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@skysayl I can’t believe that bemoaning the lack of f4M size audio would actually pay off one day I’m so grateful and I’ve already told you how much I loved it. It’s so wholesome and sweet.

My only issue with feet is that I only like them as an entrée or sidedish to the shrinking itself. I know of no better way to assert dominance, either playfully or roughly, over a SW.

I say it’s an issue because those who like feet, they realllly LOVE them very much. I’ve started posting some foot-ish content recentely and I’ve been bombarded by requests for more and more intense versions. I’m really not into the whole smelly/dirty thing, or (gasp) crushing. Some of those people can be pretty intense.

I don’t really have an issue with my feet, but they are rather large for my height (my shoe size is closer to what 6’+ dudes wear). But whatever, maybe I’m a Hobbit.

@blehb Nothing. There, I said it.

My only inner pockets are on my winter coat but they are very comfy, if too warm. You could literally wear nothing at all and still be comfortable. Did I just say my favourite clothing for SW is nothing? Damn.

Okay I’ll try again : I do love makeshift clothes, like hastily done only to recover some dignity. Anything a tiny woman fashions herself from bits and pieces of tissue, plastic, grass blades, whatever. It’s incredibly cute to my eyes. The classic tissue toga is the best.

@skysayl said in I found a crumb of M/f in a manga:

There was even a macrophile they interviewed who imagined herself as a tiny mouse to hide from everything that frightened her.

Such an interesting subject! I’ve recently had a discussion on the origins of our kink with a woman telling me almost the same thing verbatim - a way to deal with fears and trauma. There seems to be a good degree of correlation with anxiety overall.

Don’t know about other microphiles, I’ve mentioned before that one place it could stem from is extreme shyness. Social phobia wasn’t taken as seriously back then, especially in children (“oh it’s just a phase, it’ll pass”). I guess the thought of shrinking others, making myself bigger in some situations, might have been an internal coping mecanism?

The desire to protect (or control ) is harder to pinpoint - I always loved taking care of smaller animals, or looking after my younger siblings. Beyond that, I think I felt like I lacked control in my life - so having control over another smaller person could have been projection on my part.

Rendering someone helpless and harmless (ie. shrinking) meant I could approach her in spite of said shyness, annnd also act as caretaker. Don’t know if this makes any sense? How all this also became a kink, I’m at a complete loss to explain beyond “hurr durr, me wants tiny woman”

@blehb said in What celebrities would you want to see more of in sizekink content?:

All this talk about Henry Cavill, though. With him working on the Warhammer 40k series we might have plenty of size content to look forward to. A lot of the more powerful characters in that series can range from 8-15 feet tall. I know characters can manipulate their size to be hundreds of feet tall as well. Very exciting!

By the Throne, I didn’t know there were other WH40K fans here. Praise be to the Omnissiah, praise the Machine-God!

@blehb said in Another Size Kink Article:

@foreverlurk Luckily, in defense of the article, the experts and personal experiences state it could be from more serious childhood experiences, OR something as innocent as a TV show. Which I think is reasonable.

Hehe seriously some experts really like to claim we’re all from the same basket. I guess my point is more that they are inferring the actual cause as being related to those TV shows or traumas, or some parental issues growing up. Their sources are non-existent or purely based on their own observations, aka “trust me bro”.

To be fair judging by the doctor’s TikTok he seems mostly versed in the shrunken men/giantess fetish.

@miss-lillipants Thanks for sharing that article. Sadly, I’ve yet to see some in-depth research done specifically for size kinks (we don’t talk about Dr. Helen Friedman).

I agree there’s no be-all / end-all explanation to their origin, I’m not trying to find a universal truth. I’d just like to understand myself better.

@littlest-lily said in Depression and Size Kink:

I have a feeling (and it sounds like you do as well) that it might not be the fantasy itself that’s the core issue, so I do hope that once you’re in a better headspace the sizey yearning might not be quite so painful.

Thanks, Lily. That’s exactly what I think. This sizey longing can be (bitter)sweet too, and even be enjoyable, and I’ve lived with it just fine for a long while.

Right now it has been tainted by depression, and exacerbates my feeling of loneliness. I was curious if others have had those feelings as well, to some extent.

@blehb I love amour, the heavier the better. To be fair, armoured tinies can be fun too! I might have bought an 1/18 scale WH40K Adepta Sororitas, and even at 4 inches tall she’s pretty badass (and yes, the company is really called “JoyToy”)

@Olo I can still tell pretty easily, but then again I’ve spent hundreds of hours generating content and my eyes can spot the telltales of generative AI.

I do love the way you describe them as being statistically generated - a much better term IMHO, closer to reality (Markov Chain).

@The-Big-G haha I know but I cannot resist sizey puns and jokes !

@blehb said in Giants or shrinking?:

I love the intimacy of it - like I’m some sort of secret or possession of theirs.

That’s an important aspect to explain why I want to remain normal size while I shrink my victim or loved one. Being a giant is a different experience, one where intimacy is much harder to achieve.

In regards to how these relationships are tagged, I usually just refer to the bigger person as the giant

The classic, “Oh no, I’m not a giant; you’re the one who’s tiny, my dear.”

@SmolChlo I may have poured a bit of reality along with the fiction in that piece.Tends to happen when you live your life wishing for an impossible fantasy, I guess.

@Mrgoblinging7 Well first off when I was young I thought all imaginations were like that? I don’t know, it’s just one of the things you realize growing up that you have, like having a perfect pitch, or being able to hold a beat, or being colour-blind. You think it’s the same for everyone at first.

For sure this has caused me issues… it’s hard to let go when you can revisit moments in your memory, and re-experience them vividly, especially of times when you were happier. Might explain my tendency towards nostalgia, and why I still remember detailed stuff from childhood.

It also means I’m at the mercy of some fiction authors lol. If I really like what I’m reading, I go all in and view those scenes in my head. If it’s something really fucked up, I am NOT okay afterwards. But I still wouldn’t want to be rid of it. I’m just highlighting the cons.

Antidepressants somewhat tinker with hyperphantasia btw (along with a shit load of other things), makes memories and feelings more neutered and colourless. But hey, at least you don’t spend your day crying in a corner so that’s a plus, right?

@coolguy69 YES! Knowing what’s going on in that tiny body and head of hers is…

Kink aside, I would dream of being the scientist having to record what a women is experiencing as she’s shrinking. Hell even with the kink I’d be a super annoying giant “describe how I look to you”, “how does it feel when you get smaller”, or “are you scared of me?”. Give me ALL the details straight in my veins.