@skysayl said in Sizeplay ideas for couples:
So, I used to have a set of veeerrry large clothes for exactly this purpose- whenever I threw them over myself and let them basically slip all the way off it drove him crazy
Me, reading this trying to have my Friday night beer:
I’m taking so many notes rn 
@coolguy69 Perhaps you already know her but she’s one of my favourite :
I was taking a trip down memory lane earlier today on the archived version of the old Minimizer forum, and beside being amazed at how much was available (including old threads by yours truly!), I came upon something I remembered from back in the days:
The question is simple enough : Can role-playing sizey scenarios online be considered cheating?
If you had asked me back in 2008, I would have said “yes”, without a doubt. I didn’t even RP that often, but the guilt I felt, the way I hid my online activities and the shame I had whilst trying to hopelessly “cure” myself of this kink gnawed at me from the inside. My partner deserved better, yet I was stuck in this loop from not being able to tell her about my kink.
Nowadays, I’d probably say “it depends”. 
If I told my girlfriend about my kink and she wouldn’t want to partake, I’d be fine with it as long as she understood I don’t have an “off” switch to my kink, and yes, role playing from time to time might happen. I think the key is being transparent about it, but I’m aware that this might not fly with every gals (and guys).
Opinions?
@Olo said in We're Gonna Do Everything:
Penetration isn’t the only way to have sex?
Love this. Normies and their lack of imagination - baffling!
This is why mainstream writers for anime, TV shows or movies will never allow any size difference in romantic relationships. Even in completely SFW scenario, that thought of “it’s an impossible love” has undertones of “impossible sex lol”. 
@littlest-lily Oh no, if getting butterflies in my stomach when chatting with a SW is cheating, I’m done for 
Seriously, the very nature of our kink makes it borderline thoughtcrimes, no? So much of it happens in your mind because it can’t be otherwise. I did ask for opinions, and I’m not judging - neither am I seeking absolution or validation.
Lily, you raise some very good questions. What’s even more interesting to me is that my own answers have changed over time, my 20-yo self would have been way more conservative about some of those, whereas now I think I would give all the freedom and trust to my partner, if the roles were reversed.
@Deedee said :
My general rule is that if you aren’t comfortable telling your partner exactly what happened you shouldn’t be doing it
I don’t disagree. I simply wasn’t able to tell her about the kink, yet I couldn’t give up SW. It’s not that I never tried, either. It’s just not quite the same for me as, say, asking your partner for a threesome, other more normie-ish things of that nature.
I don’t know, maybe I’m the only one. If someone doesn’t understand that it’s harder for some people to come out about this, well… all I can say is I’m jealous. 
@LuvShrunkenGirls You’re right, my bias is probably because I don’t actively participate in the M/m community (I’m straight), so if you were to do a full breakdown by gender/sexual orientation, you’d probably see that M/m is more popular than M/f.
My original comment was in the context that OP was lamenting the lack of giant men compared to shrunken women. So my angle was more “giant men + normal size women” vs “normal sized men vs shrunken/tiny women”.
Same (relative) size difference, but different scenarios.
@blehb said in Shrinking Abilities:
Having more content to enjoy is a lucky thing!
True, that’s why I envy bisizual switchers, makes it that much easier to find new content!
@blehb said in Shrinking Abilities:
But I’ve read opinions in the past where people say it’s seeing the shrinking process itself that does it for them
Oh believe me I know! You’re talking to someone who was banned on The Process Forum because I had posted media w/ no process in it.
Should have known with the forum’s name but I didn’t think they were religious about it. To be fair that was 15+ years ago, the admin was a bit of a dick, and SW was only just tolerated back then.
@Olo It’s tomorrow, right? Unless I’m mistaken. 
(and this entire video has no right to describe so perfectly what I’d want in life)
Edit: I was, indeed, mistaken. Happy Hug a Tiny Day!
@SmolChlo Thank you, you’re making this giant blush! 
Honestly I do love some aspects of it. Maybe… I’m not fully comfortable to admit it, yet. I’m definitely not into violence like crushing underfoot, or anything related to smell 
But it can be very sensual imho, even if the smaller party might not always see it that way hehe.
@BTbutcher said in Re-Homed:
It’s funny how the photo manips that take the least amount of editing usually turn out the best
Also true for my own work, I’ve noticed! Some I’ve spent hours tweaking manually are barely noticed, while others I just threw out there haphazardly got all the praise.
@littlest-lily Merci! Very interesting but I wish we got access to the raw data, especially if this survey has been going for years.
Love the sarcasm 
@SmolChlo said in Luxurious Enclosures:
I learned the hard way that not all miniaturists are macrophiles oh well, at least they learned day 1 that I’m actually 4”
Oh… is there a story you’d be willing to share here 
