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@littlest-lily Oh no, if getting butterflies in my stomach when chatting with a SW is cheating, I’m done for

Seriously, the very nature of our kink makes it borderline thoughtcrimes, no? So much of it happens in your mind because it can’t be otherwise. I did ask for opinions, and I’m not judging - neither am I seeking absolution or validation.

Lily, you raise some very good questions. What’s even more interesting to me is that my own answers have changed over time, my 20-yo self would have been way more conservative about some of those, whereas now I think I would give all the freedom and trust to my partner, if the roles were reversed.

@Deedee said :

My general rule is that if you aren’t comfortable telling your partner exactly what happened you shouldn’t be doing it

I don’t disagree. I simply wasn’t able to tell her about the kink, yet I couldn’t give up SW. It’s not that I never tried, either. It’s just not quite the same for me as, say, asking your partner for a threesome, other more normie-ish things of that nature.

I don’t know, maybe I’m the only one. If someone doesn’t understand that it’s harder for some people to come out about this, well… all I can say is I’m jealous.

@SmolChlo Thank you so much, Chloe, you’re too kind.

I’m still waiting for my hug though (points at calendar)

@GoddessAngela and that’s perfectly fine!

What’s not is telling M/f content creators that they should do giantess or shrunken men content instead, and not respect their preferred size dynamics.

@Olo Should have seen my face when I talked to tiny Ranni - the first time she continues pretending to be a doll, the second time she replies:

“Oh? A dogged fellow, aren’t we? Or is it merely thy habit, to talk to dolls?”

Yes, stupid sexy four handed tiny witch, it IS a habit of mine. Of course, I also chose her ending. If a tiny lady asks me to travel the stars for a thousand years with her, how could I possibly refuse?

@Olo It’s tomorrow, right? Unless I’m mistaken.

(and this entire video has no right to describe so perfectly what I’d want in life)

Edit: I was, indeed, mistaken. Happy Hug a Tiny Day!

@blehb Thanks! Always loved to dream about this when spending some time in the bath growing up, don’t ask me why I don’t know lol. Might be the 2nd most popular place to imagine SW beside my own palm.

@skysayl See? @blehb likes it. I’m not weird for wanting my SW to ride rubber ducks. They’re the best and a safe spot instead of the “deep” bath water. So now… get on the duckie!

@littlest-lily Merci! Very interesting but I wish we got access to the raw data, especially if this survey has been going for years.

Love the sarcasm

@maladaptivetiny In another life, late teens / early 20s, I was really into the goth/industrial scene and that club in Montreal was my second home, every Sunday.

Can’t tell you how many times I’ve imagined one of these vampire girls dancing on my palm instead of the dancefloor. Or in a jar instead of a cage (yes, there was cages - that was something).

I was poor, depressed, lost, yet I still miss it sometimes. Never stopped loving the music though.

@TakoAlice8 That’s a good question. I guess for me this is only a problem in a consensual, loving scenario where I actually care about what the shrunken lady thinks of my looks. Simply put, I would hope that if she could see something attractive in me at normal size, her change of perspective wouldn’t nullyfing this.

In that case, my love and need for a tiny woman overtakes my own lack of self-confidence on the scale. In fact, I think part of this fantasy was born out of my extreme shyness, a coping mecanism - seeing girls as small, innofensive in my mind. It’s hard to understand if you haven’t lived through this, especially in the 80s where parents weren’t attuned to social anxiety, autism, etc.

@Olo I just love how Xanor is on a M/f roll for the past few weeks (ofc w/ the usual “post moar giantesses pls” comments)

@Mimi-Robotto Thank you so much, there’s a lot that resonates with me in what you wrote, but first let me just say that I’m in a better place mentally than when I wrote this. I haven’t been able to talk to my therapist about the kink yet but we did address some adjacent topics. Meds also helped but caused other side effects which I’m still dealing with. Overall I’ve still got a long road ahead but no longer in pure survival mode.

About the void I feel, you absolutely nail it on the head. I’ve never been more myself than when I indulge in RP or semi-RP with tiny ladies. They see a part of me that’s been hidden forever, and they love that part of me. It’s incredibly validating and at the same time, reality comes back twice as hard to crush me. That’s the part that make me feel even lonelier in this life, more so than just the lack of a life partner, but one who sees me without any facade, at my most vulnerable.

Sadly I had to stop my therapy sessions because my insurance ran out and I couldn’t afford to pay for them out of pocket, but I’m restarting them in January, hopefully this time around I’ll be able to push through my mental block and talk openly about my fetish. I feel there’s still a lot to unpack in there.

@Olo By Shar… my thumb and index have a date with this little bug

It was to be expected, every single poll in the size community asking these kind of question have the same results. They’re just showing what we all know - that M/f is far less popular than F/m or F/f. Hopefully he’ll ignore the results and still see there’s some interest even if he won’t be breaking the bank with this one.

@Olo Sadly the story went the “WRONG WAY” but that “what-if” dream sequence was lovely.

@Olo
I want this.
No, I need this.