I feel like 'unaware' tends to be pretty uncommon in M/f. What is everyone's opinions on it?
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Of course unaware M/f exists! But compared to every other pairing I feel like it has the least amount of content.
Based on general trends I see, I suppose it makes sense. A lot of content from the woman’s perspective tends to prioritize intimacy and the relationship itself, whether it is gentle or cruel. From the man’s perspective, content tends to really focus on imagery with attention to the little lady’s appearance in regards to her surroundings. This is making generalizations obviously, but it’s what I’ve noticed! Unaware doesn’t really lend itself to either of these things.
For me personally, it’s some of my favorite content. I don’t think you can get more submissive than unaware. For someone to fully dominate you and not even do it intentionally- you feel so tiny and insignificant! And the best part is that the giant could be the nicest person ever. The idea of being so mean to a tiny might repulse them… unfortunately, they’re just so much bigger and stronger than you that the bullying happens on accident. And I love how flustered they get upon becoming aware of things.
I know this discussion has occurred in other threads, but idk. I think I just wanted to talk about unaware giants.
I’m curious to hear what you all think, especially any bigs themselves that find unaware appealing. -
You start finding little piles of sparkling things left near you and roaches are killed and left out in strange places unbeknownst to your your house has been invaded by tiny tribes women who worship you like a god as they wish to curry favour with the new god they found
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@The-Big-G One of my favorite scenarios is a borrower-type woman spying on her human: playing around in his clothes, moving his stuff around, risking getting close to him, etc.
I never thought of it from the perspective of like tribes of women worshipping him. That’s amazing. I would love to see the reveal on that too. I adore giants getting all shy and embarrassed. I imagine he would get all self-conscious at the idea of being their “god,” but they just get more and more insistent about it.
“Did our offerings please you my Lord?”
“I told you, I’m not a god, I’m just a normal dude!”
“Perhaps a human sacrifice would be more to your liking?”
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@blehb said:
For someone to fully dominate you and not even do it intentionally- you feel so tiny and insignificant! And the best part is that the giant could be the nicest person ever. The idea of being so mean to a tiny might repulse them… unfortunately, they’re just so much bigger and stronger than you that the bullying happens on accident. And I love how flustered they get upon becoming aware of things.
This is the reason (and the kind of scenario) that converted me towards “unaware” content. It’s not usually a big part of my fantasies and is always temporary, but I use it to help emphasise the size and power difference between characters: she’s left in awe at how easily the giant is able to manipulate and manoeuvre his surroundings, and is all the more cautious/fearful when she realises how dangerous/destructive he can be when he’s unaware of her or anything else beneath him.
But he doesn’t mean it and super apologetic
OR he doesn’t mean it and is like "well, what do you think would happen? Don’t get in the way next time
"And things go from there.
I wouldn’t say it’s voyeuristic in the traditional sense, but for me, it’s a way of expressing admiration to both size and the male form (or, the giant male form). Big features maketh the giant fantasy. Anyway, yes, do rate
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I think it can be cute if a tiny girl is into unaware but it really doesn’t do much for me personally. My preference is to be EXTREMELY AWARE so that I can care for or dote on or tease a little lady. To me the back and forth reaction to each other is the juice.
That said, if I had an actual tiny woman as a pet/lover it might be fun to pretend to be unaware of her and tease her with a “Hmm, where did she go…” while sitting on her, stepping on her, stuffing her down my pants, using her as a loofa, etc all the while feeling her squirm around.
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@blehb honestly reminds me of a old story I read where a guy finds a small portal in his new house that connects to a tiny world free of metal and he places a spoon in it and receives precious gems in return. Basically the tiny tribe on the other end start worshipping the god portal that brings them metal the guy for his part hears the tiny cry’s of joy and decides to just toss all his cutlery into the portal. One of the female tribes men cautions them all about turning there backs on there old gods for this new one so they toss her into the portal. So you have the guy that just emptied his cutlery draw expecting more gems only to have a tiny woman pop out and he’s like ummm wtf and she’s like false idol how dare you try and steal my tribe from our gods.
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@The-Big-G said:
he’s like ummm wtf and she’s like false idol how dare you try and steal my tribe from our gods
No better foreplay than a theological debate.
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For me the chief attraction of unaware stories is seeing the internal thoughts and feelings of a tiny woman when she’s not trying to placate or otherwise perform for a Biggo. What she really wants, fears, and desires, as opposed to what she thinks he wants to hear.
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@miss-lillipants said in I feel like 'unaware' tends to be pretty uncommon in M/f. What is everyone's opinions on it?:
OR he doesn’t mean it and is like "well, what do you think would happen? Don’t get in the way next time
Oooh, I love this response! Where he sort of treats you like a pesky little bug. Doesn’t even have to be in a mean way, but sometimes tinies can be so exasperating!
I also like unaware fantasies being temporary. One of my favorite parts of the entire thing is the giant becoming aware. The reactions can be sooo fun!
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@blehb I usually prefer temporary unawareness and I love the moment when the giant discovers a tiny person. Does he react with concern and compassion? “Oh, there’s a tiny person! Can I help you?” Or does he react with a devilish smile and then snatch them up?
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@BigCuddlyGiant said in I feel like 'unaware' tends to be pretty uncommon in M/f. What is everyone's opinions on it?:
That said, if I had an actual tiny woman as a pet/lover it might be fun to pretend to be unaware of her and tease her with a “Hmm, where did she go…” while sitting on her, stepping on her, stuffing her down my pants, using her as a loofa, etc all the while feeling her squirm around.
As much as I love unaware, NOTHING beats a giant tease. It is the best M/f has to offer in my opinion. These are fantastic ideas.And I totally get why it can be hard for the giant to find unaware appealing! Ultimately, the fantasy is just them acting completely normal, so you really have to be attracted to the ‘meta’ aspects of it I suppose. That’s why I’m really curious to hear from any bigs that are into it!
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@blehb said in I feel like 'unaware' tends to be pretty uncommon in M/f. What is everyone's opinions on it?:
I don’t think you can get more submissive than unaware. For someone to fully dominate you and not even do it intentionally- you feel so tiny and insignificant! And the best part is that the giant could be the nicest person ever. The idea of being so mean to a tiny might repulse them… unfortunately, they’re just so much bigger and stronger than you that the bullying happens on accident. And I love how flustered they get upon becoming aware of things.
Why are you calling me out like this?!
Seriously taps into soo many things I love all at once. Strangely I’m not even a fan of unaware because I’m craving interaction too much, but this is just perfect for a “first encounter”. Dominating her without even trying, or knowing.
The idea that I could have hurt her fragile form by accident, just because of my sheer size is both scary and exciting. I can’t really be cruel or hurt tinies consciously, heck even in VR I feel guilty when I accidently send a tiny flying, I can’t imagine hurting her IRL… I would be sorry beyond words.@blehb said in I feel like 'unaware' tends to be pretty uncommon in M/f. What is everyone's opinions on it?:
Where he sort of treats you like a pesky little bug. Doesn’t even have to be in a mean way, but sometimes tinies can be so exasperating!
Oh you bet they can be little brats! It’s both annoying and endearing at the same time (“Ugh, stop doing that!”
please don’t stop)
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@Olo That’s definitely the type of answer I was looking for in regards to why bigs might enjoy unaware, and it’s super relatable. What the giant is thinking and feeling, even when he’s not interacting with the tiny, plays a huge role in my own fantasy. Imagining those unfiltered thoughts is so exciting!
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@Nyx Oh yes. I’ve been going on about how much I love the shy/gentle giants of unaware situations in this thread (I think I love the contrast between his unintentional actions and his actual character).
BUT the meaner ones are also absolutely fantastic. They might find the situation hilarious, or mock you for going unnoticed. Or maybe for a moment the tiny thinks they’re finally being rescued, only to find out the worst possible person found them.
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@foreverlurk said in I feel like 'unaware' tends to be pretty uncommon in M/f. What is everyone's opinions on it?:
Strangely I’m not even a fan of unaware because I’m craving interaction too much, but this is just perfect for a “first encounter”
Oooh, that’s a great point! Getting introduced via an unaware encounter really establishes the dynamic for the rest of the relationship. You can’t blame the giant for not being overcautious initially, but going forward he’s probably going to constantly remember how he almost hurt his tiny. Unaware really gives gentle giants a way to push those more aggressive boundaries, without betraying their morals.
And hey, brattiness is how some tinies show affection. We know we can push a big’s buttons and they’ll still be gentle and respectful in the end. It’s a symbol of how much we trust you.
Sometimes a bit of discipline is healthy for both giant and tiny though…
