound like I’m against NSFW content, which would be hypocritical, since I do still enjoy it from time to time. I’m just saying that it’s not the first time I’ve heard about the need to have an “adult” space that walks the line between SFW & NSFW.

Anyways, if someone needs help I could give a hand on the technical side of things, but I really don’t have enough free time right now to take point on such a project.

[HHunter1]

Just curious, but would it be possible to put a branch here for SFW content. I know here is a bit touchy to show to ahh, lets call them the uninclined. But it would give those works a space and we could see if there are enough producers of art in that vain for a sperate page. You know, soil to plant the seed as it were.

HH1

[Olo]

@HHunter1 said:

would it be possible to put a branch here for SFW content.

I don’t have a problem with this, but I find it a bit ironic considering that part of the impetus for Jit to create this forum was that she objected to “the rough stuff” being ghettoized on other SW forums (e.g. the “Violent Shrunken Women” section).

[HHunter1]

@Olo I suppose. I hadn’t thought about that since that’s the neighborhood I spend most of my time in.
I was just trying to think of a way to help discover if there was enough support before they stepped out on their own ledge. But I also saw no problems with them posting here except not being comfortable sharing it with non-size fans. (Which I fully understand.)

HH1

[blehb]

I feel silly for my initial post, as I’m just now realizing there are already tags for SFW/NSFW. So I don’t think adding additional ones will do us much good.

Maybe our best solution is to simply make more of the content we want to see? I plan on creating my own stuff eventually (though I do like a good mix of SFW/NSFW), but even just starting discussions about pure fluff sounds kind of nice in my opinion! I have a bunch of size-related craft videos I’ve watched that I think a lot of people here would enjoy.

[Kisupure]

Going back to the OP, I agree - kink is not always about getting off, and in fact it rarely ever is, psychologically speaking. Kinks are fundamental needs being met in superfluous trappings.

I have a GF now who’s just as size kinky as I am (and a lucky bastard am I!) but more importantly, I’m actually getting to flex my dominant muscles in an actual relationship. It’s her first time getting involved in anything related to BDSM, and while it’s not my first rodeo by a long shot, what I’ve discovered is that the basis of dominance, control, is actually just a fundamental part of who I am as a person.

Like, I can dirty talk her for an hour over text, tell her what to do and what to think and what to say while she’s masturbating, and I may not even get that sexually turned on - I can do this while I make dinner and watch TV - but turns out it satisfies me on a level I didn’t really know existed and even if I didn’t so much as touch my dick, I still wouldn’t trade this kind of power for the world.

I’m not really playing with macrophilia right now because I’m getting deeper into the IRL BDSM scene and power exchange, but for me it’s where my size kinks come from, and it’s a VERY powerful way to scratch the itch.

Telling her what to eat, installing tracking software on her phone so I can see where she is at all times (and listen in with her phone without needing permission), having her put stuff in a calendar so I know what she’s doing - these are all non-sexual things that our dynamic is settling into because they satisfy a very deep need for both of us. “Being” a giant is just another way of signaling that I’m in control, I have the final say, and that I can withstand things that my sub/victim/pet/plaything can’t (the burden of authority.) But there’s a more direct route for me, and that’s through living D/s.

[Olo]

@Kisupure