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@littlest-lily I’m lucky that I’m into M/f content and not F/m or something else, because I think there are a number of things about M/f that already appeal to what straight women are into, so it’s not that hard to make the fantasy seem appealing to normie women. (The crazy popularity of stuff like 50 Shades of Grey and Twilight is a pretty strong clue about what normie women appreciate. Even though my take on the fantasy is gentle and not rough or cruel, there’s definitely some overlap between M/f and 50 Shades. They both tap into a lot of the same themes and emotions.)
In my personal experience, women’s feelings about it tend to go beyond “wouldn’t mind the idea of it, in a lighthearted sense.” I once made a girl cry while doing M/f stuff with her (happy tears, not sad tears). I wasn’t TRYING to make her cry…it just happened. (I was certainly surprised by that!
) I’ve had girls say they wish it was real, and I’ve had them affectionately refer to me as “my giant” (completely unprompted). One girl told me that she always dreamed about me when she was asleep, and she said when she got into bed, she would always imagine herself lying on my chest. I half-jokingly asked her, “Are you normal-sized and just putting your head on my chest, or are you tiny?” She said, “Both. It depends. Sometimes I’m imagining myself tiny, and then when I fall asleep, I’m normal-sized in my dreams. Sometimes I start out normal-sized, and then I’m tiny in my dreams.” I was like: “WHAAAAAAT???” 
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She was regularly having dreams about me…in which she was tiny. WHAT??? 🤯 AND she was imagining herself tiny in order to fall asleep. WHAT? 🤯🤯 WHAT. WHAT. There was at least one time when I called her “my tiny one” and she said instantly she got chills all over her entire body. She said things like “I’ll gladly stay this size, as long as I have you to take care of me.” I did NOT plan this or put her up to it. Do I think these girls actually developed a true size kink or a legit “sexual” interest in this stuff? No, I think they were still normies at heart. I don’t think I truly “converted” them. I wasn’t even TRYING to “convert” them. But they didn’t need to have a full-blown size kink in order to enjoy all the emotions that came with the fantasy. The emotions were ripe for harvesting. Om nom nom…yummy emotions. Anyway, I think the average woman already has a SLIGHT size kink, judging by how much they love tall men.
(Semi-subconscious size kink, maybe? Size-kink-adjacent?)For the record, I’m 5’10", which is pretty average height. So the fact that these girls enjoyed the sizey stuff did not have anything to do with me being especially tall.
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@protect-tinies said in Looking for source of this GIF:
“WHAAAAAAT???”
🤯 She was regularly having dreams about me…in which she was tiny. WHAT??? 🤯 AND she was imagining herself tiny in order to fall asleep. WHAT? 🤯🤯 WHAT. WHAT.Holy fu…
I don’t even know what to say. Well, that’s it, you’re officially my hero, protector-of-tinies. You truly have a gift, I never got anything even remotely CLOSE to such a reaction, and I’m not sure if my mind could handle it lol.
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@protect-tinies as someone who is also upfront with normies about this fetish, I dig your style
Can’t say that I’m subtle about it but I like to think that makes things more fun -
@foreverlurk Hehe, it IS a skill that can be learned, but there’s also a fair amount of luck involved. The girl who was having tiny dreams was just one particular girl, and the chances of that exact scenario happening again are infinitesimal. Women are like a box of chocolates…you never know what you’re going to get. I don’t always get positive responses to the sizey stuff…I’ve had neutral responses too. But I’ve never had any negative responses, and the response is usually positive. Sometimes VERY positive.
@SmolChlo I’m not exactly “up front” with it, because I never tell anybody that it’s a kink for me, and I never talk about it with anyone except potential girlfriends. But then again, my interest in tiny women is both sexual and non-sexual, so it’s not STRICTLY a kink. The lines are kind of blurry. I can’t imagine what it would be like to be TRULY up front about it, with everyone! I don’t think I’m likely to ever go that route, but I salute you! Haha.
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@protect-tinies As frustrating as the lack of M/f content can be, I am thankful for the fact that it seems to be more accepted by the general population than giantess stuff. Of course, neither of these are prevalent enough to get an accurate understanding of how people feel about it, but from my personal experience people seem much more okay with M/f than F/m.
I’ve told two guys about my interest in this, and while they did think it was unusual they also said they found it to be adorable. Maybe I’m just lucky with my sample size, but it seems to be a much more accepting reaction than the endless articles talking about “how weird giantess fetish is!”
Maybe it has to do with the fact that I like shrinking, which people might see as harmless since it is more intimate and less destructive than growth. Or maybe because I’m a woman, and I feel like women with strange kinks are seen as less creepy than men are. (Not that that’s fair, just seems to be the bias people have.) I do think you have a good point about it connecting to the more typical preferences people have- men are more likely prefer the dominant role and women the submissive one.
I do feel for giantess-fans though. There is a lot of pressure for men to fit this mold of masculinity, and trying to seek safety and comfort from a woman is typically frowned upon. Which connects to size kink obviously.
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@blehb It’s likely because gender norms why GTS is more frowned on over SW but the other issue is GTS fans are much more rabid. They self sabotage themselves at times but also, their fanbase is bigger.
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@giantmaneddie said in Looking for source of this GIF:
They self sabotage themselves at times but also, their fanbase is bigger.
This. I can get, on the face of it, wanting bigger women because big boobs/legs/etc, but the fandom around drove me off and I never really went back, but I can’t go anywhere size-y without seeing them because they’re everywhere.
Power is choice.
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@i-am-insane said:
I can’t go anywhere size-y without seeing them because they’re everywhere.
They’re the reason that, when someone asks me about size fantasy, I don’t tell them to simply Google it.
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@giantmaneddie That’s fair! The giantess community definitely makes themselves more well-known than ours does, and having a larger and niche fanbase would naturally attract less “sociable” people, to say the least.
My previous post was definitely a focus on how this plays out in intimate situations as opposed to general entertainment. Which kind of gives me another thread idea.
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@Olo lesson learned. I recently told someone about this fetish and they were quick to Google it because within a matter of minutes they texted me back with a picture of a Giantess asking if I wanted her to step on me 🥲
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@protect-tinies said in Looking for source of this GIF:
my interest in tiny women is both sexual and non-sexual
Same, and that got me in trouble in the past with people who only see the kinky, sexual side. This forum is way more friendly to accommodate both kinds, than some others out there.
@blehb said in Looking for source of this GIF:
Or maybe because I’m a woman, and I feel like women with strange kinks are seen as less creepy than men are. (Not that that’s fair, just seems to be the bias people have.)
Absolutely! I never mentionned it beause I don’t want to sound like I’m wallowing up in self-pity, but it’s likely the main reason I’ve never told any women I cared about. I’d fear of being forever labeled as a weirdo, whereas I feel women can “come out” without facing the same stigma (again, might be societal bias at work here).
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@i-am-insane said in Looking for source of this GIF:
@giantmaneddie said in Looking for source of this GIF:
They self sabotage themselves at times but also, their fanbase is bigger.
This. I can get, on the face of it, wanting bigger women because big boobs/legs/etc, but the fandom around drove me off and I never really went back, but I can’t go anywhere size-y without seeing them because they’re everywhere.
I used to be active in the giantess community but there were so many terrible aspects to it that I don’t really participate much anymore. It was weird seeing how openly misogynistic attitudes were applauded; many of the giantess fans worshipped and loathed giant women at the same time. I’m sort of the same way when it comes to giantess content nowadays; I appreciate some of it but it also brings back bad feelings.
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Just something I’ve pondered before but do you think the GTS community goes as hard as it does because it’s fanbase is mostly male? (No offense to any males) Men are pretty vocal about their sexual interests and the kinds of content they’d like to see where as women are more shy when it comes to fully expressing our interests. I’ve seen females easily get dominated in the comment section on DA when it comes to requests for future content. One girl squeaks out M/f and the poor lass gets buried under the F/m outrage. Can’t tell if there’s more of them or if their just louder
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@foreverlurk said in Looking for source of this GIF:
Absolutely! I never mentionned it beause I don’t want to sound like I’m wallowing up in self-pity, but it’s likely the main reason I’ve never told any women I cared about. I’d fear of being forever labeled as a weirdo, whereas I feel women can “come out” without facing the same stigma (again, might be societal bias at work here).
Not self-pitying at all. I think discussing these pressures everyone feels is very healthy, and some weird assholes shouldn’t stop the rest of us from having fun!
Anything kink-related is going to be such a mixed bag of bullshit lol. Within the community, I feel like it’s so male-dominated, so it can be difficult creating female-oriented content. We’ve seen a lot of creators on here get questioned about their tastes or pressured into making giantess stuff, to the point where women practically don’t exist in the kink.
On the other hand, it’s probably a lot more uncomfortable for men to come forward about this stuff in real life (at least in cases like you, where you seem to be very considerate about how your partner will feel about it/react).
In the end, none of us win.
And of course, this is overlooking any size-fans who aren’t straight or cisgender. I can’t speak from experience, but I’m sure that comes with its own unique issues.
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@Nyx
I mean, you say misogynistic, but really, it feels like they just hate… humans, really. They turn women into tools for the sexuality, lobotomized them into mindless killers or amoral sociopaths as soon as they’re looking at someone smaller, yeah, but at best men generally end up as sex slaves in GTS, if not just killed. So much GTS stuff is just… ‘what if an apocalyptic meteor was a boob or a foot instead’ or something, like they just want everyone and everything to die. I can count actual gentle GTS stuff I remember on one hand, and one of the first size stories I ever found is a gentle one where the man is basiclly unbirthed into a permanent coma at the end.It’s very… I don’t know, it makes me think of a death cult, sometimes.
So, in Fate Extella, one of the main characters/waifu is not only a GTS (Nasu is an infamous obvious GTS fetishist, considering how many women in his settings end up gigantic), but is a literal world destroying monster. Yet, most of her interaction is kind, and there’s literally a (text only) sequence straight out of a gentle GTS dream (or an sw’s, considering you can have the mc be a female).
I saw someone on a forum say that Altera woke the GTS fetish in him, then he looked it up and lost it because of what he found. Presumably, in the span of the same day.
Power is choice.
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