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(Trigger warning: I may dwelve into sensitive topics regarding body image, please stop reading if this post upsets you. Your mental health is important)

I read a section on mightytinygiant’s website going over her experience as a switch a little while back(if you are reading this mightytinygiant, shoutout to you, you are awsome). She mentioned dysphoria, a feeling when you are uncomfortable with something you have. And she related it to her sometimes feeling like being only a tiny but being forced to be big vice versa.
What she said had related to what I am currently going through.

I hope you can see, obviously I identify strictly as a tiny and I cannot at all take a millisecond at the thought of being the opposite of tiny. I can’t understand fully what it is like to be a switch such as mightytinygiant, but her experience was still relatable.
I currently have an issue with my weight. My bmi is 24.4 which is healthy but almost to the overweight side. This has made me feel heavy and large, an absolutely terrible set of feelings for a strictly tiny identifying person such as myself.
I also have gotten jealous of short people in the past because to me it seemed so easy for them to feel tiny.
I wanted to post this to see if anybody feels the same way.

Does your body make you have trouble feeling the size you want to be?

This was very hard for me to layout and explain, I feel as if it is size related enough for me to post on this site.

I am sorry if I come across as shaming F/m. F/m is not inherently bad. These are just my feelings about the genre.

I don’t often look at F/m because it makes me feel uncomfortable so this may just be my feelings. I feel this feeling, like I am being objectified when I look at a lot of F/m. I am not sure if a lot of F/m does objectify women, maybe I just don’t like it because the woman is big and I don’t like feeling big.

It feels as if a lot of women in F/m are dehumanized. I feel this because I see that a lot of giantesses commit mass genocide without remorse. Don’t get me wrong I like evil characters. But the evil to me feel as if it has no deph.

I know this all fantasy but I can’t help but to feel these icky feelings. Size art feels extremely real to me because it feeling real to me makes up for it being impossible for me to be shrunk.

There’s the trope in F/m that makes me feel extremely uncomfortable. It’s the trope where all men shrink. It makes me feel uncomfortable not just because my demographic is not being shrunk and I want to feel like I am being shrunk. But also because I feel like a lot of men would use that trope to objectify women, I feel as if it also could objectify men because it assumes all men want to be shrunk.

I know it’s wrong to kink shame people and that this trope being kept just as fantasy is not wrong. I honestly find the idea of a society where all the women are tiny and all the men are gigantic to be arousing because it works for me being bi. So I understand bi men who like the opposite trope. Unfotunatly I can’t help but to feel icky due to the lack of gender equality this trope has. I have made up a fictional species of human where sexual dimorphism makes the men gigantic and the women and intersex are normal sized to avoid objectifying men, they are all cis because I want it to just be M/f.

I honestly wrote the “anomoly that reduced out of hand” out of spite and jealousy for F/m fans. I was a bit apprehensive about writing it because I thought it might give a man the same icky feelings I am trying to explain in this post. I wrote it anyways because if men wrote this trope with F/m, then I can write it with M/f. I apologize for the poor characterization, I am bad at writing and I don’t mean to objectify men.

Maybe my feelings about F/m are invalid and a lot of F/m doesn’t objectify women. I wrote this in the hopes of resolving my feelings. Please tell me why you think my thoughts are invalid if you think so.

Edit: I read the replies and now I think objectification can not happen in fetish media due to it’s overly fictional nature. I think I need to work on not treating fictional people like they are not fictional. I think I also got upset because I found out I am not as tolerant sexual size media as I thought I was. And again I am upset with the F/m hegemony.

I recently had been diagnosed with body dysmorphia disorder after having to got to the mental hospital(I am still not sure if it’s an official diagnosis, it said on my discharge forms I have BDD). I mainly have body dysmorphia with my height, I honestly feel a bit embarrassed about having BD with my height because usually people have it with their weight and face.

Before I got diagnosed I had been using g/t unconsciously to cope. I used both M/f works from other people and I would draw myself as a tiny person.

I used to get very jealous of men because I felt they had more size media to go to if they ever felt too large. I also felt as if the culture around F/m being the dominant fantasy in the community also made me feel jealous and upset because it feels as if the culture was forcing me to be something I feel very very uncomfortable with. But ever since I found out I had BD and that I had been using size media as a cope for it, the jealousy had died down a bit because I am now more aware of the origins of my emotions.

I really really hate feeling large. But I am also body dysmorphic about my height, I always feel as if I am too tall or large. So drawing myself as a less than one inch person makes me feel the way I want to feel.

Unfortunately people shorter than me(5’4”, no hate to anyone who is shorter than me) trigger my body dysmorphia and make me feel self conscious. I always feel this anxiety in the back of my head, people shorter than me might comment on how much taller I am than them.
I feel like the drawings I made of me being tiny, even if they are low effort, help me feel more comfortable in public and around people shorter than me.
M/f media other people made also achieve this but I feel as if the drawings of me being tiny helped the most because they shrink me. And also media where there are a race of people much larger than humans achieved the same effect of drawings of me tiny.
It’s also why I personally feel very uncomfortable at size media with people much smaller than humans. I still think that media has a right to exist, even though I personally don’t like it. People worked very hard to animate The Secret World of Arrietty, it must have thousands of drawings.

M/f G/t and overall G/t used to be a fetish for me. And then it became a romantic interest to me(maybe still a fetish but with no sexual undertones). And now it’s so much more. To me, it’s an aesthetic, an interest, a romantic interest, and a mental illness cope.

Which is why I personally hate it when people think of the size community, they just think of “the giantess fetish”.

Does anyone else feel the same way about G/t and size? Does anybody else use size media as a mental illness cope?

@Olo Sorry, it’s covered by his arm. But I did put the eyes on the side in the parallelogram box. I am super proud of the smirk I gave him.

@Nyx Dreams of a Distant Sphere has such great world building for a story in general. It feels as if this wasn’t a kinky story it would be a great dystopian story. I know I praised this story before, but I had time to finish it and it is priceless. I just have to praise it again. There is so much angst and overall raw emotion reading it felt like a journey. If this was a full on novel I would definitely get it. Thank you so much for writing that story.

@TicTacLover Nice to meet you and welcome to Daddy’s Dollhouse.
I have not been on this site for super long but I hope long enough to be able to tell you what it’s like. So here is some advice I have and what it is like on this website(@Jitensha and @Seru created this site and so I don’t know everything about it):

Don’t be afraid to post a topic, I remember when I was new and afraid to post a new topic. Now I don’t regret my first post and I received greater self esteem from it. If you have something that has been troubling you about your fetish you can post it in the size life category. This site has helped significantly improve my mental health

Everybody, if not, at least most people are friendly on this site. Because there are people who have been oppressed for their M/f based interests including the jitensha on this site. People on this site have made it their goal on this site to validate and uplift each other.

You can show people your size preferences by joining groups which is the icon with three people at the top of your screen. The groups are giants, tinies, and size shifters. You don’t have to join groups, I have joined the tiny women group so people will know I only like being small.

If you have any questions about the site, you can post it in the community help section like you did with this post.

Anyways, I hope this comment was helpful. And I also hope this site helps you as much as it helped me and makes your size fantasies come to life.

@miss-lillipants Thank you, I have found lots of solace from this site and people like you

I heard that the uk passed the online safety act which will have porn sites have users give id.

I also heard that the size website outsized was worried about age verification due to some states passing laws for age verification.

I am worried about how this website will go about age verification. This age verification thing is clearly about control and possibly censorship. This website hosts a lot of taboo things and I am worried for the future of it.

What does everybody think?

@littlest-lily Yeah, I like being with someone who is “normal” sized to me, especially of they are female. I do kind of like the idea of being in a tiny harem as long as all the other tinies are all female. I personally am not a fan of being in a scenario where there are people of multiple sizes. I only like those scenarios where like you, I am the smallest, and the people bigger than me are are male.

@The-Big-G Obviously underage people should not be on a site with nsfw content.
However, having to show your ID to prove your 18 seems like too much for a lot of people because it’s a big privacy violation.
Showing my ID on the internet makes me feel very uncomfortable.

@miss-lillipants I relate to you a bit that your relationship with GTS content has made you feel more uncomfortable about the thought of being a giantess. Although I don’t like the thought of being the bigger one in general, the way the toxic part of the GTS community has acted has made me put of GTS content. I don’t dislike giantesses in general, but I do dislike the way some of their users act towards people who don’t like GTS also the lack of non GTS content in the size community.

For some reason there is this group of people in that community that assumes all women want to be giantesses. It’s really annoying because it’s very disrespectful and invalidating of people not into GTS. I’d Imagen how they’d react if I told them that I think all men wanted to be giants(I don’t actually think this way), they’d know how I feel.

I hope I am not repeating myself too much. I hope you and everyone knows that they are loved and perfectly valid.

This is a free service so no wallet is involved. I have a bluesky for all my art.

I will be posting my art on bluesky from now on instead of here. You will need to sign in or create an account because I will mark my art as suggestive from now on despite even if it’s relatively safe for work because it’s associated with fetish. Don’t get me wrong, I do really like this site, but it isn’t the best for are because there isn’t a way to just view a person’s pictures. With bluesky just go over to my profile and go to the media tab and you way see all my pictures.

hope you like and enjoy what I post, happy viewing

click on me to be taken to the bluesky profile

@Kisupure Now since I think about it, I agree that you are right about it being more related to past experiences.

Although my fetish is correlated to some of my past memories, it mainly just kind of came to me. I have always liked the idea of being small or with someone much larger than me. I have never liked being big. To me, it’s like a second sexual orientation (I apologize if it’s inappropriate to compare size preferences to sexual orientations)

I just made this topic because I have read articles and watched videos of people saying that macrophilia is very common amount men. I know that for adults, men usually grow taller than women by a few inches, so I thought it could be correlated to that.
Maybe in reality, it is equally common among men and women. But for some reason there are mainly reports on men having the fetish outside of the size community.

I do kind of get height dysphoria too, although I am average height, for some reason it makes me feel uncomfortable when I am with a bunch of people shorter than me, as if I am an alien height. So I sometimes slouch, I try not do it but it makes me feel more at ease. My height dysphoria could relate to my fetish.

@Olo I read one chapter of that story and it’s really good. @nephilim is a really talented author.

@littlest-lily Those do help a lot. I really like the SFW g/t community especially since I am ace, I really like looking at friendlyfoxpal’s work on deviantart. There can at times be some niches that I have that not in SFW, but I found it helps a lot. I do like to draw my own stuff too, it can be a bit labor intensive, but have enjoyed sharing pictures on this site.

It can be really difficult being part of a niche within a niche. But this community shown me there are something’s to look up to when being part of a very small community. For me, it seems as if there is less toxicity because there are less people and so less discourse.

Thank you for sharing some tips that can help me cope.