Does anyone feel this way about F/m

[Technomage]

You cannot be an object of desire without being an object, and the bigger someone is, it’s going to reflect the desire of the other more blatantly.

[BigGrumpy]

I don’t think their is anything wrong with objectification.
(although i do have a rule about not including real people in my fantasies) everyone even normies will sexually objectify people in their fantasies. As long as you don’t objectify real people it’s fine.

However to answer your question
The dominance of F/f, F/m, and intersex/futa/f have kind of pushed me out of the fetish as of late

[TakoAlice8]

@Olo Oh now that I see it, I wasn’t upset with people in F/m being “Objectified”. I was upset with how hegemonic F/m is again. I suppose because I am ace I feel uncomfortable with “Objectification” in fetish media and so I have a hard time understanding how it could not make someone uncomfortable. I also tend to be overly empathetic towards fictional people so that was also probably why I got uncomfortable.

I am still trying to figure out what kind of size media I like. It turns out I am my brain is not as tolerant size media with sexual undertones as I thought.

Alright keep being kinky.

[i am insane]

@TakoAlice8
Weirdly ace yet fetish-y crowd unite!

More seriously, I get the overly empathetic bit- whenever I try to come with ideas I like from stories I like, a lot of general story concepts I like have the big be… well. Kind of a dick? All of the bullying and threatening and killing and stuff.

And I like that, except I don’t want to do that to someone. Or, honestly, even watch that done to someone… even though I do? I only really want it in the fictional concept, but the second I try to picture me writing something like that there’s too much of me in the giant to do it.

Inside me there’s two giants fighting over how to deal with fetish material and the conflict is leaving my ability to make a story in shambles.

[TakoAlice8]

@i-am-insane said in Does anyone feel this way about F/m:

@TakoAlice8

More seriously, I get the overly empathetic bit- whenever I try to come with ideas I like from stories I like, a lot of general story concepts I like have the big be… well. Kind of a dick? All of the bullying and threatening and killing and stuff.

And I like that, except I don’t want to do that to someone. Or, honestly, even watch that done to someone… even though I do? I only really want it in the fictional concept, but the second I try to picture me writing something like that there’s too much of me in the giant to do it.

Inside me there’s two giants fighting over how to deal with fetish material and the conflict is leaving my ability to make a story in shambles.

I like M/f scenarios where the larger person makes fun of or teases the smaller person, not to bully but to provoke the tiny person. It just has that annoying older sibling dynamic. The larger person is being mean but they aren’t being abusive mean. It’s a lighter version of the bullying.

I also like it when the larger person tires to scare the smaller person by showing his teeth at her. It’s a lighter version of the killing to me.

[OptimisticSizes]

@TakoAlice8, if I may, I honestly am on both sides of the spectrum; I like to be both small and large. While I do understand this is about objectification, it is entirely a fictional stance.

For example, when I am shrunken I like to somewhat like this pet, with some little objectifications, but nothing too demeaning, like it the dirty talk sense, the giant or giantess, or both use me as well as care for me… like in the sense of they know I’m fragile. However, they still want to tease me in this mock-bully way.

As for being a giant, I see the tinies as pets, I also tease them, mess with them. When I do get rough with them during intimate acts, but not so much that it causes them severe pain. Their still shrunken people that are very fragile, I’m careful with them because I kinds don’t like being the cruel giant.

Howevet, I like other stuff that is not so related to shrinking and more of growing, but more of in the “giant in the city” sense, like I’m bigger than a city and I have my fun, but the thing is that’s just fiction, think of it as those break rooms, you just break shit without any repercussions, and when your giant and a major city is small, it’s like an addictive urge to just have fun. But they can’t happen in real life because yes you destroyed a city as well as pleased yourself, but you have to think about your morals, the fact that you blew off some steam but did a lot of bad things.

But yes, I see your point, and it’s not really kink-shaming, it’s just your taste. And it’s fiction, you think how you want to.

[TakoAlice8]

@OptimisticSizes I very glad I am not kink shaming because I am sex positive even though I am ace.

[OptimisticSizes]

@TakoAlice8 don’t worry, you’re fine :3