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@LuvShrunkenGirls You’re right, my bias is probably because I don’t actively participate in the M/m community (I’m straight), so if you were to do a full breakdown by gender/sexual orientation, you’d probably see that M/m is more popular than M/f.

My original comment was in the context that OP was lamenting the lack of giant men compared to shrunken women. So my angle was more “giant men + normal size women” vs “normal sized men vs shrunken/tiny women”.

Same (relative) size difference, but different scenarios.

@littlest-lily said in Uneven Results:

@foreverlurk Dammit! So much for a micro size benefit being harder to spot…

My eyes had some training in VR, but honestly I’m like a T-Rex, my detection is based on movement hehe.

I’ll admit those quartz surface are my nemesis when trying to spot speck girls, they blend in the existing ones.

@Mrgoblinging7 Thanks, I hope it does work for me too.

I think the nature of the fantasy itself, of wanting to dominate/shrink/reduce really makes it harder to paint ourselves (biggos) in a positive light. I can rarely see myself as anything else than the “bad guy” in my fantasies, or maybe the hypocrite savior at best.

I’m still not sure what I’ll need to feel better (an actual 3" tall lady would def help!), but gaining a better understanding of myself is the first step.

Good news, it seems her account is back although she hasn’t posted anything new yet.

@giantmaneddie Thanks, and sorry to hear you’re also going through tough times. I’m hoping my therapist will prove worthy of my trust, I’d regret skipping over this part of me.

You know… I’ve been married and trust me you can be years in a relationship and still feel alone.

You mention pets, I think my cat is a great help to my mental health. I got her when she was so tiny, she could fit into the palm of my hand. You can say I always loved cute, small things.

@Nyx I’m a grognard and a survivor of GiantessCity, old enough not to care about them, but I’m still sad that this behaviour could potentially lead to creators leaving the community.

Don’t worry about me, this M/f creator is here to stay, I’ve lurked long enough.

@skysayl said in Depression and Size Kink:

almost every single pulse ox in my facility is cheaply made and not worth a hollow-punched toonie

Hollow punched toonie, lol I’m stealing that expression.

It was actually in a private clinic (I know, shame on me) and from the look in her eyes she probably thought I was going to flatline right here and there.

I should bring my EKGs next time and explain to her what’s happening lol.

Size panic is so real… “they know!!!”

@littlest-lily Soo many good ideas. I might have done every one on the “wholesome” list in one way or another, with the added difficulty of her being unaware of the real reasons behind my sizey gestures, comments, or interests. I can only dream of indulging in the less innocent list one day (Step 1 is to get myself a partner lol)

@Giant-Gripper I have to say I’m incredibly jealous. Such a nice thing for her to do, I don’t know if your partner enjoys the kink too, but regardless it’s so very sweet of her to indulge you like this. She has probably no idea how such a simple, silly thing can work its way into our giant’s brains. I would be so

@SmolChlo said in Sizeplay ideas for couples:

when he hugs me he’ll lift me up and squeeze really tight till my back pops and all the air is out of my lungs. Feels like I’m in his gigantic grasp

When I’m with someone smol (to me, so 5’2 and under) I can’t resist doing that lol. Lift/grab then squeeze, hearing the air leaving her (and the cute protests afterwards). “Stop it, put me down!”, then me proceeding to leave her on top of the fridge. Simple pleasures, yeah.

@SmolChlo Thank you so much, Chloe, you’re too kind.

I’m still waiting for my hug though (points at calendar)

@skysayl said in Sizeplay ideas for couples:

So, I used to have a set of veeerrry large clothes for exactly this purpose- whenever I threw them over myself and let them basically slip all the way off it drove him crazy

Me, reading this trying to have my Friday night beer:

I’m taking so many notes rn

@Olo Should have seen my face when I talked to tiny Ranni - the first time she continues pretending to be a doll, the second time she replies:

“Oh? A dogged fellow, aren’t we? Or is it merely thy habit, to talk to dolls?”

Yes, stupid sexy four handed tiny witch, it IS a habit of mine. Of course, I also chose her ending. If a tiny lady asks me to travel the stars for a thousand years with her, how could I possibly refuse?

I was taking a trip down memory lane earlier today on the archived version of the old Minimizer forum, and beside being amazed at how much was available (including old threads by yours truly!), I came upon something I remembered from back in the days:

The question is simple enough : Can role-playing sizey scenarios online be considered cheating?

If you had asked me back in 2008, I would have said “yes”, without a doubt. I didn’t even RP that often, but the guilt I felt, the way I hid my online activities and the shame I had whilst trying to hopelessly “cure” myself of this kink gnawed at me from the inside. My partner deserved better, yet I was stuck in this loop from not being able to tell her about my kink.

Nowadays, I’d probably say “it depends”. If I told my girlfriend about my kink and she wouldn’t want to partake, I’d be fine with it as long as she understood I don’t have an “off” switch to my kink, and yes, role playing from time to time might happen. I think the key is being transparent about it, but I’m aware that this might not fly with every gals (and guys).

Opinions?

@blehb Thanks! Always loved to dream about this when spending some time in the bath growing up, don’t ask me why I don’t know lol. Might be the 2nd most popular place to imagine SW beside my own palm.

@skysayl See? @blehb likes it. I’m not weird for wanting my SW to ride rubber ducks. They’re the best and a safe spot instead of the “deep” bath water. So now… get on the duckie!

@littlest-lily Oh no, if getting butterflies in my stomach when chatting with a SW is cheating, I’m done for

Seriously, the very nature of our kink makes it borderline thoughtcrimes, no? So much of it happens in your mind because it can’t be otherwise. I did ask for opinions, and I’m not judging - neither am I seeking absolution or validation.

Lily, you raise some very good questions. What’s even more interesting to me is that my own answers have changed over time, my 20-yo self would have been way more conservative about some of those, whereas now I think I would give all the freedom and trust to my partner, if the roles were reversed.

@Deedee said :

My general rule is that if you aren’t comfortable telling your partner exactly what happened you shouldn’t be doing it

I don’t disagree. I simply wasn’t able to tell her about the kink, yet I couldn’t give up SW. It’s not that I never tried, either. It’s just not quite the same for me as, say, asking your partner for a threesome, other more normie-ish things of that nature.

I don’t know, maybe I’m the only one. If someone doesn’t understand that it’s harder for some people to come out about this, well… all I can say is I’m jealous.