@RogerRoger I’m not a SW, but may I also suggest reading a few M/f stories by female authors? For me that was such an eye-opening experience, one that wasn’t possible 20 years ago in the male-gaze dominated landscape.
Here on this forum you find stories by @miss-lillipants , @skysayl and @littlest-lily and more, that cover a wide variety of settings that should give you some insights into the alternate POV.
And yes… I could easily listen to them talk for hours about their perspectives, why they like being tiny or shrunk, the appeal in it, etc. 



