Underfoot
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@Olo I feel that’s like that’s like solving food inequality by starving everyone. No one, regardless of gender, should have porn play a role in developing a self image. It’s not healthy.
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@Deedee There’s porn and there’s porn. I’d like to know what images arouse women.
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@Olo One of the best things I have learned in life is that nothing arouses women and nothing arouses men. But many things will arouse the woman or man you’re with. Watch how she reacts to things, talk to her, and experiment. No woman worth being with will begrudge you for trying something for her enjoyment that didn’t work.
What I have learned is that no one likes the excuse “Other man[or woman] liked it so I thought you would” oooh was that an awkward night that I’d rather not have had.
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@Deedee I 100% agree with this when it comes to individuals in relationships. It’s a joy in and of itself to discover what makes your partner tick 🥰
But I do think that on a broader level there is some value in differentiating the types of preferred content between various groups of people and exploring what makes people tick on a greater scale (ie the conversations about male vs female gaze). It doesn’t cover any one individual’s preferences universally of course, but there are some trends that I think are worth discussing. Maybe particularly if you’re a content creator or something and you’re trying to cater to a group. It’s fun to talk about in any case!
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@Olo shape is what’s most important to me (high arches, long toes) but odor plays a big part as well. I haven’t come across any super stinky feet but the scent they give off when I’m giving a massage has definitely caused sudden arousal
It’s rare bc of how shy men can be about their feet but the few times I’ve given a foot massage, I usually pretend I’m tiny and really get into my role as a little foot slave lol… I think my foot fetish compliments my macrophilia fetish pretty well
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@Deedee I completely agree! Hopefully men will one day realize that their feet are desirable and deserving of worship
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@SmolChlo Little trick I learned, when you get to that state in a relationship, tell them you have a thing and get him some cheap lotion for his feet. He won’t think his feet are naturally attractive, but if he’s thinking “Hey I can do this for my girlfriend and that will make them attractive” he feels like he’s achieving that status and will accept it.
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@Deedee so don’t aggressively grab his ankle while shouting show me them toes boy!!
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@SmolChlo Hey that’ll totally work on some.
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@littlest-lily said in Underfoot:
Part of it is the fact that I’m into almost any body part as long as it’s gigantic, but there is something extra about being down on the floor at his feet where I’m most vulnerable, or about being pinned under a single toe - there’s an extra layer of domination/humiliation/playfulness there that I enjoy a whole lot.
That’s exactly how I feel about feet. Like I looked at the subreddit and my thoughts were just like “Yeah, some of these are really nice looking.” but it’s not content I’m going to be looking for in the future. On the other hand, the first story in the article about her having to lick the guy’s feet sounds very appealing to me. It’s definitely more the domination aspect of it than the actual feet to me.
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@Olo
Idk what I’m ever going to do with this information but that’s very nice to know~ -
I’m a guy who has a foot fetish and is also a microphile. And no, I’m not one of THOSE foot fetish guys…you know the ones I’m talking about. The creepy, obsessive guys who shove their fetish in everyone’s faces and appear to have no sense of personal boundaries (kind of like some of the guys who are into giantess content). Those guys make me cringe whenever I see them.
Regarding women with fetishes struggling to be heard, I wonder if that might not be a blessing in disguise. (Although I’m sure it’s still frustrating for female fetishists when they’re on the receiving end of certain assumptions, and I don’t mean to minimize that.) Here’s what I mean when I say it’s potentially a blessing. Society has a lot of negative labels for people with sexual proclivities that are considered undesirable. For instance, if I say the word “rapist” or “molester” or “pedophile,” people will immediately assume I’m talking about a man, not a woman. If I say “pervert,” people will assume I’m talking about a man. If I allude to someone being overly “enthusiastic” about anything sexual, people will assume I’m talking about a man unless I say otherwise. The word “fetishist” is kind of like the word “pervert”…it’s a label that generally thought of as something negative and undesirable. Again, if I say “fetishist,” people assume I’m talking about a man…it’s a word that describes “undesirable” sexual behavior, so the fact that people instinctively associate it with men is not surprising. It follows the same pattern as the other negative labels that have to do with sex. Sure, Quentin Tarantino’s foot fetish gets a lot of press and a lot of visibility, but at the cost of being the butt of a lot of jokes.
My point is that I think some people might shy away from recognizing women’s fetishes because they don’t like the idea of putting a traditionally male and traditionally negative or “gross” label on women. It seems like people are usually more reluctant to think of women as being “gross” or having gross attributes. A lot of them seem to be very attached to the idea that women are “sugar and spice and everything nice”–the idea that women are pure and innocent and not gross–and they don’t give up those ideas very easily. They don’t really want to believe that women are capable of “undesirable” behaviors in the same way men are. It ruins the sentimental illusion for them…kind of like going to Disney World and seeing the guy in the Mickey Mouse costume taking a break, smoking a cigarette with his giant cartoon head removed. An example: when you hear news stories about female middle school teachers sleeping with their male students, people are usually far more reluctant to call those teachers pedophiles, or to label it as an act of sexual assault, or to call the male students rape victims. If it were a male teacher with a female student, it would be a very different story.
Is it frustrating when people have these very common perceptions about women? Yes, it certainly can be, for a variety of reasons. But I think it could also be considered an unintentional compliment, depending on how you look at it. Personally, I’d rather have people give me the benefit of the doubt and be slow to jump to conclusions, instead of having them assume all sorts of negative things about me and label me a “deviant” if they ever suspect that I like feet, or if they suspect that I like tiny women. So for that reason, I’d call it a mixed blessing.
I say this a lot, but as always, I could be wrong.
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apparently many guys have trouble seeing any part of themselves (except that one) as inherently desirable.
I guess that explains the much-lamented phenomenon of guys sending unsolicited dick pics to women (which I personally have never done).
When you think you’ve only got ONE good card in your hand, you lean on that one card pretty heavily. When you’re holding a hammer, everything looks like a nail… -
@protect-tinies I did some reading on that, apparently it’s the reaction they want. Positive or negative. But really I don’t know.
I’ve had women send me topless pics unsolicited. I’ve had guys send me dick picks unsolicited. One poor guy did it, and was shocked that I didn’t respond positively. He just misread the signs. I didn’t mind the miscommunication but he felt so bad he eventually stopped talking to me.
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@Deedee That’s true…I’ve heard about guys who act creepy or aggressive on purpose and who actually TRY to get a negative response from women, because they get turned on when women shame them for something sexual, act like they’re pathetic and disgusting, and so on. Similar to a femdom kink (there’s probably some overlap). I guess we’ll never know how many of those guys there are and how many of them are just tone-deaf.
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