@maladaptivetiny In another life, late teens / early 20s, I was really into the goth/industrial scene and that club in Montreal was my second home, every Sunday.
Can’t tell you how many times I’ve imagined one of these vampire girls dancing on my palm instead of the dancefloor. Or in a jar instead of a cage (yes, there was cages - that was something).
I was poor, depressed, lost, yet I still miss it sometimes. Never stopped loving the music though.
@skysayl said in Sizeplay ideas for couples:
So, I used to have a set of veeerrry large clothes for exactly this purpose- whenever I threw them over myself and let them basically slip all the way off it drove him crazy
Me, reading this trying to have my Friday night beer:
I’m taking so many notes rn 
@Olo I just love how Xanor is on a M/f roll for the past few weeks (ofc w/ the usual “post moar giantesses pls” comments) 
I was taking a trip down memory lane earlier today on the archived version of the old Minimizer forum, and beside being amazed at how much was available (including old threads by yours truly!), I came upon something I remembered from back in the days:
The question is simple enough : Can role-playing sizey scenarios online be considered cheating?
If you had asked me back in 2008, I would have said “yes”, without a doubt. I didn’t even RP that often, but the guilt I felt, the way I hid my online activities and the shame I had whilst trying to hopelessly “cure” myself of this kink gnawed at me from the inside. My partner deserved better, yet I was stuck in this loop from not being able to tell her about my kink.
Nowadays, I’d probably say “it depends”. If I told my girlfriend about my kink and she wouldn’t want to partake, I’d be fine with it as long as she understood I don’t have an “off” switch to my kink, and yes, role playing from time to time might happen. I think the key is being transparent about it, but I’m aware that this might not fly with every gals (and guys).
Opinions?
@Olo By Shar… my thumb and index have a date with this little bug 
@littlest-lily Oh no, if getting butterflies in my stomach when chatting with a SW is cheating, I’m done for 
Seriously, the very nature of our kink makes it borderline thoughtcrimes, no? So much of it happens in your mind because it can’t be otherwise. I did ask for opinions, and I’m not judging - neither am I seeking absolution or validation.
Lily, you raise some very good questions. What’s even more interesting to me is that my own answers have changed over time, my 20-yo self would have been way more conservative about some of those, whereas now I think I would give all the freedom and trust to my partner, if the roles were reversed.
@Deedee said :
My general rule is that if you aren’t comfortable telling your partner exactly what happened you shouldn’t be doing it
I don’t disagree. I simply wasn’t able to tell her about the kink, yet I couldn’t give up SW. It’s not that I never tried, either. It’s just not quite the same for me as, say, asking your partner for a threesome, other more normie-ish things of that nature.
I don’t know, maybe I’m the only one. If someone doesn’t understand that it’s harder for some people to come out about this, well… all I can say is I’m jealous. 
@Olo Sadly the story went the “WRONG WAY” 
but that “what-if” dream sequence was lovely. 
@Olo It’s tomorrow, right? Unless I’m mistaken. 
(and this entire video has no right to describe so perfectly what I’d want in life)
Edit: I was, indeed, mistaken. Happy Hug a Tiny Day!
@littlest-lily Merci! Very interesting but I wish we got access to the raw data, especially if this survey has been going for years.
Love the sarcasm
@TakoAlice8 That’s a good question. I guess for me this is only a problem in a consensual, loving scenario where I actually care about what the shrunken lady thinks of my looks. Simply put, I would hope that if she could see something attractive in me at normal size, her change of perspective wouldn’t nullyfing this.
In that case, my love and need for a tiny woman overtakes my own lack of self-confidence on the scale. In fact, I think part of this fantasy was born out of my extreme shyness, a coping mecanism - seeing girls as small, innofensive in my mind. It’s hard to understand if you haven’t lived through this, especially in the 80s where parents weren’t attuned to social anxiety, autism, etc.
Tinies always know how to find the best spot 
(Meanwhile here it’s -15C and it’s dropping to -30C in a few days 
Could definitely use some beach weather)
@Mimi-Robotto Thank you so much, there’s a lot that resonates with me in what you wrote, but first let me just say that I’m in a better place mentally than when I wrote this. I haven’t been able to talk to my therapist about the kink yet but we did address some adjacent topics. Meds also helped but caused other side effects which I’m still dealing with. Overall I’ve still got a long road ahead but no longer in pure survival mode.
About the void I feel, you absolutely nail it on the head. I’ve never been more myself than when I indulge in RP or semi-RP with tiny ladies. They see a part of me that’s been hidden forever, and they love that part of me. It’s incredibly validating and at the same time, reality comes back twice as hard to crush me. That’s the part that make me feel even lonelier in this life, more so than just the lack of a life partner, but one who sees me without any facade, at my most vulnerable.
Sadly I had to stop my therapy sessions because my insurance ran out and I couldn’t afford to pay for them out of pocket, but I’m restarting them in January, hopefully this time around I’ll be able to push through my mental block and talk openly about my fetish. I feel there’s still a lot to unpack in there.
It was to be expected, every single poll in the size community asking these kind of question have the same results. They’re just showing what we all know - that M/f is far less popular than F/m or F/f. Hopefully he’ll ignore the results and still see there’s some interest even if he won’t be breaking the bank with this one.
