Abandonment Play
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There’s an idea I’ve been thinking with recently: abandonment play. Or maybe flat out abandonment.
A focus that’s not the giant trying to train the SW, but the SW trying to get the giant’s focus at all.
Main example I’m picturing is shrinking a group of cheerleaders and leaving them in a aquarium tank. Just the tank. No food. No water. No furniture. Nothing. Just them and a wide expanse of glass. The thing is, things can be added… if they can attract attention to be given those things. Moreover, everything that’s added disappears at the end of the day.
So, not even to stay comfortable but to survive, they need their captor’s attention, every single day. No matter how little they like it, even if he just plays with them at least they end up with food. Worst yet, the more they do something, the more used to it, and thus less interested, he gets, and the more they have to escalate…
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Best part? It’s a great, hands off, minimum work method of training, breaking a SW’s normal taboos and willingness to degrade herself: you want a behavior? ‘Notice’ them faster when they do it, and soon enough they’ll realize that things get better when they kneel when you enter the room. Save the treats for when you really like what they’re doing, and it’ll happen more and more.
And when they surrender enough, when whatever behaviors you desire happen on instinct? you can move them to more welcoming accommodations, and they’ll thank you for it. Getting them completely conditioned to fighting for every use of litter or meal scrap means that suddenly a hamster cage and three regular serving of whatever you’re eating looks positively cosy.
And, if you think they’re getting to uppity? Or just don’t want them to feel that settled? Say that you’re bored, and move the back to The Tank. Even when you move them back, they’ll be that much less secure in their own luxuries. Call out someone specifically while you do so and the group will destroy them to try and appease you.
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I love this scenario but hate it at the same time. I find it thrilling being small and having to work so hard to get his attention but also incredibly anxiety inducing bc I don’t know for sure if he’ll even pay attention to me once I do whatever new little trick I think he’ll like. He never lets you know what’s good enough, what pleases him, he gets bored so easily so your mind is constantly running 24/7 on how you can possibly get even a crumb of attention from him. And what makes it even more pathetic is being excited out of your mind over the most bare minimum reaction when he finally decides to give it you. Yet I’m turned on at the thought of being treated as less than. It’s a method that would make me love and hate him at the same time. Obsessed with him but also disgusted. The devastation of being ignored would be too hard to handle long term… I’d easily be biting by day 3
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@SmolChlo
And that’s why it’s abandonment play.Another scenario is where it’s (at least to some degree) consensual. The SW (girlfriend, pet, whatever) is into that, and maybe the boyfriend (owner, whatever) is… maybe less into that, but also a bit absentminded?
And so they do the tank thing… and he goes about his day. And for him it’s normal, but her…
Boyfriend watches TV while not noticing tiny naked woman.
Boyfriend ordered food while not noticing his tiny naked girlfriend.
Boyfriend watches porn while not noticing his tiny naked girlfriend getting herself off !!!And then you get into what that does to their relationship after the fact…
Power is choice.
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@i-am-insane This actually reminds me of another kink I’ve seen. Idk if there’s an actual name for it but there’s a subreddit called /r/BorednIgnored. Basically, one person is desperately trying to get off while the other person either acts annoyed or completely ignores them. While that subreddit mostly focuses on women playing the “bored” role, the reverse definitely exists. I love the idea of applying it to a size scenario.
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I’ve seen it as a part of bondage, specially ‘abandonment play’. The S ties up the M, and then ‘leaves’ them. They secretly stay nearby, keeping an eye on their helpless sub, while said sub sexily loses their mind for awhile. The M comes back, after care, probably some sex, boom.
I don’t think it’s a specific kink, per say, as much as it is a specific flavor (being ignored, to show how much less they are) as part of just wanting to be a sub in general.
Like so many things I propose, it’s something I often see in GTS stuff (ignoring the tinies/being utterly unaware or indifferent to them) that can be easily applied to GT situations.
Power is choice.
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@i-am-insane said in Abandonment Play:
I’ve seen it as a part of bondage, specially ‘abandonment play’. The S ties up the M, and then ‘leaves’ them. They secretly stay nearby, keeping an eye on their helpless sub, while said sub sexily loses their mind for awhile. The M comes back, after care, probably some sex, boom.
Oh yes, I also love these types of scenarios. Never thought about how this, the sub I mentioned, and ignored/unaware size content are all related, but you’re right that it’s all the same flavor of degradation.
GTS content has definitely inspired a lot of my GT preferences. It’s such a big community and so creative, there’s so many ways to find something new and wonder how it would translate with the roles reversed!
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@blehb said:
This actually reminds me of another kink I’ve seen. Idk if there’s an actual name for it but there’s a subreddit called /r/BorednIgnored. Basically, one person is desperately trying to get off while the other person either acts annoyed or completely ignores them. While that subreddit mostly focuses on women playing the “bored” role, the reverse definitely exists. I love the idea of applying it to a size scenario.
Combine this with “free use” (where the “bored” one is also being “used”) and you’ve got yourself some Sizey goodness!
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I’m a big fan of multi-size, so combine that with the fact that all the ‘users’ are shrunken as well. Bonus humiliation points of if they’re all smaller than the ‘used’ SW, who is either tied up and helpless or obedient to the giant that she can’t stop/allows the people she should be able to easily dominate from doing whatever they want to her, that she’s less than even them.
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@blehb
Ultimatly, I’ve found that size is generally derived from some other fetish/kink: bondage, rape fantasy, pet play, and so on, all of these share similar origins, it’s just… magnified. Size makes things that are often more ‘consensual’ more of an absolute.You want to be strong? Powerful? Be a giant, and destroy everything in your way.
You want to be a gentle guardian, or you want a well trained pet? Get a shrunken woman, and treat her to your tastes.
You want to helpless but loved, or to be put in your place? Get a kindly, or not so kindly, person to take care of the tiny you.
You want to feel helpless yet special, weak but still with a life? Be a giant’s That One Person, given unique treatment by the living natural disastor.
