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@skysayl I can’t believe that bemoaning the lack of f4M size audio would actually pay off one day I’m so grateful and I’ve already told you how much I loved it. It’s so wholesome and sweet.

I have to say the aspect I love the most is shrinking - the actual process itself has always been as enjoyable to me as the aftermath. Seeing girls shrink in cartoons as a child was one of my first awakening experiences to the fantasy. I would replay in my mind the scenes, that’s why even to this day I love shrinking to be a rather slow, gradual thing.

I’m hopeless in the number of times I’ve imagined using shrink rays on unsuspecting victims…

Primary school teacher? SHRINK.
Girl I had a crush on in 8th grade? ZAP.
Woman who intimidates me? FIRE.
Cute co-worker? DOWN SHE GOES.

Thank god they couldn’t read my mind.

You seem to have had some pretty good experiences in RP, which I can’t really relate to. Maybe I haven’t been lucky, or probably I just suck at RP? I realized I simply can’t play the cruel giant, that’s not me. I can be playful, teasing, a bit rough or somewhat blissfully unaware of the fear I can cause, sure. But I love tinies too much to hurt them. Yeah I know the whole noncon shrinking is borderline and contradicts what I just said lol

Nowadays I’d much rather indulge in well-written fiction - the community has sooo many talented people.

@littlest-lily said in Trust:

Why can’t this be reaaallll

WHYYYY

… but seriously your art is the closest thing and captures perfectly the essence of the experience.

@Mrgoblinging7 Well first off when I was young I thought all imaginations were like that? I don’t know, it’s just one of the things you realize growing up that you have, like having a perfect pitch, or being able to hold a beat, or being colour-blind. You think it’s the same for everyone at first.

For sure this has caused me issues… it’s hard to let go when you can revisit moments in your memory, and re-experience them vividly, especially of times when you were happier. Might explain my tendency towards nostalgia, and why I still remember detailed stuff from childhood.

It also means I’m at the mercy of some fiction authors lol. If I really like what I’m reading, I go all in and view those scenes in my head. If it’s something really fucked up, I am NOT okay afterwards. But I still wouldn’t want to be rid of it. I’m just highlighting the cons.

Antidepressants somewhat tinker with hyperphantasia btw (along with a shit load of other things), makes memories and feelings more neutered and colourless. But hey, at least you don’t spend your day crying in a corner so that’s a plus, right?

@blehb said in A slightly evil scenario:

Or have her get smaller with every sneeze.

I love shrinking triggers like this. It’s fun when the shrinking is out of the SW’s direct control, but even more fun when it’s just slightly out of her control, ie.

• Shrinking when feeling a specific emotion (embarrassed/sad)
• Shrinking when in contact with something (rain/water)
• Shrinking when hearing a specific word (“shrink!”)
• Shrinking when turned on.

Things like these are less on the nose than shrink rays or potions, and the unpredicability of her size change is chef’s kiss to me. Getting tiny at the worst best possible time…

Just something I found, I guess most of you have seen this classic scif-fi comic from 1968 (no we don’t talk about the 2017 movie ) but someone uploaded a really high quality scan of the first album of the series, La Cité des eaux mouvantes, on Archive.org, which features a very nice SW sequence. Basically this mad scientist wants to test his shrinking device on Laureline (and keep her hostage so that Valérian won’t try any heroics):

Really nice… and did I mention the shrinking is PERMANENT? Sadly, the process is interrupted before it can be completed , so not only it’s now possible for her to revert back to normal(boo!), and instead of ending up two inches, she’s about 8 inches tall:

I just love how pissed off she is on Valérian’s shoulder

@blehb said

It’s a line I want to cross but I can’t bring myself to do it.

Same. I suck at this so much. I don’t want to wallow up in self-pity again, but me being a dom cishet male in my 40s brings a whole lot of bonus difficulty to opening up (perceived or real), that some in the “it’s-no-big-deal” crowd might not have to account for.

Or maybe that’s just my excuse ¯_ (ツ)_/¯

I mean, folks don’t tend to post their L’s online, but I’ve had some private conversations with people who “came out” to their partners about their size kink and things went horribly wrong. You don’t really hear about those, but it’s always a possibility.

(Chlo I’m sure you’ll be fine, please don’t mind me)

@blehb Thread necromancy is legal in these parts, I think!

I’ll admit this scenario has been on my mind, too. I’m really tempted to steal Lily’s idea and adapt it to a Canadian/Quebec setting. I might have even an outline of that potential story

Roleplaying wise, I love the idea of going in “blind”, full meta and not using English (or any language both partner know) for anything other than scene or action description. All dialogue in native tongue, only (and no cheating using AI translator!) Complex because it requires bilingual partners that don’t actually share a common language… hmm, I don’t know if it’s an invitation but that could be fun.

@skysayl that’s the fun part, if he sees she’s about to win, just pick her up, disorient her and drop her somewhere else in the maze.

Truth is, the game was rigged from the start.

@GoddessAngela and that’s perfectly fine!

What’s not is telling M/f content creators that they should do giantess or shrunken men content instead, and not respect their preferred size dynamics.

@blehb said in I feel like 'unaware' tends to be pretty uncommon in M/f. What is everyone's opinions on it?:

I don’t think you can get more submissive than unaware. For someone to fully dominate you and not even do it intentionally- you feel so tiny and insignificant! And the best part is that the giant could be the nicest person ever. The idea of being so mean to a tiny might repulse them… unfortunately, they’re just so much bigger and stronger than you that the bullying happens on accident. And I love how flustered they get upon becoming aware of things.

Why are you calling me out like this?!

Seriously taps into soo many things I love all at once. Strangely I’m not even a fan of unaware because I’m craving interaction too much, but this is just perfect for a “first encounter”. Dominating her without even trying, or knowing. The idea that I could have hurt her fragile form by accident, just because of my sheer size is both scary and exciting. I can’t really be cruel or hurt tinies consciously, heck even in VR I feel guilty when I accidently send a tiny flying, I can’t imagine hurting her IRL… I would be sorry beyond words.

@blehb said in I feel like 'unaware' tends to be pretty uncommon in M/f. What is everyone's opinions on it?:

Where he sort of treats you like a pesky little bug. Doesn’t even have to be in a mean way, but sometimes tinies can be so exasperating!

Oh you bet they can be little brats! It’s both annoying and endearing at the same time (“Ugh, stop doing that!” please don’t stop)

Holy crap there’s something huge back there (not talking about the giant himself, but err…)

That being said IRL naturists are usually the chillest, most respectful people I’ve met. That guy is breaking about all the “laws” of nude beaches lol.

As Big G mentionned, any very short (5’2" and under) women can trigger spontaneous sizey thoughts. Even taller ones, depending on the vibe - yes, she’s hot, but what if smol

Otherwise it’s the most random things - a woman wearing an oversized piece of clothing, or struggling to reach the top shelf at the grocery store. Or just using an everyday expression (ie. “I’d like to be as small as a mouse to hear what they said in that meeting!”)

My mind wanders.

@blehb Nothing. There, I said it.

My only inner pockets are on my winter coat but they are very comfy, if too warm. You could literally wear nothing at all and still be comfortable. Did I just say my favourite clothing for SW is nothing? Damn.

Okay I’ll try again : I do love makeshift clothes, like hastily done only to recover some dignity. Anything a tiny woman fashions herself from bits and pieces of tissue, plastic, grass blades, whatever. It’s incredibly cute to my eyes. The classic tissue toga is the best.

@skysayl said in I found a crumb of M/f in a manga:

There was even a macrophile they interviewed who imagined herself as a tiny mouse to hide from everything that frightened her.

Such an interesting subject! I’ve recently had a discussion on the origins of our kink with a woman telling me almost the same thing verbatim - a way to deal with fears and trauma. There seems to be a good degree of correlation with anxiety overall.

Don’t know about other microphiles, I’ve mentioned before that one place it could stem from is extreme shyness. Social phobia wasn’t taken as seriously back then, especially in children (“oh it’s just a phase, it’ll pass”). I guess the thought of shrinking others, making myself bigger in some situations, might have been an internal coping mecanism?

The desire to protect (or control ) is harder to pinpoint - I always loved taking care of smaller animals, or looking after my younger siblings. Beyond that, I think I felt like I lacked control in my life - so having control over another smaller person could have been projection on my part.

Rendering someone helpless and harmless (ie. shrinking) meant I could approach her in spite of said shyness, annnd also act as caretaker. Don’t know if this makes any sense? How all this also became a kink, I’m at a complete loss to explain beyond “hurr durr, me wants tiny woman”